jealousy
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hey peepS!!~ how you guys doing..
anyway a qns to ask you..
if your boyfren or husband works in the clubbing line..he gets to associate with lotsa gurls..esp attractive ones..
even though you know its ok..you kinda get jealous or weary about it..
do you think its justifieD?
sounds petty and superficial eh!!~
haha..but hey..we do feel it sometimes dont we? -
O! THAT GOOD TO BE JEALOUR TO SOMEONE YOU LOVE THAT SHOW THAT YOU REALY IN LOVE WITH HIM . AS FOR AS A WOMAN I WILL JEALOUR BUT I WILL SHOW MY LOVE ONE THAT HE CAN HAVE GIRLFRIENDS AS MANY AS HE LIKE ,I DON'T MIND.
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do you usually converse in madarin or something?
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AS LONG A YOU ARE HAPPY WITH WHAT U3 THINK OR DO . THAT LIFE.
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Well well.......
If the boyfriends or husband get to see pretty gals all the time, of course we get jealous lah. We, as normal human creaturres will feel insecure as we think we lose out to those pretty chio gals. However, put it this way......maybe the guys in this line see chio cha bos see til sian and immuned so they go fo something more than looks for their real partners.
To get jealous? hmm....then we will have to ask ourselves whether we are jealous of him seeing chio gals all the time or just jealous about being inferior to the gals.
heehha.....two different issues totally. Justification depends on what the jealousy is based upon......
Wooohooooo.......
I get envious all the time of chio gals..... -
errie:
Trust is the basis of all relationships.
If you trust him to steer clear of trouble. You won't get so jealous.
Hee... but I get jealous too... coz I dun like my property being put out in the public.
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Of course its justified.
I would pounce at any attractive girl if I had the chance. Some guys do that, so you have a cause for worry.
However, you added in your question the line "even though you know its ok." That means you are sure that his heart belongs to you. Thats a very important clause in your question.
In this case, whats there to worry about?
The females might be nice to look at, but if his heart is taken (by you I assume,) they are just that. Nice to look at. -
what all of you peeps say were all true...
and what i feel too..
probably i think jealously is something innate in us...or at least for me..
as pacman says...i know its ok..but you just kinda make yourself feel that way..
and lex...definitely...trust is really important...
tdg...i think we chio enuf..dont have to worry...hahahaha...
n think its also true that sometimes we do feel inferior about ourselves...in comparison that is..
if i were to find a gorgeous guy i would definitely take a 2nd glance..wouldnt you??
*grinz*
[This message has been edited by erriegal (edited 07 May 2000).] -
tet: u tok beri chim leh
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Yeah...
Inferiority complex lurks in everyone of us... we have to overcome it not by denial or comparison but loving yourself.
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exams in 6 days time!!!!!!!~
*pulls her hair out*
hehe..pray for me pple!!~
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Heehee, now now, surely you'd trust your boyfriend enuff for him to act responsibly?
Come on lah, if a handsome guy with 'veiny' arms walks past, you'd drool rite tet? heehee, but that doesn't mean you'd dump your bf straight away for that hunk of guy rite? ... rite? -
eh..atreiu..hehehe...
you never know..WHAAHHAHA -
so erriegal, you saying you will ah?
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wah then u so sure your bf will wait for you and accept you after what you did?
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atreiu: of course he wun mind, she will be very rich then ...
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tet arr...when you find one can i share with you???
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but she'll be unpure......
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i also share with erriegal and tet okie?
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tet tet tet, did i say share YOU??
i meant share the old man lah! -
but she'll be unpure...... <--- hwere got say old man?? saying you lah!
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atreiu:
You dun anyhow anyhow say unpure ah...
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yeah lor
unpure unpure unpure
got such a nasty ring to it!!!
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The Far East Pilgrim -
*TDG rolls eyes due to blur ateriu.....*
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eh...tet nowadays very notti..but i like!!!!!!~wahahahaaa....
i was thinking i will mop the floor till its squeaky clean..then when our old old man walks...hiak hiak.....