okay...if you have this problem..it's something to do with a corrupt database, not your internet connection, if the flower just keeps on spinning colorfully without connecting.
there are two choices. start anew (lose your whole contact list) or you can keep it (but a lot of work.)
okay...if you want to "keep" your contact list :
1.Even if ICQ can't connect...you can still see the people there right? Copy their UINs into a text file...then add them all manually...that's what I did...all 250+ of them...it took only an hour.
*if you just want icq running again...without your contact list, skip #1
2. then...what you have to do is DELETE the db99b, db, and uin folder, and run icq.exe
3. when u delete those folders, icq will assume that there are no icq users on the computer anymore, so a prompt will appear...choose register existing user, and enter in your UIN and password.
4. taddaaa!
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