suggestions urgently needed
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like tat lor. it might sound bad. better than let him fall deeper rite? and end up sour the frdship?Originally posted by Lynette80:there was one occasion i tell him tat i appreciate wat he has done for me... then i sae to me.... i dun want to be in any relationship right now..... den when i tell him tat i got to noe new guys, he will be unhappy... dunno wat to do.... -
one thing for sure... i can tell u tat the ger is not making use of tat guy... furthermore tat ger in the senario is me...
i have never ever make use of tat guy.. when i broke off with my ex, i confide in him.. i never even sae i like him or wat... i just treat him like how i treat other guy friends... one thing i must admit, he is a superb guy.. when i needed him, he was always there for me...
but there are no love involved in this friendship...
right now, i dun even dare to sms him.. whenever he sms me then i will reply lor.. but he will sae to me "if i dun msg u den u dunno how to msg me meh?"
mabbe to some pple out there, i am making use of him... aiya... i also dunnoe la.... i onlie he is a good guy.. i not suitable for him...
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ya... i just treat him as normal guy friends mar.. other guy friends also dun have tis type of problem......Originally posted by strawberri:hmmpz.. dun tink e gal is makin use of e guy lorz.. she din take him 4 granted wad.. she said dey were frens!! mayb e guy gt e wrong msg?? heehee..
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Well, but is he thinking the same as u? Hmm, I happen to come across this situation before. This ger really treat me nice and somehow during my chalet, she was there and somehow everyone turn up at the chalet though we were an item. But things doesnt turn out wat was expected when I told her I like her. All the while she only took me as a frd? In fact, till now, I still have no idea wat the relationship between both of us.Originally posted by Lynette80:one thing for sure... i can tell u tat the ger is not making use of tat guy... furthermore tat ger in the senario is me...
i have never ever make use of tat guy.. when i broke off with my ex, i confide in him.. i never even sae i like him or wat... i just treat him like how i treat other guy friends... one thing i must admit, he is a superb guy.. when i needed him, he was always there for me...
but there are no love involved in this friendship...
right now, i dun even dare to sms him.. whenever he sms me then i will reply lor.. but he will sae to me "if i dun msg u den u dunno how to msg me meh?"
mabbe to some pple out there, i am making use of him... aiya... i also dunnoe la.... i onlie he is a good guy.. i not suitable for him...
I guess it would be good if u explain thing or do something to hint him / inform him. -
Believe me, you don't have to feel bad at all. If you lead him on, it's even worse, you'll hurt him even more. So you are doing the right thing. Can't force yourself to like him if you don't wat. As long as you let him down gently, he will appreciate your honestyOriginally posted by Lynette80:i already tried to distant myself from him.. i think roughly he get the idea.. somehow i just feel tat i very bad.. but right from the beginning, i onlie treat him as a good friend.. its tat simple...
*sigh* Have to wake up so early just to finisg my report
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I think the society should turn tables.Originally posted by Lynette80:hehee.. nothing to do.. so tot of posting a question here...
Senario:
Recently, u just fell out of love.. coincidentally, a good friend of urs also fell out of love...
Everydae u tok on the fone with him, pouring all ur woes to him...
after weeks of toking, u felt comfortable toking to him and telling him all ur problems....
one day he asked u "eh, u not scared i fall for u meh?"
but u dun have a single tiny winny feeling for him..... but he was very nice, help u do projects... wait for u to come home whenever u reach home, msg u those sweet sms....
as time pass.... u feel tat he very "fan"... u dun even feel like contacting with him... how how how ar?
Let the girls come ask the guys out on a date rather than old traditional method of guys asking girls out.
When guys don't ask them out ...... they ask why nobody wants me ? When guys ask them out ...... When is he so irritating ??
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i tot u wanna sae tat u wake up so earlie just to post a reply here? hehehe =POriginally posted by Wh|mSiCaL:Believe me, you don't have to feel bad at all. If you lead him on, it's even worse, you'll hurt him even more. So you are doing the right thing. Can't force yourself to like him if you don't wat. As long as you let him down gently, he will appreciate your honesty
*sigh* Have to wake up so early just to finisg my report
i never lead him in the first place lor.. never ever.. he just a simple friend to me.. and i treasure this friend alot... i think i will tok to him and tell him tat i just treat him like any normal friends....
but i will have to think of a more appropriate way so tat i wun hurt him.. -
if i were you.. i would ask him out ..have a chat ... face to face ... think its the best solution .. just express out what u feel... let your heart have a chance in this conversation...say whatever how you feel...Originally posted by Lynette80:i tot u wanna sae tat u wake up so earlie just to post a reply here? hehehe =P
i never lead him in the first place lor.. never ever.. he just a simple friend to me.. and i treasure this friend alot... i think i will tok to him and tell him tat i just treat him like any normal friends....
but i will have to think of a more appropriate way so tat i wun hurt him..
for me ..i won't give hints to people ... just bomb in his face ...haha.. thats for me lah ..
Well.. not say i wanna curse you or what... this friendship between the 2 of you will never be the same as before ..
sometimes in life, you have to let some really good friends go.. I am just speaking thru my own experience...
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just be friends with him lor... make him understand that u are not suitable for him.. or tell him that is better for both of u to be friends then going into relationships and there are even better gal than u out there... although it is straight forward but rather than letting him sinks deeper and deeper mah... like means like dun like means dun like.. there nothing as make use of him or what lor... silly galOriginally posted by Lynette80:one thing for sure... i can tell u tat the ger is not making use of tat guy... furthermore tat ger in the senario is me...
i have never ever make use of tat guy.. when i broke off with my ex, i confide in him.. i never even sae i like him or wat... i just treat him like how i treat other guy friends... one thing i must admit, he is a superb guy.. when i needed him, he was always there for me...
but there are no love involved in this friendship...
right now, i dun even dare to sms him.. whenever he sms me then i will reply lor.. but he will sae to me "if i dun msg u den u dunno how to msg me meh?"
mabbe to some pple out there, i am making use of him... aiya... i also dunnoe la.... i onlie he is a good guy.. i not suitable for him... 
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it is like a problem put simple..as below
u go toliet pang sai, those squat one, than after pang sai, u realise that after u flush, some of them still stick to the toliet bowl...u cannot use hand to make it go, u also scare that the next person will know you donno how to pang sai... -
............Originally posted by De|usi0n:it is like a problem put simple..as below
u go toliet pang sai, those squat one, than after pang sai, u realise that after u flush, some of them still stick to the toliet bowl...u cannot use hand to make it go, u also scare that the next person will know you donno how to pang sai...
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tell him straight in the face tat i dont have any feelings for him? how to open mouth? me always very wishy washy one.. .. so bad..Originally posted by Transmission:if i were you.. i would ask him out ..have a chat ... face to face ... think its the best solution .. just express out what u feel... let your heart have a chance in this conversation...say whatever how you feel...
for me ..i won't give hints to people ... just bomb in his face ...haha.. thats for me lah ..
Well.. not say i wanna curse you or what... this friendship between the 2 of you will never be the same as before ..
sometimes in life, you have to let some really good friends go.. I am just speaking thru my own experience...
good luck ah ... -
De|usion theory.. hahaOriginally posted by RebeL:............
Wat theory is tat ?! -
Better tell now den to lead him on rite...dun have to tell in face mah...via sms or icq also can rite...Originally posted by Lynette80:tell him straight in the face tat i dont have any feelings for him? how to open mouth? me always very wishy washy one.. .. so bad.. -
ya.. tell him earlier lorz.. if u dun wan tell him straight.. at least hint hint lorz.. (but muz b quite ming xian lorz).. heehee.. góód luck..Originally posted by RebeL:Better tell now den to lead him on rite...dun have to tell in face mah...via sms or icq also can rite... -
lead him on is not an appropriate phrase to use.. cause' right in the beginning i no lead him on .. .till today, i also never lead him on.. wrong usage of word..Originally posted by RebeL:Better tell now den to lead him on rite...dun have to tell in face mah...via sms or icq also can rite... -
hint but must be obvious? sounds profound to me..Originally posted by RebeL:Better tell now den to lead him on rite...dun have to tell in face mah...via sms or icq also can rite... -
Dear lynette..hmm mayb u could try tis since u say u wishy washy type..1 dae juz hav a ausual chat wif him...den slowly try to say hee u no gf ah...help u intro...got tis ger intro u...(fake 1 lah)...sure he will get the hint n not feel bad if he is smart enuff...
*Point to note...tis nv happen to me b4 horr....errrr i juz read it in a book* -
then what if backfire???Originally posted by Twice A Day:Dear lynette..hmm mayb u could try tis since u say u wishy washy type..1 dae juz hav a ausual chat wif him...den slowly try to say hee u no gf ah...help u intro...got tis ger intro u...(fake 1 lah)...sure he will get the hint n not feel bad if he is smart enuff...
*Point to note...tis nv happen to me b4 horr....errrr i juz read it in a book*
Lynette80: hee u no gf ah...help u intro...got tis ger intro u...
Mystery man: Who ??
lynette80: one girl in my course... she very cute wor
Mystery man:MAi lah ...wa kia si lah...
lynette80: yee...no ping pong balls one ...
Mystery man
kie... since u said that ... i shall ..
Lynette80: what? ? what u wan say ..dun say half half lehh...
Mystery man: I like you lynette80... i really do... please be my gf ...
Lynette80:
Mystery man:
then after that .... how ?
Twice a day complete it ...
or lynette ... also can complete it ...
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Ta ma de transmission..u wan tio ah...
Lynette80: hee u no gf ah...help u intro...got tis ger intro u...
Mystery man: Who ??
lynette80: one girl in my course... she very cute wor
Mystery man:MAi lah ...wa kia si lah...
lynette80: yee...no ping pong balls one ...
Mystery mankie... since u said that ... i shall ..
Lynette80: what? ? what u wan say ..dun say half half lehh...
Mystery man: I like you lynette80... i really do... please be my gf ...
Lynette80:
...the ger i wan to intro u is actually me...
Mystery man: Harr...lynette....
Lynette80: Yah i have always been carrying a torch 4 u...
will u marry me??
Mystery man: What??
Lynette80: Actually im a lesbian...i wan ur fren's xxx's number....
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Originally posted by Twice A Day:Ta ma de transmission..u wan tio ah...
Lynette80: hee u no gf ah...help u intro...got tis ger intro u...
Mystery man: Who ??
lynette80: one girl in my course... she very cute wor
Mystery man:MAi lah ...wa kia si lah...
lynette80: yee...no ping pong balls one ...
Mystery mankie... since u said that ... i shall ..
Lynette80: what? ? what u wan say ..dun say half half lehh...
Mystery man: I like you lynette80... i really do... please be my gf ...
Lynette80: ...the ger i wan to intro u is actually me...
Mystery man: Harr...lynette....
Lynette80: Yah i have always been carrying a torch 4 u...
will u marry me??
Mystery man: What??
Lynette80: Actually im a lesbian...i wan ur fren's xxx's number....
In the end they parted ways n lived happily ever after...
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or another sugguestion is just keep this case as K.I.V first lor.... maybe when the time is long liao hopefully he will run out of patience and give up on u or maybe he will find another gf?? As i feel that guys this day properly wont like wait for a gals for a few yrs?!!! i think after a month or so he will give up and target on others gal liao...Originally posted by Lynette80:tell him straight in the face tat i dont have any feelings for him? how to open mouth? me always very wishy washy one.. .. so bad.. -
twice a day & transmission, u 2 very bad le.. make my life into a farni story ?
might as well tell him i got "Gf" den sae i dun like guys anymore.. liddat can? more appropriate rite? -
set this aside? waw liew.. wat if later very long liao den he still no gf.. if i ask him why.. den he sae i still waiting for u..Originally posted by xiao_shin:or another sugguestion is just keep this case as K.I.V first lor.... maybe when the time is long liao hopefully he will run out of patience and give up on u or maybe he will find another gf?? As i feel that guys this day properly wont like wait for a gals for a few yrs?!!! i think after a month or so he will give up and target on others gal liao...
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aiya he should noe what this type of things it takes two hands to clap one mah.... then like that is his one sided affair liao lor... moreover i guess u wont be like seeing him everyday right... u tell him first that u both can only be friends.. then the rest is up to him liao lor.... dun complicate things by thinking so much... if he rather to give up the whole forest becoz of one flower then me nothing to say liao lor... but i think guys now a days wont so stupid one lah..Originally posted by Lynette80:set this aside? waw liew.. wat if later very long liao den he still no gf.. if i ask him why.. den he sae i still waiting for u..
*pengZ*
although there will be also some minority out there..