suggestions urgently needed
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hehee.. nothing to do.. so tot of posting a question here...
Senario:
Recently, u just fell out of love.. coincidentally, a good friend of urs also fell out of love...
Everydae u tok on the fone with him, pouring all ur woes to him...
after weeks of toking, u felt comfortable toking to him and telling him all ur problems....
one day he asked u "eh, u not scared i fall for u meh?"
but u dun have a single tiny winny feeling for him..... but he was very nice, help u do projects... wait for u to come home whenever u reach home, msg u those sweet sms....
as time pass.... u feel tat he very "fan"... u dun even feel like contacting with him... how how how ar?
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THEN i can say the girl is a bitch herself -
make things clear to him lor..
"it's impossble btw u and me~~"
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make things clear to him lor..
"it's impossble btw u and me~~" -
in the first place the ger got make it clear tat she dun like him mar....Originally posted by eric1979: THEN i can say the girl is a bitch herself -
so direct ar? wun hurt tat guy meh?Originally posted by dill:make things clear to him lor..
"it's impossble btw u and me~~" -
Just say "I really appreciate your help and concern for me.. you're a really good friend!! And Im happy the way we are now ; best buddies (or whatever)"
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Well, just be nice to him and still treat him as a friend, but distance yourself, he will get the hint.
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thn tell him theres a new guy in yr life lah.Originally posted by Lynette80:so direct ar? wun hurt tat guy meh? -
Originally posted by Lynette80:in the first place the ger got make it clear tat she dun like him mar.... she in the 1st place should not be so close to him..will make him feel like she like him...esp when that ger break recently..the guy will be thinking that he got chance if he likes her.
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I agree with eric1979, sometimes it is hard to keep things platonic between a guy and a girl.Originally posted by eric1979: she in the 1st place should not be so close to him..will make him feel like she like him...esp when that ger break recently..the guy will be thinking that he got chance if he likes her. -
Or just tell him "You are great as a good friend, but defintely not a good boyfriend material, cuz you aint my type."
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guess this guy is a poor thing.....
cuz he entered at the wrong time.... when the ger need someone, he's there....
now the ger have grown out of the depression... no longer need him....
no offence, but maybe u should just tell him that he is a nice friend....
but please be gentle with him..... plz be.... -
gers in this kind of state..tends to like to make use of someone to fill up her void..after she grow tired of it or she is feeling better..she will be reusme her playfuinessOriginally posted by extr0vert:guess this guy is a poor thing.....
cuz he entered at the wrong time.... when the ger need someone, he's there....
now the ger have grown out of the depression... no longer need him....
no offence, but maybe u should just tell him that he is a nice friend....
but please be gentle with him..... plz be.... -
Tink the gal juz making use of the guy lohz...taking him for granted...
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This one sure works...
Since u said u and him pour feelings towards to each other...
Just tell him,hey i need to tell u something..i just fall in love wif a guy from the net called evererin...sure works....
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i think the gal is not at fault..she might be jus enjoy acommpany by her guy fren..mayb it is the guy who had the wrong idea....but if the gal now feel fan, she should make thing clear to the guy and not mislead him again....mi as a gal..i understand...
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have we ascertained that the guy likes the girl in the first place, and that the girl isn't "zhi zhuo duo qing"?
i know it's a scenario, so anything goes.
let's just say the guy was just flirting and he didn't mean anything by that statement. which means he is still doing the same thing that he has been since they got close. HE hasn't changed, but SHE has, all of a sudden feeling "fan" and don't wanna contact him. pretty obvious here who's in the "wrong".
however if the guy has fallen for her, then nobody's wrong. such things happen. of course the girl has every right to reject him gracefully, and well, it's all up to the imagination as to what might happen next. he may relent and just be frens, or go haywire and pester her even more. so, AGAIN, it's pretty obvious who's "right and wrong" here.
i tend to put quotes to my "rights" and "wrongs" becos, well, u know this little thing called "life"? It isn't/shouldn't always be bounded by rules.
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u could layeth the smacketh down on his roody poo candy a$$
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Originally posted by Lynette80:hehee.. nothing to do.. so tot of posting a question here...
Senario:
Recently, u just fell out of love.. coincidentally, a good friend of urs also fell out of love...
Everydae u tok on the fone with him, pouring all ur woes to him...
after weeks of toking, u felt comfortable toking to him and telling him all ur problems....
one day he asked u "eh, u not scared i fall for u meh?"
but u dun have a single tiny winny feeling for him..... but he was very nice, help u do projects... wait for u to come home whenever u reach home, msg u those sweet sms....
the ger is u iziT
as time pass.... u feel tat he very "fan"... u dun even feel like contacting with him... how how how ar? -
hmmpz.. dun tink e gal is makin use of e guy lorz.. she din take him 4 granted wad.. she said dey were frens!! mayb e guy gt e wrong msg?? heehee..Originally posted by RebeL:Tink the gal juz making use of the guy lohz...taking him for granted... -
hmmpz.. tink e gal shld tell e guy e truth.. i noe.. truth mayb cruel.. but if e gal dun clear things up soon.. e result may be disastrous.. lidat more cruel.. heehee.. since u sae e guy oso fell out of luv.. so mayb he oso tryin to fill e empty "place" in his heart?? juz my opinion.. heehee.. hope e gal solve e problem soon!! Good luck!!Originally posted by Lynette80:hehee.. nothing to do.. so tot of posting a question here...
Senario:
Recently, u just fell out of love.. coincidentally, a good friend of urs also fell out of love...
Everydae u tok on the fone with him, pouring all ur woes to him...
after weeks of toking, u felt comfortable toking to him and telling him all ur problems....
one day he asked u "eh, u not scared i fall for u meh?"
but u dun have a single tiny winny feeling for him..... but he was very nice, help u do projects... wait for u to come home whenever u reach home, msg u those sweet sms....
as time pass.... u feel tat he very "fan"... u dun even feel like contacting with him... how how how ar? -
It's quite unfair to the guy.
Beside being more sensitive with body contact with the guy, it will be good if the girl do speak carefully. Just in case she mislead the poor guy.
Anyway, both parties cant be blame as mention. Cos both parties fall out of love at the same time but perhaps the guy is thinking too much due to the reaction from the ger? -
there was one occasion i tell him tat i appreciate wat he has done for me... then i sae to me.... i dun want to be in any relationship right now..... den when i tell him tat i got to noe new guys, he will be unhappy... dunno wat to do....Originally posted by Bianca:Just say "I really appreciate your help and concern for me.. you're a really good friend!! And Im happy the way we are now ; best buddies (or whatever)" -
i already tried to distant myself from him.. i think roughly he get the idea.. somehow i just feel tat i very bad.. but right from the beginning, i onlie treat him as a good friend.. its tat simple...Originally posted by Wh|mSiCaL:Well, just be nice to him and still treat him as a friend, but distance yourself, he will get the hint.