Originally posted by Warm hearted man passive:
You did not criticise *me*. You criticised *Chen* for not being able to somehow defend himself against a more *powerful* being. You are the freak here.
Karma again, dear. its his retribution, dear
Originally posted by Jiani:I think CHEN bullied Xinyi in her previous life and this is his retribution
In their previous incarnations, Chen was Xinyi and Xinyi was Chen. Doesn't make the bullying anymore right. No one should misuse their power against a child -- especially a handicapped child whose disability makes him so sweet, sensitive, and innocent.
More and more, you sound like macho man who was just released from prison and was in prison for physically-injuring a boy-child. Not accusing you of anything, just expressing my impression of you. If you were really a woman, you wouldn't try to justify the bullying of boy-children. Women usually treat children equally, it's men who favor girls over boys. Since you fit the latter category, it's obvious you're a man.
Originally posted by Warm hearted man passive:
In their previous incarnations, Chen was Xinyi and Xinyi was Chen. Doesn't make the bullying anymore right. No one should misuse their power against a child -- especially a handicapped child whose disability makes him so sweet, sensitive, and innocent.
More and more, you sound like macho man who was just released from prison and was in prison for physically-injuring a boy-child. Not accusing you of anything, just expressing my impression of you. If you were really a woman, you wouldn't try to justify the bullying of boy-children. Women usually treat children equally, it's men who favor girls over boys. Since you fit the latter category, it's obvious you're a man.
Because you preach karma, i will preach karma too.
i treat everyone equally.
Originally posted by Jiani:
i treat everyone equally.
Then why did you laugh at the case? Why did you call Chen "dumb" and "wimp" for being unable to defend himself? If the genders were reversed, you're reaction would be very different. So it seems -- at least to me -- that you *do* favor girls over boys, in which case you are most likely a man.
Originally posted by Warm hearted man passive:
Then why did you laugh at the case? Why did you call Chen "dumb" and "wimp" for being unable to defend himself? If the genders were reversed, you're reaction would be very different. So it seems -- at least to me -- that you *do* favor girls over boys, in which case you are most likely a man.
Chen should stood at least stand up for himself and tell teacher or principal on what happen. They will definately investigate
and i am 13 year old girl
Originally posted by Jiani:
Chen stood at least stand up for himself and tell teacher or principal on what happen. They will definately investigateand i am 13 year old girl
Chen doesn't have the aggression in him to defend himself or comment/question anyone/anything. It's part of his mental disability. Besides, if he does report the abuse, the male staff will just laugh at him for being beaten up by a girl. More imporantly, Xinyi can always retaliate by lying that he "molested" her and every1 will believe her causing him to be executed in public. Don't you understand? Chen is trapped, there isn't a thing he can do. Give the sweet boy a break. He doesn't choose to be in this situation.
Just because Chen is born a boy does not mean society should expect him to handle unbearable pain from anyone -- including a girl. He should not be expected to defend himself either, society should protect him because, at 15, a boy is still a child. Children of any gender deserve protection from abuse.
Originally posted by Warm hearted man passive:
Chen doesn't have the aggression in him to defend himself or comment/question anyone/anything. It's part of his mental disability. Besides, if he does report the abuse, the male staff will just laugh at him for being beaten up by a girl. More imporantly, Xinyi can always retaliate by lying that he "molested" her and every1 will believe her causing him to be executed in public. Don't you understand? Chen is trapped, there isn't a thing he can do. Give the sweet boy a break. He doesn't choose to be in this situation.
Just because Chen is born a boy does not mean society should expect him to handle unbearable pain from anyone -- including a girl. He should not be expected to defend himself either, society should protect him because, at 15, a boy is still a child. Children of any gender deserve protection from abuse.
tell police to step in and place security cameras all around him
Originally posted by Warm hearted man passive:
Chen doesn't have the aggression in him to defend himself or comment/question anyone/anything. It's part of his mental disability. Besides, if he does report the abuse, the male staff will just laugh at him for being beaten up by a girl. More imporantly, Xinyi can always retaliate by lying that he "molested" her and every1 will believe her causing him to be executed in public. Don't you understand? Chen is trapped, there isn't a thing he can do. Give the sweet boy a break. He doesn't choose to be in this situation.
Just because Chen is born a boy does not mean society should expect him to handle unbearable pain from anyone -- including a girl. He should not be expected to defend himself either, society should protect him because, at 15, a boy is still a child. Children of any gender deserve protection from abuse.
Golden of singapore schools, no laughing at students
Unless your from China
Originally posted by Jiani:
tell police to step in and place security cameras all around him
I doubt that'll do much good. The police -- who are mostly men -- will probably side with Xinyi.
Once again, I feel so sorry for that sweet tender Chen. He as soft as butter, yet Xinyi is cruel enough to exploit him.
Chen probably wishes her were a girl. I don't blame him. After all, the macho men of society pamper girls while neglecting the basic needs of boys.
Jiani, what goes around comes around, and you'll eventually regret trivializing the horrific abuse Chen suffered at the hands of Xinyi.
One day you'll get pregnant [assuming you are female] and have a son and he will endure similar mistreatment as Chen experiences and all you'll be able to do is watch in horror and beg the future girl [who bullies your son] to please leave him live in peace.
Originally posted by Warm hearted man passive:I doubt that'll do much good. The police -- who are mostly men -- will probably side with Xinyi.
Once again, I feel so sorry for that sweet tender Chen. He as soft as butter, yet Xinyi is cruel enough to exploit him.
Chen probably wishes her were a girl. I don't blame him. After all, the macho men of society pamper girls while neglecting the basic needs of boys.
Jiani, what goes around comes around, and you'll eventually regret trivializing the horrific abuse Chen suffered at the hands of Xinyi.
One day you'll get pregnant [assuming you are female] and have a son and he will endure similar mistreatment as Chen experiences and all you'll be able to do is watch in horror and beg the future girl [who bullies your son] to please leave him live in peace.
Science is very advance now. I can check and reject those embroyes with birth defects. go read more news paper
even if i really had chen as a son, i will take him out of school as a last resort
Originally posted by Warm hearted man passive:I doubt that'll do much good. The police -- who are mostly men -- will probably side with Xinyi.
Once again, I feel so sorry for that sweet tender Chen. He as soft as butter, yet Xinyi is cruel enough to exploit him.
Chen probably wishes her were a girl. I don't blame him. After all, the macho men of society pamper girls while neglecting the basic needs of boys.
Jiani, what goes around comes around, and you'll eventually regret trivializing the horrific abuse Chen suffered at the hands of Xinyi.
One day you'll get pregnant [assuming you are female] and have a son and he will endure similar mistreatment as Chen experiences and all you'll be able to do is watch in horror and beg the future girl [who bullies your son] to please leave him live in peace.
Admit it, your CHEN
Originally posted by Jiani:Admit it, your CHEN
jiani, go SG: Life in a dot answer question on the topic on "hot" in uniform leh.
you are either trolling around or have nothing to do, come here and seek attention.
You dun understand singapore police, they aren't bias
Originally posted by Jiani:you are either trolling around or have nothing to do, come here and seek attention.
You dun understand singapore police, they aren't bias
You definitely sound like someone here . You a policewoman ?
U really a student? You hiding behind a student identity to post here, Jiani?
Originally posted by jmstar~:You definitely sound like someone here . You a policewoman ?
U really a student? You hiding behind a student identity to post here, Jiani?
My thoughts exactly. Jiani talks exactly like most men would -- showing excessive sympathy for girl-children while trivializing the abuse of boy-children. I'm confident Jiani is probably male and at least 18.
Originally posted by jmstar~:You definitely sound like someone here . You a policewoman ?
U really a student? You hiding behind a student identity to post here, Jiani?
i am a student, dear.
I am not a policewoman. I seen cases that girls accuse security guards that he molested her. little did they know, there are security cameras all around......
Originally posted by Warm hearted man passive:My thoughts exactly. Jiani talks exactly like most men would -- showing excessive sympathy for girl-children while trivializing the abuse of boy-children. I'm confident Jiani is probably male and at least 18.
let's continue to observe. hahah.
Originally posted by Warm hearted man passive:My thoughts exactly. Jiani talks exactly like most men would -- showing excessive sympathy for girl-children while trivializing the abuse of boy-children. I'm confident Jiani is probably male and at least 18.
*sneeze*
Originally posted by jmstar~:let's observe. hahah.
WTF so many people say i clone of almond cookies, so many people say i not student, well, to put it simple
I AM A STUDENT!!! A FEMALE! DAMM YOU
did Warm hearted man passive get banned by fireice?
huh??
no head no tail? is this a true story? fairy tale? urban legend? bedtime story?
if i remember my history lessons correct, 1950 singapore very different from today singapore... at that time, no education ministry... the british in charge..
how you manage to relate this story to "all singapore girls like this"???
by the way, jiani is a regular in this forum and she is definitely who she claims she is...
Originally posted by Jiani:
WTF so many people say i clone of almond cookies, so many people say i not student, well, to put it simpleI AM A STUDENT!!! A FEMALE! DAMM YOU
So what is the prob?
Simple sometimes can be not simple.
Originally posted by coffeebreak:huh??
no head no tail? is this a true story? fairy tale? urban legend? bedtime story?
if i remember my history lessons correct, 1950 singapore very different from today singapore... at that time, no education ministry... the british in charge..
how you manage to relate this story to "all singapore girls like this"???
by the way, jiani is a regular in this forum and she is definitely who she claims she is...
1. It's a very convincing story, from what I can tell. The men of society give a girl power over a boy, so she viciously-exploits it. Cold-hearted Xinyi does exactly that to sweet Chen in front of his helpless mother.
2. Jiani is a man who is at least 18 years of age. One can easily figure this out from the content of his messages.
3. I don't know if all girls in Singapore are like Xinyi, but she has tainted my impression of them.
4. I'm not racist. I may have been born and raised in USA but my ancestors are from Singapore.
5. I've been diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. Please bear with me.
I don't understand the purpose of this thread. It is of a story that is more than 70 years old, and ask "are all Singapore girls like this" when the circumstances given in the story are unique to the parties only.
Jiani is a girl who was bullied when she was in primary school, and now is in secondary school reading George Orwell's Animal Farm. So she would be quite mature for her age. She has her own mind. Right or wrong it is her thoughts.
To answer the question of the topic.
No, not all Singapore girls are like that, it is only Xinyi who is like that.
Are you Chen, and are there old grievences that you haven't got over yet?
Originally posted by mancha:I don't understand the purpose of this thread. It is of a story that is more than 70 years old, and ask "are all Singapore girls like this" when the circumstances given in the story are unique to the parties only.
Jiani is a girl who was bullied when she was in primary school, and now is in secondary school reading George Orwell's Animal Farm. So she would be quite mature for her age. She has her own mind. Right or wrong it is her thoughts.
To answer the question of the topic.
No, not all Singapore girls are like that, it is only Xinyi who is like that.
Are you Chen, and are there old grievences that you haven't got over yet?
1. I'm not Chen but I do identify with the underdog in ALL circumstances. A sweet boy like Chen doesn't deserve the abuse -- leave alone execution -- he suffered at the hands of Xinyi. Children are children regardless of gender. To make matters worse, Chen is born with a severe neurological disability.
2. Jiani is NOT mature in the *least*. He is part of the problem which causes so much harm to defenseless boys like Chen. A mature person realizes that the average girl-child is no more innocent, weak, vulnerable, or sensitive than the average boy-child of the same age. Instead Jiani further traumatizes Chen and calls him a "wimp" because he has a handicap that impairs his ability to defend himself. What should Chen do? What can Chen do in such a debilitating situation? Jiani is a heartless bully. If Jiani has any hint of maturity in him [as you claim], he will show some compassion and sympathy for tender sweethearts like Chen and retract his hurtful insults he made against Chen.