God is unfair
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I think you all have heard too much stuff like "All man is born equal" and you all will tend to attribute it to factors like.e.g. not borned crippled or mentally-impaired.
Have you ever thought of other areas in which a man might be born unequal? If you think hard enough, the answer will be a man's look. Being borned handsome is certainly an advantage. Cos girls will always come knocking on your door and you will find it easier to find a beautiful girlfriend. In addition, you will have more self-confidence.
I am borned ugly. I am borned with a "worst-than-shit" face as i would describe it. Why must God give me such a face? Why can't God give all an equally handsome face? I do asked some people. Their answer is " If there isn't ugly people in this world, then the handsome boys would not be distinguished". But why must i be born ugly and be used to distinguish the handsome ones. Why! Why! Why!
God also said "You lose some, you gain some". But what did God give me? Oh, maybe he gave me an intelligent brain for me to score lots of ADs which i already scored. However, if i am really granted an intelligent brain, then why did i have to study so hard to score ADs. I can simply relax and score my ADs and not slog to get ADs. In the end, i decided. What the use of scoring ADs when you have a "worst-than-shit" face. Without self-confident due to ugly looks, what can my ADs do?? Get a better job? I believed Singapore employers not only go for quality but also partly looks too.
So in the end, i decided to let loose of my studies. "Wo Bu Gan Xin". What sins have i committed to have deserved such a face? God, can you tell me? Tell me to ease my sorrow and shame. I am willing to exchange my life span in return for a better look.
God, do u know how much setback and painful memories my face have bought me?? I dare not chase after the girl i loved, only to see her being taken away by other boys. I dare not speak up, i dare not lift my head high be it in school or outside. I dare not attend friend's party only to fear that i might be laughed at for my looks. I dare not strike up a conversation with any girl. So sometimes, i really feel like taking a knife and cut my own face to end it all.
God, if you are really out there, can you please explain why you have given me such an ugly face?? -
friend, u have to learn to see beyond the physical appearance of things..
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bless u...
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Is God Fair ? That's an interesting question ??? What about people born with deformities like the elephant man etc or someone like the iranian twins. They lived life to the fullest. Those who look at the shallow are shallow themselves
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Just be yourself.
work on your personality, improve yourself and people will be attracted by your sincerity eventually. Be Happy and content 
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"For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you."
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hmm....
u really believe in god a lot?
u seem to start and end every paragragh with god this, god that...
perhaps u should start believing in urself more...
i see that the only "disablilty" that u have is a less-than-presentable appearance?
hmm....perhaps u could discribe ur looks?
i suddenly remembered a chinese saying,
"shi shang mei you chou nu ren,
zhi you lan nu ren"
english trans,
"there isn't any ugly girls,
only lazy girls..."
for ur case is guys loh...
ugly than do something about it loh....
did any of ur friends actually said u are ugly?
doubt so... perhaps its just ur low confidence...
improve on that, stop being lazy and saying its god's lousy arrangement, looks are only superficial....
go buy some facial cream, hair treatment, eye, nose, mouth job,
go build up ur physical...
ps: at least u got "AD"s for ur poly....
i hardly got an "A"....let alone "AD" when i was in poly... -
Nothing is fair in this world...
It's you who decide on how u wan to live in this world...
Bless u my friend...
One more thing
Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder... -
Agree x 2
At least god is fair to you (Porsche Soon) liao because you are intellient above the rest. I saw some who were borned not so good looking and their results are so-so in np.
I wasn't good looking either but I managed to get Diploma with Merit in np.Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:ps: at least u got "AD"s for ur poly....
i hardly got an "A"....let alone "AD" when i was in poly... -
38 Then the LORD answered Job out of the whirlwind:
2 "Who is this that darkens counsel by words without knowledge?
3 Gird up your loins like a man,
I will question you, and you shall declare to me.
4 "Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth?
Tell me, if you have understanding.
5 Who determined its measurements--surely you know!
Or who stretched the line upon it?
6 On what were its bases sunk,
or who laid its cornerstone
7 when the morning stars sang together
and all the heavenly beingsa shouted for joy?
8 "Or who shut in the sea with doors
when it burst out from the womb?--
9 when I made the clouds its garment,
and thick darkness its swaddling band,
10 and prescribed bounds for it,
and set bars and doors,
11 and said, 'Thus far shall you come, and no farther,
and here shall your proud waves be stopped'?
12 "Have you commanded the morning since your days began,
and caused the dawn to know its place,
13 so that it might take hold of the skirts of the earth,
and the wicked be shaken out of it?
14 It is changed like clay under the seal,
and it is dyedb like a garment.
15 Light is withheld from the wicked,
and their uplifted arm is broken.
16 "Have you entered into the springs of the sea,
or walked in the recesses of the deep?
17 Have the gates of death been revealed to you,
or have you seen the gates of deep darkness?
18 Have you comprehended the expanse of the earth?
Declare, if you know all this.
19 "Where is the way to the dwelling of light,
and where is the place of darkness,
20 that you may take it to its territory
and that you may discern the paths to its home?
21 Surely you know, for you were born then,
and the number of your days is great!
22 "Have you entered the storehouses of the snow,
or have you seen the storehouses of the hail,
23 which I have reserved for the time of trouble,
for the day of battle and war?
24 What is the way to the place where the light is distributed,
or where the east wind is scattered upon the earth?
25 "Who has cut a channel for the torrents of rain,
and a way for the thunderbolt,
26 to bring rain on a land where no one lives,
on the desert, which is empty of human life,
27 to satisfy the waste and desolate land,
and to make the ground put forth grass?
28 "Has the rain a father,
or who has begotten the drops of dew?
29 From whose womb did the ice come forth,
and who has given birth to the hoarfrost of heaven?
30 The waters become hard like stone,
and the face of the deep is frozen.
31 "Can you bind the chains of the Pleiades,
or loose the cords of Orion?
32 Can you lead forth the Mazzaroth in their season,
or can you guide the Bear with its children?
33 Do you know the ordinances of the heavens?
Can you establish their rule on the earth?
34 "Can you lift up your voice to the clouds,
so that a flood of waters may cover you?
35 Can you send forth lightnings, so that they may go
and say to you, 'Here we are'?
36 Who has put wisdom in the inward parts,c
or given understanding to the mind?d
37 Who has the wisdom to number the clouds?
Or who can tilt the waterskins of the heavens,
38 when the dust runs into a mass
and the clods cling together?
39 "Can you hunt the prey for the lion,
or satisfy the appetite of the young lions,
40 when they crouch in their dens,
or lie in wait in their covert?
41 Who provides for the raven its prey,
when its young ones cry to God,
and wander about for lack of food? -
double post
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39 "Do you know when the mountain goats give birth?
Do you observe the calving of the deer?
2 Can you number the months that they fulfill,
and do you know the time when they give birth,
3 when they crouch to give birth to their offspring,
and are delivered of their young?
4 Their young ones become strong, they grow up in the open;
they go forth, and do not return to them.
5 "Who has let the wild ass go free?
Who has loosed the bonds of the swift ass,
6 to which I have given the steppe for its home,
the salt land for its dwelling place?
7 It scorns the tumult of the city;
it does not hear the shouts of the driver.
8 It ranges the mountains as its pasture,
and it searches after every green thing.
9 "Is the wild ox willing to serve you?
Will it spend the night at your crib?
10 Can you tie it in the furrow with ropes,
or will it harrow the valleys after you?
11 Will you depend on it because its strength is great,
and will you hand over your labor to it?
12 Do you have faith in it that it will return,
and bring your grain to your threshing floor?a
13 "The ostrich's wings flap wildly,
though its pinions lack plumage.b
14 For it leaves its eggs to the earth,
and lets them be warmed on the ground,
15 forgetting that a foot may crush them,
and that a wild animal may trample them.
16 It deals cruelly with its young, as if they were not its own;
though its labor should be in vain, yet it has no fear;
17 because God has made it forget wisdom,
and given it no share in understanding.
18 When it spreads its plumes aloft,c
it laughs at the horse and its rider.
19 "Do you give the horse its might?
Do you clothe its neck with mane?
20 Do you make it leap like the locust?
Its majestic snorting is terrible.
21 It pawsd violently, exults mightily;
it goes out to meet the weapons.
22 It laughs at fear, and is not dismayed;
it does not turn back from the sword.
23 Upon it rattle the quiver,
the flashing spear, and the javelin.
24 With fierceness and rage it swallows the ground;
it cannot stand still at the sound of the trumpet.
25 When the trumpet sounds, it says 'Aha!'
From a distance it smells the battle,
the thunder of the captains, and the shouting.
26 "Is it by your wisdom that the hawk soars,
and spreads its wings toward the south?
27 Is it at your command that the eagle mounts up
and makes its nest on high?
28 It lives on the rock and makes its home
in the fastness of the rocky crag.
29 From there it spies the prey;
its eyes see it from far away.
30 Its young ones suck up blood;
and where the slain are, there it is."
40 And the LORD said to Job:
2 "Shall a faultfinder contend with the Almighty?a
Anyone who argues with God must respond." -
God can never be fair.
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well.. God did say that if any man sin, the curse of the sin will be with the family line for 4 generations.. u could be suffering from a family line of curse.
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agree wif u totallyOriginally posted by WinBoi84:Nothing is fair in this world...
It's you who decide on how u wan to live in this world...
Bless u my friend...
One more thing Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder... -
Well............... i am really disapponited in my looks to the extent that it troubled me everyday. I onced asked 2 female class mates to rate my look. I took the upmost courage to ask them through the ICQ. One rated my face 6.5/10 ----- i knew she was trying to console me. The other one rated me 5/10......whom i more believed in. U all know something.......... i really feel very inferior comparing myself to other boys out there. I just kinda felt that i looks weird.............real weird. My hairstyle and dressing...................so weird .........so different from other boys. Girls don't approach me at all..........it seems that i am down right worthless............like scraped metals. I do not want to be born ugly..........no one wish to be born ugly rite.......... If this goes no, i afraid i might one day decide to end it all....
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hi i can sympathize somewhat wif ur problem...when i was young i suffered from shyness/low esteem/overly thin/lousy personality and never care abt my hair....when u share abt how u dare not chase the girl u like, i can totally empathize..but somewhere along the way things became much better....
now it's hard to noe wat God's will and reasons are...however u got a wonderful mind! pls dun let it go to waste brother!!!!! secularly speaking, this IQ is gonna be a good reason to boost ur confidence...use it to be humorous! use it to help others! use it to earn money!!! i got a first class NUS engine friend...he got a really twisted misshapend big nose that affected even his speech...rest of features less than average..yet he got a chio girlfren!!!
dress well, go gym, do a nice hairstyle, tan....play sports..can increase ur self confidence alot, be friendly...socialize first wif the guys...than platonic relationships wif nice girls..one day you'll make it self confidence and personality are very critical
finally, u can try some minor plastic surgery...i dunno abt u but i'm going for double eyelid..even though many girls commented that i look handsome
all this by God's grace, hope everything works out!! -
Oh Please....
Don't feel discourage and feel negative this way. And at this stage in poly life you should strive to get good grades instead of thinking how people feel about you. After you graduate with good grades, you could even get good career. If one day you are rich, there will be a changes in you.
Anyway look isn't everything in life. I got friends who are ugly but have alot of chiobu friends, I guess they are good speakers or they have confident in themselves.Originally posted by Porsche Soon:Well............... i am really disappointed in my looks to the extent that it troubled me everyday. I onced asked 2 female class mates to rate my look. I took the upmost courage to ask them through the ICQ. One rated my face 6.5/10 ----- i knew she was trying to console me. The other one rated me 5/10......whom i more believed in. U all know something.......... i really feel very inferior comparing myself to other boys out there. I just kinda felt that i looks weird.............real weird. My hairstyle and dressing...................so weird .........so different from other boys. Girls don't approach me at all..........it seems that i am down right worthless............like scraped metals. I do not want to be born ugly..........no one wish to be born ugly rite.......... If this goes no, i afraid i might one day decide to end it all.... -
Originally posted by Porsche Soon:Well............... i am really disapponited in my looks to the extent that it troubled me everyday. I onced asked 2 female class mates to rate my look. I took the upmost courage to ask them through the ICQ. One rated my face 6.5/10 ----- i knew she was trying to console me. The other one rated me 5/10......whom i more believed in. U all know something.......... i really feel very inferior comparing myself to other boys out there. I just kinda felt that i looks weird.............real weird. My hairstyle and dressing...................so weird .........so different from other boys. Girls don't approach me at all..........it seems that i am down right worthless............like scraped metals. I do not want to be born ugly..........no one wish to be born ugly rite.......... If this goes no, i afraid i might one day decide to end it all.... You don't need a good looks.
you need self esteem.
If you crave for girls to approach you and felt dis-contented because nobody approach you before......
..... about 75% of guys shared the same fate as you - Never been approached before.
Out of this 75% of guys - at least 30% would ended up with decent looking, above average girlfriends. The rest ended up with girls that they liked - accept for who they are. (talking about serious relationship)
Obviously you don't know how this game of love works. Do something to improve yourself. If you can't - work on something else to give you to edge over people.
P.S: Recently met one of my ex-classmate on the street - the kind of guy where you will slam him as a nerd. He was with a girl (his gf) and I was quite surprise that she wasn't too bad and was on the cute side. This is a classic case where looks alone doesn't win everything for you - in the end, it still boils down to your character and how you deal with yourself.
*Note: I mentioned nothing about life/god because you are the master of your own fate. Free-will is available for you to employ, the problem is what you gonna do about it?
Cheers -
Very true! Your fate laid with your own hand.
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
*Note: I mentioned nothing about life/god because you are the master of your own fate. Free-will is available for you to employ, the problem is what you gonna do about it?