FT hump SG women (the beginning)
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Want to know? U can start searching for -women /jobs/ GDP growth.I did read a political article before from reknowned financial analyst about aligning more jobs to women to stimulate GDP growth. Guaranteed percentage growth broken down to 3 main sectors. Food Fashion Tourism. + how women are hardwired to seek out the alpha male. the one that can provide, protect and probagate well. the formla will add up.
Also love is a sensation lasting 3-5 years. Following that is social needs. Another UK study. Don't ask me for source. Take it as I am talking kok if you don't believe.
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Aiya, gentlmen, in the end, It all goes back to the 3 lord of the rings,
First the engagment ring
Then the marriage ring
Then after that, it suffer ring
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TS maybe got to socialize more beside driving taxi...
Most of your unhappyness is through the pax you had fetched..
Free time, join some social club...your perspective of life in Sg might change a lot.
Just my 2 cents, don't take it personal..
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Aiyo , Singapore gals , vietnam gals , pinay girls .... all same same .
Naked , off lights ...... all same .
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only Singapore girls chop chop one ... : " Tomorrow working , quic quick ."
or
"Quick , mommy said 12am must reach home ."
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Local wife , if want to find , must find from poly or JC , or University .
Dun come out work then find .
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If want find foreign wife , dun find when at Poly , JC or University .
Come out work then find .
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Originally posted by Mercabs:
only 33 yo like our komade bro and so much dislike for the garment & sg girls
bro been thru divorce lar n been thru shit in the government sector............
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if must find virgin , must find at secondary school , now maybe also hard to find , perhaps try when primary school .
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Originally posted by bowah:
Aiya, gentlmen, in the end, It all goes back to the 3 lord of the rings,
First the engagment ring
Then the marriage ring
Then after that, it suffer ring
haha well said bro~~~~
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Brothers , i dunno if i am correct .
For those born in Indian those indian nationals , be it working in Singapore as PR or S-pass .
In their culture , they cannot find their own wife .
Their parents pre-arrange their marriage , as in parents find a wife for them .
The parents , in their culture , can disown their son if found out their son find their own wife .
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So that Sgp gals just looking for one night stand lah ....
there is so many examples in Singapore , where Singapore men cannot fulfill what their wife wanted , and need to find spare tyre also .
Some Singapore men also flirt into china girls , so nothing wrong sgp girls flirt into a Ah Neh .
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but the body odour is strong,i donno how they can take the smell,esp in intimate situations,sory no offense meant!but maybe cos bro longer!
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it's a fact mah. Say their thing big also fact wad. But actually I happy for them. Like I said it's just interesting observation. Lukily our own boys still got Geylang. I ferried a young boy some time back. "Uncle Geylang Lor 18" He sat in front. He looked like 17 years old. Then I look at him a while and ask "去å�«é¸¡æ˜¯å�—？“ Then he got so shy and smiled, "没有啦。。。我去很多次啦，这次是è�Šå¤©æ‰�。“ but HIV on the rise amonst young Singaporeans. Sigh.
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June 16 2012.
SINGAPORE: One former financial broker knows at least two financial instrument brokers who play the "sex for contracts" game: They get into the sack with corporate clients even though they have more-than-generous expense accounts with which to woo these clients.
With each swap going for an average of tens of millions of dollars, the payouts are temptingly high for those who manage to clinch the trade, the 35-year-old told MediaCorp.
But with very little to differentiate the services of one brokerage from another, some women brokers resort to sleeping with traders who may then pay them bigger commissions if they are happy with the "service", he said, describing the practice as "rife" within the profession.
A professional in the IT industry, which also sees stiff competition for multi-million-dollar contracts, knows of at least one peer in her circle who has gone to such lengths - usually as part of her after-dinner entertainment for the client.
According to the 38-year-old, who has been in the IT line for about 15 years, a mix of lucrative incentives and the pressure to deliver makes for powerful motivation.
DISEMPOWERING
Another IT industry veteran, Mr H Lim, who has worked for the likes of Oracle and IBM, said the sales quotas at such multinationals are very aggressive.
"(Employees) need to meet the numbers and most IT procurers are male.
"Pressure is extremely high and you may get the boot if you don't meet your numbers for two to three quarters.
"This drives some women to desperation," he said, adding that targets are usually in the double-digit millions of dollars per annum.
"It would be naive to think it is only the high-profile cases. It is happening daily - in the pharmaceutical industry, banking as well as IT ... it's just a matter of not getting caught," he noted.
In this era of equal opportunity, and with ever more women working their way to success through knowledge, talent and hard work, instances of women sales professionals offering sex in exchange for a quick, sure-fire way of clinching deals have been thrust into the limelight.
Last week, former Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) chief Peter Lim was charged with 10 counts of corruption for allegedly obtaining sexual favours from three women - two vendors and one potential vendor.
In return, he would allegedly show favour to their companies in IT-related tenders called by the SCDF.
There is a certain irony to all this.
Executive Director of the Association of Women for Action and Research (AWARE) Corinna Lim points out that more such incidences may be occurring these days because modern women are getting into career roles that draw the big bucks.
Yet, this is ultimately "disempowering" for women.
"Ideologically, the using of sex to get ahead reinforces the idea that their greatest asset lies in the fact that they are desired by men.
"This perpetuates patriarchy as it makes women's value dependent on how much men desire them... they do not have value in their own right," said Ms Lim.
PREDATORY BEHAVIOUR
Academics and women's rights organisations that TODAY spoke to suggest various factors may be at play in determining the way some women in business behave.
Ms Lim, as well as sociology professor Teo You Yenn of the Nanyang Technological University, suggest taking a closer look at organisational cultures that influence how employees act.
In those with "masculine leadership cultures" and very few women at the top, "sexual predatory behaviour may be implicitly encouraged", Ms Lim added.
"Although the customer may not outright ask for sex in exchange for sealing the contract, there is still some element of sexual harassment, through implicit, subtle suggestions or hints from the customer that the sales representative may not get the deal if they do not offer sex.
"There is an imbalance of power between the two parties."
This is happening in industries where clients are mostly male.
A pharmaceuticals sales representative with 12 years' experience said that in the cases she has heard of, doctors are bold in asking for sexual favours due to the strong competition that sales representatives face.
Ms Lim called for stronger sexual harassment laws, arguing that where it is the norm for transactions to be conducted in such a manner, the professional may find it difficult to lodge complaints.
IT'S COMPLICATED
But is it too simplistic to cast women in such transactions as naive or manipulated victims?
There is, after all, the fact that there are women in the same lines who choose not to exchange sexual favours for a contract. Or who decide to leave the industry altogether. Personal greed, and perhaps also the extent of one's ambition, factor into a woman's choice, some point out.
Their actions earn some detractors' scorn. In a day and age when women advocates and business leaders are calling for more female participation on corporate boards and in top management positions, on the basis of their competence and talent, it surely does no good when a female company director or manager or chief executive makes the news for allegedly sleeping with a client to further the company's business.
Prof Teo, who is also an AWARE board member, said: "From a sociological viewpoint, all individual actions have to be understood in a broader social context. We should ask why the system is such that sex is rewarded but capabilities directly related to the job alone are not.
"Men continue to dominate higher positions across almost all organisations and we know with certainty that they are almost never asked for sexual favours in order to get there - why is it that comparably capable women are put in such positions wherein this so-called choice is even a possibility?" -
Originally posted by Serpent33:
it's a fact mah. Say their thing big also fact wad. But actually I happy for them. Like I said it's just interesting observation. Lukily our own boys still got Geylang. I ferried a young boy some time back. "Uncle Geylang Lor 18" He sat in front. He looked like 17 years old. Then I look at him a while and ask "去å�«é¸¡æ˜¯å�—？“ Then he got so shy and smiled, "没有啦。。。我去很多次啦，这次是è�Šå¤©æ‰�。“ but HIV on the rise amonst young Singaporeans. Sigh.
got ask him 1st time go got ang pow or not??
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recently fectch few times...
SG girls with thai boys...
den hanky panky at the back seat...
reach liao usually the girl pay the cab fare...
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read this thread spoil weekend mood leh.
FT hump SG women (the beginning)
The fucking PAP use this fucking term FT until everyone also use it now.
which fucking bastard in the fucking PAP came up with the fucking term FT?
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Next time kenna fetch our own boys alone go Geylang one. Just give them moral support.
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don't post already lah, this thread spoil my mood. now weather hot, easily bad tempered, come here read this type of lan jiao thread.
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Originally posted by Dalforce 1941:
read this thread spoil weekend mood leh.
The fucking PAP use this fucking term FT until everyone also use it now.
which fucking bastard in the fucking PAP came up with the fucking term FT?
It's ok la. When sg ppl say it, it's outright sacarsm. It started when government used the term FT to justify the influx of them. many years back.
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Originally posted by Dalforce 1941:
don't post already lah, this thread spoil my mood. now weather hot, easily bad tempered, come here read this type of lan jiao thread.
Read my thread la...tio locked liao...lol
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Originally posted by Serpent33:
It's ok la. When sg ppl say it, it's outright sacarsm. It started when government used the term FT to justify the influx of them. many years back.
that fucking PAP and their fucking garbage propaganda terms.
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I thinks TDs have first hand ground sentiment of what's going on in our coutry. Who are the people enjoying in the evenings in theatres and resturants (majority foreigners), and who are the people we pick up late hours from office buildings(our poor overworked sgporeans). Last time we had stories of sarong party girls, girls that seek the white men because they were normally expats holding high positions. Now it's an entirely different scene.
Our country change too rapidly, mindsets need change too. The new generation is learning fast. Our boys continue to be undermined and our girls are discovering quicker and easier ways to have an easier way in life. Last time our parents will grumble if the girl we bring home is not chaste, now parents worry son become a dog for local women and don't come home. But most worry their son will have no children. The new worry I think will be daughters bringing India FTs home, or Pinoy FTs. Whereas daughters using sex to trade for advantage in work, this one normally remain a dark secret unless busted.
I like the term FT. It serves as a strong reminder for Singaporeans that local men have to do more but still undermined. The poor standards of Philipines degree will kick the ass of your son's years of hardwork and phsycotic study environment in his own land because the country wants population. Our local girls will need to choose their men. Would they choose the handicapp ones? I have heard many times before the sg girl will say " I am self sufficient and i don;t need a man." But they need to fxxk something means they need to fxxk something.
Luckily my time over liao. lucky I experienced the times where the SG women loved us, Taiwanese girls fantasises us and Malaysian girls adore us. Those party early days one will know how we can pick up girls from Fires Disco and Rumours. Those early days go ROC training ones will know. It was heavenly romance in Taiwan. The Tai Baos there will find trouble with us because their women love us. Well times change.But at least I know good times exsisted.
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Originally posted by Serpent33:
I like the term FT. It serves as a strong reminder for Singaporeans that local men have to do more but still undermined.
FT is one of the terms that I most despise.
The poor standards of Philipines degree will kick the ass of your son's years of hardwork and phsycotic study environment in his own land because the country wants population. Our local girls will need to choose their men. Would they choose the handicapp ones? I have heard many times before the sg girl will say " I am self sufficient and i don;t need a man." But they need to fxxk something means they need to fxxk something.
We need to get rid of the PAP and end the minority over majority system.
That is the main thing.