Is he having an affair?
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Hippo,Originally posted by InnoHippo:maybe, he has not got used to married life?
is there something u two stop doing together after marriage?
No, i don't think so. We still do the thing's together, is just that i feel something's change, and weird
Well, i hope he's just too stressful with he's job. I don't even dare to think anything else. I just want everything to be fine
Well, all the best for me k? Hippo
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If it is at the back of his clothes...Originally posted by juz4you:precious, hi..
Well yes, i smell some purfume, and i saw a pink STUFF, i dont know what is that, behind of he's cloth's back. But that time i still think of the positive way, i keep telling my self that's maybe the colour mixed from my pink shirt, (sounds stupid) but i just dont want to think too much
Btw does he take public transport to work
Coz it does that can be explained coz I have left my lipstick on the shoulder of some guy before
I hope his wife dun give him flake for it
But it was so crowded in the train and he moved back suddenly and my lipstick left it's mark on him -
I wonder how many wife will accept that kind of explanation coming out from their husband?Originally posted by elindra:If it is at the back of his clothes...
Btw does he take public transport to work
Coz it does that can be explained coz I have left my lipstick on the shoulder of some guy before
I hope his wife dun give him flake for it
But it was so crowded in the train and he moved back suddenly and my lipstick left it's mark on him -
stock crash, interest rate adjustment, currency drop, property stagnant, govt increase price across, where got mood to fark
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Work on those things that make both of you feel good about each other daily .Do not give yourself a reason go head on with him for all you know he was having drinks with his buddies in a Karaoke lounge with some PRCs but boys will be boys sometimes and an affair is totaly different.Keep on doing the things that made both of you happy before your marriage do not pick up new bad habits....2 worst habits for example ,1) Accusation cuz it kills your love almost instantly & 2)Nagging.nagging is the number one marriage killer although it kills very slowly.To get back your husband you need to work out a strategy and use lots of common senseOriginally posted by juz4you:precious, hi..
Well yes, i smell some purfume, and i saw a pink STUFF, i dont know what is that, behind of he's cloth's back. But that time i still think of the positive way, i keep telling my self that's maybe the colour mixed from my pink shirt, (sounds stupid) but i just dont want to think too much -
hey guys, thanks for all the concern
He talk to me lastnight, He was saying that yesterday everything seems smooth, (i'm talking about he's work) he was asking me for movie this saturday. We seems have a good communication. He talk to me nicely, he being more patient, sweet.
Well i just hope it will last forever, atlease a little bit longer. If not, i think i really have to give him some space, i think i have to go back and let he think carefully, "why he marry me in the first place?"
Sometimes he just too much, (TAI GUO FEN LA!!!) Sometimes he really drive me crazy.
I just hope that he will always be faithful, and honest to me. Talk to me, share the things together, and treat me like the way he should.
I just hope someday he will know, that i really love him. And i just want We gonna last forever.
Anyway, yes we did it last night -
but nothing last forever....
Now a couple months have past
Never thought that this would last
Oh everybody asked
How ya got a girl like that
But you should've known
That nothing lasts forever (lasts forever)
I mashed up ya mind
When I tell you lies
But boy don't be suprised
That I'm seeing other guys
I'm too young to settle
And you should've known better (known better) -
Ninja, thanks.Originally posted by Short Ninja:Work on those things that make both of you feel good about each other daily .Do not give yourself a reason go head on with him for all you know he was having drinks with his buddies in a Karaoke lounge with some PRCs but boys will be boys sometimes and an affair is totaly different.Keep on doing the things that made both of you happy before your marriage do not pick up new bad habits....2 worst habits for example ,1) Accusation cuz it kills your love almost instantly & 2)Nagging.nagging is the number one marriage killer although it kills very slowly.To get back your husband you need to work out a strategy and use lots of common sense
But he not drink, smoke, atlease he's stop even before he marry me. And i think he always tell me when he want to go out, because he only working in week day, and when go out he hang out with me (WEEKEND and SUNDAY) But after the working hour (AFTER 5pm) I dont know what's up after 5pm ?
Accusation? i hope i'm not
Nagging? well sometimes he's just too much, how can i not complain -
Andrew, if you found the one that you love, i'm talking about the real love, SOULMATE. You will understand, that true love will last till forever.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:but nothing last forever.... -
Glad to hear you had a good talk with him. Keep at it, communication is very important.
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wo dou deng liao
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never do it last nite?Originally posted by juz4you:wo dou deng liao -
for U
Think about the story that u told us about ur marriage life with ur husband, is pretty much same as mine. But the different is sometimes i'm not confident about my self. Talk about affair.. thats a hot topict to talk, well yes i can say that girl's feeling sometimes can be so TRUE, and no one could explain that. But i just hope the point of ur case is just missed understanding, and not enough communication.
About sex? yes, i'm honestly say once a week is a bit fishy for a new married couple like us, like u and me. But try to think in the positive way, how if all what u tot' is wrong? totally wrong? -
Yay! Good luck! Work on the relationship!Originally posted by juz4you:hey guys, thanks for all the concern
He talk to me lastnight, He was saying that yesterday everything seems smooth, (i'm talking about he's work) he was asking me for movie this saturday. We seems have a good communication. He talk to me nicely, he being more patient, sweet.
Well i just hope it will last forever, atlease a little bit longer. If not, i think i really have to give him some space, i think i have to go back and let he think carefully, "why he marry me in the first place?"
Sometimes he just too much, (TAI GUO FEN LA!!!) Sometimes he really drive me crazy.
I just hope that he will always be faithful, and honest to me. Talk to me, share the things together, and treat me like the way he should.
I just hope someday he will know, that i really love him. And i just want We gonna last forever.
Anyway, yes we did it last night -
women... think too much
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women think too much? is it? but why you guys never want to learn how to make women not think too much, Understand women's feels, care what women's though.Originally posted by kopiosatu:women... think too much
Silly, but sometimes who's the one who make women think so much is your self GUYS -
hi, how was last saturdayOriginally posted by juz4you:women think too much? is it? but why you guys never want to learn how to make women not think too much, Understand women's feels, care what women's though.
Silly, but sometimes who's the one who make women think so much is your self GUYS
hope everything went well......dun lose hope k... -
you answered yourself. its not really the guys problem if u choose to think too muchOriginally posted by juz4you:women think too much? is it? but why you guys never want to learn how to make women not think too much, Understand women's feels, care what women's though.
Silly, but sometimes who's the one who make women think so much is your self GUYS
watch me not care. i've got better things to do in life than to think for women and please them
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hi middle, well thanksOriginally posted by de_middle:hi, how was last saturday
hope everything went well......dun lose hope k...
last saturday seems okay, but i still feel something's not right.. Dont know lah.. i really lose my hope -
thats the reason no body wants you, dont you?Originally posted by kopiosatu:you answered yourself. its not really the guys problem if u choose to think too much
watch me not care. i've got better things to do in life than to think for women and please them -
aiya, ur doing fine.....go out more often on weekends to unwind himOriginally posted by juz4you:hi middle, well thanks
last saturday seems okay, but i still feel something's not right.. Dont know lah.. i really lose my hope
cannot anyhow lose hope ok......hold on to those vows of urs
can always come here & talk to us.....anytime -
eh... did i say no one wants me?Originally posted by juz4you:thats the reason no body wants you, dont you?
and please watch the way you post. don't get personal -
who the f* are you anyway? i get personal or i don't that is my f*ing problem buddyOriginally posted by kopiosatu:eh... did i say no one wants me?
and please watch the way you post. don't get personal
anyway, are you sure you're a great person to be want to? LOL -
all the best for me okay middle? JIAYOU!Originally posted by de_middle:aiya, ur doing fine.....go out more often on weekends to unwind him
cannot anyhow lose hope ok......hold on to those vows of urs
can always come here & talk to us.....anytime
but anyway he's not home haven't go back..
SIGH, so much things in my mind now.. -
wow, another attack.Originally posted by juz4you:who the f* are you anyway? i get personal or i don't that is my f*ing problem buddy
anyway, are you sure you're a great person to be want to? LOL
well, whatever you say.