Originally posted by laurence82:
Dont know about atheism, but my personal view is its hard to see the merits if they cannot express themselves well
From experience, it leads to a lot of unneccessary guesswork and possibly flaming
Good lord! You have close to 68,000 posts! I realise that it's over 4 years but still...
Scary...
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I do agree with you that there may be misunderstandings if someone is not able to express himself well. That is why each party should give the other the benefit of the doubt.
Obviously, you don't want to win an argument because the person was not able to express himself well. You want to win an argument on it's merits. Also, if you critically examine the strongest arguments a person has, it helps you refine your own arguments and make them better.
And of course, if the person's arguments and evidence are overwhelming, you should have an open mind and at least accept it is a good argument, even if you are not convinced right away.
The only caveat I would say is that one should have an open mind, but not so open that your brains fall out. You should still examine every argument critically.
If an argument is unclear to you, you should put yourself in your opponents shoes and think of how you would argue his or her point. You should then seek clarification if that is what the person meant.
All this should be done with respect. Everyone has a reason for their beliefs. Where we differ is usually in our basic assumptions.
My basic assumption is that scientific method is the only way where we can gain knowledge. Other people believe there are supernatural paths to knowledge. I disagree with that view. I feel it's a slippery slope. If you believe one thing without evidence, you can believe anything without evidence.
The other fundamental difference is the standard of evidence. Some may argue that my worldview precludes any knowledge. They argue that if one is skeptical about everything, it leads to analysis paralysis where it's not possible to know anything at all.
My view is basically a pragmatic one. I don't care about any theory if it cannot make predictions and it's not testable. I don't care if the universe was created in a spontaneous big bang, or if the universe is eternal. I don't care if a deistic god created it if it tells us nothing. So even if someone comes up to me and says "there's a supernatural world that is beyond our understanding and evidence", it's largely irrelevant to me if there is no effect on the natural world.