Crapbox 76: I Missed You guys!~

• starblue

  1 Jun 07, 10:01

  morning all!!
  
  looks like i'm too lazy to go lab today again.. omg, i am such a procrastinator...
• hisoka

  1 Jun 07, 10:08

  Originally posted by starblue:

  morning all!!
  
  looks like i'm too lazy to go lab today again.. omg, i am such a procrastinator...

  
  
  no worries, i'm sure you are not the only one. besides, slackers rule!!
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 11:23

  didnt sleep well yesterday...now feeling like sh!t
• CoolMyth

  1 Jun 07, 11:27

  Originally posted by rainee:

  didnt sleep well yesterday...now feeling like sh!t

  Oh dear. *cuddles rainee*
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 11:29

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  Oh dear. *cuddles rainee*

  i m not in a good mood today...not up for cuddling
• ndmmxiaomayi

  1 Jun 07, 11:32

  Morning...
• hisoka

  1 Jun 07, 11:32

  Originally posted by rainee:

  didnt sleep well yesterday...now feeling like sh!t

  i only slept at 4+ and woke up at 7
• CoolMyth

  1 Jun 07, 11:32

  Originally posted by rainee:

  i m not in a good mood today...not up for cuddling

  I'm here to offer a ear (or an eye).
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 11:34

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  i only slept at 4+ and woke up at 7

  i just kept having nightmares woke up from one, tried to went back to sleep, then got another nightmare.
  
  
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 11:35

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  I'm here to offer a ear (or an eye).

  answer me what you think about this: how much should and can one change?
• CoolMyth

  1 Jun 07, 11:39

  Originally posted by rainee:

  answer me what you think about this: how much should and can one change?

  In my opinion, it's best to remain as natural as you are. I find it too hard to be someone I am not and do things that I dun want to. Beside, people can see if you are acting.
  
  If one can change for the better, then go for it of course. If he can't change, then I guess there's not much point.
  
  Ermm....am I answering your question?
• hisoka

  1 Jun 07, 11:39

  Originally posted by rainee:

  answer me what you think about this: how much should and can one change?

  change for what? why and how?
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 11:43

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  In my opinion, it's best to remain as natural as you are. I find it too hard to be someone I am not and do things that I dun want to. Beside, people can see if you are acting.
  
  If one can change for the better, then go for it of course. If he can't change, then I guess there's not much point.
  
  Ermm....am I answering your question?

  To your question, yes.
  
  That's what I think of as well, but what if one day your gf wants you to try the things that she likes to do very much, but you do not like those activities? Will you try them for the sake of the rs?
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 11:44

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  change for what? why and how?

  read my above post
• hisoka

  1 Jun 07, 11:46

  Originally posted by rainee:

  read my above post

  try lor, but if don't like it, then don't do it again. trying's no harm and who knows you might like it. barring illegal or weird stuff though.
  
  but don't forbid your spouse/bf/gf from doing it unless its really harmful. we all have our preferences.
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 11:51

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  try lor, but if don't like it, then don't do it again. trying's no harm and who knows you might like it. barring illegal or weird stuff though.
  
  but don't forbid your spouse/bf/gf from doing it unless its really harmful. we all have our preferences.

  lolz but if i stop doing them, then wun have things to do in common le. haiz.
  
  is finding something to do in common so important in a rs? must be engaged in certain kind of activities?
  
  I dun bar my dear from doing the things he likes to do la. He is free to do whatever he wants, as long as he spends enuff time with me and of cos the activities must not be harmful. That's all I am asking for.
• Xtrider

  1 Jun 07, 11:51

  * strolls by and says hi*
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 11:52

  Originally posted by Xtrider:

  * strolls by and says hi*

  hi...
• hisoka

  1 Jun 07, 11:56

  Originally posted by rainee:

  lolz but if i stop doing them, then wun have things to do in common le. haiz.
  
  is finding something to do in common so important in a rs? must be engaged in certain kind of activities?
  
  I dun bar my dear from doing the things he likes to do la. He is free to do whatever he wants, as long as he spends enuff time with me and of cos the activities must not be harmful. That's all I am asking for.

  need to have so many activities in common meh? dunno leh. i know of some who have quite different interests, but of course got some always together de
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 12:00

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  need to have so many activities in common meh? dunno leh. i know of some who have quite different interests, but of course got some always together de

  haha yea...i have some common interests wif my dear, but he also likes a lot of things which frankly, currently I am not interested in Same on his side also...
  
  Maybe cos a year plus le, need to find some new things to do together. Kinda get boring if keep doing the same activity over and over again...
  
  I am willing to learn, but after that if still dun like then how?
  
  That's the question.
• hisoka

  1 Jun 07, 12:02

  Originally posted by rainee:

  haha yea...i have some common interests wif my dear, but he also likes a lot of things which frankly, currently I am not interested in Same on his side also...
  
  Maybe cos a year plus le, need to find some new things to do together. Kinda get boring if keep doing the same activity over and over again...
  
  I am willing to learn, but after that if still dun like then how?
  
  That's the question.

  dun like then dun do lor need personal space mah.
  
  anyway can always try new things together also
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 12:07

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  dun like then dun do lor need personal space mah.
  
  anyway can always try new things together also

  Haha yea...I will try them out first la, hopefully can find something that I like But I am super noob in gaming haiz. Unless you are talking about sth like Maple, but he doesn't like Maple...
  
  I think one of the Sundays must go rollerblading le. Been wanting to go since dunno when...
• CoolMyth

  1 Jun 07, 12:18

  Originally posted by rainee:

  To your question, yes.
  
  That's what I think of as well, but what if one day your gf wants you to try the things that she likes to do very much, but you do not like those activities? Will you try them for the sake of the rs?

  I will try lor. But if I dun like, I will say it out. I think it's better to say stuff like this than to pent it up.
  
  It's good to find common things in relationships but then I dun like the idea of forcing both sides to find common interests lest it becomes a burden to them. As I always say, natural is the best.
• rainee

  1 Jun 07, 12:27

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  I will try lor. But if I dun like, I will say it out. I think it's better to say stuff like this than to pent it up.
  
  It's good to find common things in relationships but then I dun like the idea of forcing both sides to find common interests lest it becomes a burden to them. As I always say, natural is the best.

  Yea. Definitely will say it out sooner or later. I don't think I am someone who can act as if I am interested if I am really not interested lolz.
  
  Oh well, I will just try them out and see how it goes. Who knows I might find a new hobby that way.
• ndmmxiaomayi

  1 Jun 07, 12:30

  Hungry, and I forgot to bring money