friends can be so hurting at times.
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like wedding is it ?Originally posted by Master -_-:but abit bad la...when ppl pamper u, u dun even wan to pamper that same person...
for me , i always try to top whatever my friends did for me la..then they will also try to top my contribution..more like game
the first person to marry in a luxury liner to Thailand i your group n invites u all...
confirm whoever marrying next gonna top it off is it ? he he~ -
She sound's exactly like my someone i know....
I think maybe its worst because i know her for 6 years...
She always wants presents for her birthdays and she will pester everyone...i mean literally EVERYONE for one....
She loves to whine and also flirt with guys for presents...even though she claim them as friends...
This kinda friends....when you need them...they are never there...
So much for..."How are you honey???"
Great pretenders... -
there is a term for people like this. cheaposOriginally posted by fairlady_xoxo:She sound's exactly like my someone i know....
I think maybe its worst because i know her for 6 years...
She always wants presents for her birthdays and she will pester everyone...i mean literally EVERYONE for one....
She loves to whine and also flirt with guys for presents...even though she claim them as friends...
This kinda friends....when you need them...they are never there...
So much for..."How are you honey???"
Great pretenders... -
i knew this friend for 7 years, going to 8. but only the last 3 years then a bit worse, cos we no longer go to the same school le, i guess...Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:She sound's exactly like my someone i know....
I think maybe its worst because i know her for 6 years...
She always wants presents for her birthdays and she will pester everyone...i mean literally EVERYONE for one....
She loves to whine and also flirt with guys for presents...even though she claim them as friends...
This kinda friends....when you need them...they are never there...
So much for..."How are you honey???"
Great pretenders...
haiz... i suppose this kinda thing is really hard to avoid lah (friendships turning sour i mean). -
The truth is that there arent really good or best frenz in this world..
this is juz sh!t and l dun believe in all these anymore..what brotherhood, what loyalty..is all illusion...Only urself is ur true best frenz
everyone juz care abt themselves and try to get the best for themselves..in order to survive in this world..l shld hav say..only the strongest survive and the weak one will juz get weaker unless they do sumtinz..
The so call Good frenz/ best frenz / good brother or whatever is juz a name only..in actual fact...all of us are juz using one another for benefit...
Altot l do hav my share of frenz..but l now see them in a diff angle...
Anyway to Ts..juz get used to it
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Yup.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:The truth is that there arent really good or best frenz in this world..
this is juz sh!t and l dun believe in all these anymore..what brotherhood, what loyalty..is all illusion...Only urself is ur true best frenz
everyone juz care abt themselves and try to get the best for themselves..in order to survive in this world..l shld hav say..only the strongest survive and the weak one will juz get weaker unless they do sumtinz..
The so call Good frenz/ best frenz / good brother or whatever is juz a name only..in actual fact...all of us are juz using one another for benefit...
Altot l do hav my share of frenz..but l now see them in a diff angle...
Anyway to Ts..juz get used to it
U are right.
But , there are some brothers that are really brothers that will go thru hell n back for u. If u have faced situations and got out of it together , alive and in once piece , normally , friendship like that will never disappear. It will become stories u tell ur kids about that 'uncle' of thiers.
Now that is what i call a real brother~ -
Its not about whether you can avoid it or not....its whether you think its worth keeping this friendship....or ending it...to end your misery....in my own opinion...if she's just using u all the while...i seriously think this kinda people aren't even worth your time?
At the end of the day...you will wonder what have you done wrong...when actually you didn't even do anything....she's just being her....and showing her true colours.... -
Haha....yea! Not only cheapos....they shouldn't even exist in this world!!!Originally posted by bladez87:there is a term for people like this. cheapos
DIE BIATCH!
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Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Haha....yea! Not only cheapos....they shouldn't even exist in this world!!!
DIE BIATCH!
no need get so serious... -
i think real friendships are forge during life and death situations...
it is when the friendship has transcended beyond own gains then it will be strong. like risking your life for a fellow comarade in war. or saving a person from a fatal accident and stuff like this... -
Hmmmm sounds a lil gangster like LOl =x...haha kidding..Originally posted by bladez87:i think real friendships are forge during life and death situations...
it is when the friendship has transcended beyond own gains then it will be strong. like risking your life for a fellow comarade in war. or saving a person from a fatal accident and stuff like this... -
what are friends for?
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haha..how about some friends luff bhind ur back over ur own mishap...i ve been thru dis and it reli hurt mi..somemore tt day was my birthday..damn f saddest day of my life..
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....hey i am a guy ok...you dont expect me to go girly mushy dreamy romantic incidents like, going around to see cute guys, and to give up your bf to your best friend etc all this right? or letting your friend have the dream heels you wanted...Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Hmmmm sounds a lil gangster like LOl =x...haha kidding.. -
to be made use of, then thrown awayOriginally posted by Eric Cartman:what are friends for? -
well...some ppl treat frens differently or shud i rephrase as: they ve different perspectives of frenship.... zzz some r super irritating tho...
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the thing is, what are the odds of that happening?Originally posted by bladez87:i think real friendships are forge during life and death situations...
it is when the friendship has transcended beyond own gains then it will be strong. like risking your life for a fellow comarade in war. or saving a person from a fatal accident and stuff like this...
ok, i suppose you can suddenly dash across the road when walking with your friend, or hold on to the grenade and refuse to throw it, but ack, it just doesnt make sense right? -
haha..only when experience dangerous situations and got out of it together..maybe then that frenzship will last..kinda true..Originally posted by BadzMaro:Yup.
U are right.
But , there are some brothers that are really brothers that will go thru hell n back for u. If u have faced situations and got out of it together , alive and in once piece , normally , friendship like that will never disappear. It will become stories u tell ur kids about that 'uncle' of thiers.
Now that is what i call a real brother~
but actually in the world we are living in..
there are no good or best frenz de...everything lies in urself...in fact u can consider urself as the best frenz of urself.
And y there arent any good or best frenz or wad brother ..This is because We humans hav our own dark side...selfishness, jealousy all these emotions. -
wah seh... i didnt think anyone will have a dimmer view of friendships than me... but i think you're being very negative here leh...Originally posted by xShevchenkox:haha..only when experience dangerous situations and got out of it together..maybe then that frenzship will last..kinda true..
but actually in the world we are living in..
there are no good or best frenz de...everything lies in urself...in fact u can consider urself as the best frenz of urself.
And y there arent any good or best frenz or wad brother ..This is because We humans hav our own dark side...selfishness, jealousy all these emotions.
dunno lah. personally, i still have one single best friend left. and i hope (with fingers crossed) then our friendship will last a lifetime lah... i mean, i really truly only have her left who i can still call a true friend.
haiz... when u only have one single person left who you treasure like hell, it gets scary sometimes.... you keep fearing that someday, that someone will also leave you, like all the others who had come and gone....
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haha actually last time l am very positive abt frenship/brotherhood etc deOriginally posted by starblue:wah seh... i didnt think anyone will have a dimmer view of friendships than me... but i think you're being very negative here leh...
dunno lah. personally, i still have one single best friend left. and i hope (with fingers crossed) then our friendship will last a lifetime lah... i mean, i really truly only have her left who i can still call a true friend.
haiz... when u only have one single person left who you treasure like hell, it gets scary sometimes.... you keep fearing that someday, that someone will also leave you, like all the others who had come and gone....
but as l start to grow up...l see more and more and finally l reach the conclusion that frenship/brotherhood is juz a illusion only..but of coz this is my personal opinions...
anyway juz dun wry..if that person hav to left u..then let him/her...l mean is inevitable de rite? juz relax and stay calm abt things ^^ -
still got me mah
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the word illusion is so..... hopeless. you dun have anyone you can truly call a friend ah??Originally posted by xShevchenkox:haha actually last time l am very positive abt frenship/brotherhood etc de
but as l start to grow up...l see more and more and finally l reach the conclusion that frenship/brotherhood is juz a illusion only..but of coz this is my personal opinions...
anyway juz dun wry..if that person hav to left u..then let him/her...l mean is inevitable de rite? juz relax and stay calm abt things ^^ -
i dun even wanna roll my eyes le...Originally posted by the.owl:still got me mah -
haha, maybe sum ppl dun tink the same as me bah..Originally posted by starblue:the word illusion is so..... hopeless. you dun have anyone you can truly call a friend ah??
of cuz got , l hav sum very best frenz..but to me, l see them in a diff view now.. l dun hold on them imptly, if one day we arent frenz, then nvm lo.. -
if u view them liddat, then are you still able to put in your effort in the friendship??Originally posted by xShevchenkox:haha, maybe sum ppl dun tink the same as me bah..
of cuz got , l hav sum very best frenz..but to me, l see them in a diff view now.. l dun hold on them imptly, if one day we arent frenz, then nvm lo..