the mysterious sex
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not rational/reasonable/logical/informative etc. ? lolOriginally posted by starblue:ok, i think i should just
and begin to explain.
when i , it means that your post is not "worth" commenting anything more than that. not because you are being straightforwards and i cant accept it. it's that i feel your posts are just not rational/reasonable/logical/informative etc.
i hope you take no offense. you've always been like a lightbulb to this place.
k k k...
u the boss~
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are you implying here, that a guy can get possessive because he doesnt "trust" the gal??Originally posted by BadzMaro:making him trust him is the most important thing la.
Especially bringing him out with her all the time , and gradually as he gains solid trust , he will go off by himself one.. dun need to force or what de man.. -
maybe...but also maybe cos i've been away for too long, got new comers also dunno. anyway, welcome to SBH, we hope you enjoy your stay here, and continue giving us your support and any opinions if any.Originally posted by Xtrider: 21/m lor... means i have not posted enough...
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Yes.Originally posted by starblue:are you implying here, that a guy can get possessive because he doesnt "trust" the gal??
thats why i said there are many reasons. N possesiveness is not genetic. Some become possesive after being this particular girl. It happens. -
evolutionary shapes reciprocity. if you always give more than you receive, you will feel less and less motivated to give.Originally posted by brokenluv:so far i haven encountered any frens wif such issues but i feel that while being possesive is good, it just stresses the other party too much man.. relationship is all about striking a balance. someone once told me that both parties got to put in the same amount of effort for it to work, canot 1 100% 1 50%... -
And any kind of insults or dissent caused will be met with deadly force. E.g smitten down by the hand of Starblue.Originally posted by starblue:maybe...but also maybe cos i've been away for too long, got new comers also dunno. anyway, welcome to SBH, we hope you enjoy your stay here, and continue giving us your support and any opinions if any.
this goes to all new comers. feel free to drop a pm in any of my mod's mailbox if you got an issue to raise. we appreciate and will entertain all comments. -
ohoh..SBH ah...haha i've been everywhereOriginally posted by starblue:maybe...but also maybe cos i've been away for too long, got new comers also dunno. anyway, welcome to SBH, we hope you enjoy your stay here, and continue giving us your support and any opinions if any.
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ahaha..in my opinion, bein possesive can pass different messagesOriginally posted by BadzMaro:Yes.
thats why i said there are many reasons. N possesiveness is not genetic. Some become possesive after being this particular girl. It happens.
1) being overly possesive, d other party might b thinking : hey giv mi air to breathe ok? i oso ve my own frens too ,etc
2) not possesive enough : hey do u reli care about me?? u jus treat me lk a toy??
btw is there any chance u study organisational behavior b4? -
to clarify, only open insults in threads against another forumer. but if you wana badmouth, say, maro, then by all means drop a pm.Originally posted by BadzMaro:And any kind of insults or dissent caused will be met with deadly force. E.g smitten down by the hand of Starblue. 
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eh eh, abit off topic liao ah?
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sure you have. sure you have....Originally posted by Xtrider:ohoh..SBH ah...haha i've been everywhere -
Originally posted by starblue:to clarify, only open insults in threads against another forumer. but if you wana badmouth, say, maro, then by all means drop a pm.
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no wad... we are still talking about a question i posted... about being possessive...Originally posted by gigabyte14:eh eh, abit off topic liao ah? -
a balance lo. thats why knowing how to read the signs n signals lo.. is crucial in the relationship.Originally posted by brokenluv:ahaha..in my opinion, bein possesive can pass different messages
1) being overly possesive, d other party might b thinking : hey giv mi air to breathe ok? i oso ve my own frens too ,etc
2) not possesive enough : hey do u reli care about me?? u jus treat me lk a toy??
btw is there any chance u study organisational behavior b4? -
haha yalor...girls loved to be pampered so a guy always gives in alot to her, care alot for her, but when she doesnt reciprocate or she gets angry, oh man i feel lk...hahh why i joke so much for her??? nvr care for me liddat..Originally posted by starblue:evolutionary shapes reciprocity. if you always give more than you receive, you will feel less and less motivated to give.
and tt oso leads to another question from me.. cuz a girl told mi she had rather a guy gey angry rather den giv in to her ..true?? cuz its like always give in too nice le...abit scary -
hmmm.... if a gal is not possessive, will the guy think she doesnt care enough about him?Originally posted by brokenluv:ahaha..in my opinion, bein possesive can pass different messages
1) being overly possesive, d other party might b thinking : hey giv mi air to breathe ok? i oso ve my own frens too ,etc
2) not possesive enough : hey do u reli care about me?? u jus treat me lk a toy??
btw is there any chance u study organisational behavior b4? -
after 19 pages u still haven got the ans?
okok i post a new one...
i read about 'mediocre' gals who call guys at the slightest trouble (e.g. com crash) are most gals like tt? -
we like a guy who has a backbone. cos we are, afterall, vertebrates. push overs are boring. thats why i said hor, that gals like their guys to play a bit hard to get sometimes also....Originally posted by brokenluv:haha yalor...girls loved to be pampered so a guy always gives in alot to her, care alot for her, but when she doesnt reciprocate or she gets angry, oh man i feel lk...hahh why i joke so much for her??? nvr care for me liddat..
and tt oso leads to another question from me.. cuz a girl told mi she had rather a guy gey angry rather den giv in to her ..true?? cuz its like always give in too nice le...abit scary -
*slaps u*Originally posted by Xtrider:after 19 pages u still haven got the ans?
okok i post a new one...
i read about 'mediocre' gals who call guys at the slightest trouble (e.g. com crash) are most gals like tt?
the question at hand is not yet solved.. how can u motion forward another question without the previous one being answered ? are u trying to sow chaos here!? -
ermm... tts too dumb? unless d guy is overly protective den he wont mind a gf liddis lah...Originally posted by Xtrider:after 19 pages u still haven got the ans?
okok i post a new one...
i read about 'mediocre' gals who call guys at the slightest trouble (e.g. com crash) are most gals like tt? -
o.O got a lot of questions and answers in the 19 pages wor... you got time go and slowly read loh.Originally posted by Xtrider:after 19 pages u still haven got the ans?
okok i post a new one...
i read about 'mediocre' gals who call guys at the slightest trouble (e.g. com crash) are most gals like tt?
wad u mean mediocre???
in general, if a gal calls you for help, doesnt it show she trusts you enough to engage your help, and that she feels that you are dependable enough for her to call on? -
Originally posted by BadzMaro:*slaps u*
the question at hand is not yet solved.. how can u motion forward another question without the previous one being answered ? are u trying to sow chaos here!? 
why cannot?? i also post questions along the way when past questions havent answered yet wad.... multitask lah.... -
haha..wad kind of possesive? i think hugs works the best man..i luv hugs!!Originally posted by starblue:hmmm.... if a gal is not possessive, will the guy think she doesnt care enough about him? -
not relaly , i can mean that she got no one else and u are the only one she can use to fulfill her needs..he he...Originally posted by starblue:o.O got a lot of questions and answers in the 19 pages wor... you got time go and slowly read loh.
wad u mean mediocre???
in general, if a gal calls you for help, doesnt it show she trusts you enough to engage your help, and that she feels that you are dependable enough for her to call on?
but k la.. not many like that.
but i cant resist a damsel in distress...! he he ! -
/blink blinkOriginally posted by brokenluv:haha..wad kind of possesive? i think hugs works the best man..i luv hugs!!
hug = possessiveness???
possessive means.... she dun get jealous if you appear close to another gal. that sort of thing loh...