the mysterious sex
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
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means he scared u kena snatch away lo. or he's insecure?Originally posted by starblue:highlighted in red: isnt that a bit personality based???
i mean like.... if a guy wasnt possessive with say, a previous gf, but becomes possessive of you then it shows that he is not possessive by nature. in this case, what caused him to become possessive? -
why do u keepOriginally posted by starblue:
ar..
do i make u that speechless all the time.
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er, i'm afraid i'm lost... wad has guy not interpreting signs correctly got to do with being possessive?Originally posted by BadzMaro:well, how should i say. Its up the the ability of the guy not to inteprete the signals wrongly. So its hard to be very precise on the moments and time. If i can do it , i wouldnt written a book about it n solved the Men from Mars issue. -
om pretty sure its the correct one...Originally posted by starblue:might mean that you have the wrong sort.
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like i said, he might have been misled if the girl was outgoing and loves hanging around guys, but she stopped this behavior pattern during dating, and resumes it after they got together..Originally posted by starblue:highlighted in red: isnt that a bit personality based???
i mean like.... if a guy wasnt possessive with say, a previous gf, but becomes possessive of you then it shows that he is not possessive by nature. in this case, what caused him to become possessive?
but this is one scenario lah -
yes... and if you werent a regular already, i'd have ignored those posts entirely.Originally posted by BadzMaro:why do u keep ar..
do i make u that speechless all the time. sorry for being so straight, but i couldnt bare lying to you. -
lol..i was just asking cuz a girl said my sarcasm is nice.its sarca but it sounded serious
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ok.....Originally posted by LazerLordz:like i said, he might have been misled if the girl was outgoing and loves hanging around guys, but she stopped this behavior pattern during dating, and resumes it after they got together..
but this is one scenario lah
so wad are other senarios?? care to illustrate?
how is a gal supposed to act if her bf became possessive? -
if you say so, mate.Originally posted by Xtrider:om pretty sure its the correct one...
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because by mis-interpreting the girls signals made him become possisive. She was not doing what he think she was.. u know , n sometimes no communication furthermore confuses the guy, hence sometimes , they become possesive in fear of losing u to someone else. Like i said , environment and the friends she hangs around with is a factor loOriginally posted by starblue:er, i'm afraid i'm lost... wad has guy not interpreting signs correctly got to do with being possessive? -
good for you...Originally posted by brokenluv:lol..i was just asking cuz a girl said my sarcasm is nice.its sarca but it sounded serious
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Originally posted by starblue:if you say so, mate.
guy/gal? age?
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ok... i sorta get it... when a guy feels out of control, he tends to becomes possessive, is that right?Originally posted by BadzMaro:because by mis-interpreting the girls signals made him become possisive. She was not doing what he think she was.. u know , n sometimes no communication furthermore confuses the guy, hence sometimes , they become possesive in fear of losing u to someone else. Like i said , environment and the friends she hangs around with is a factor lo -
well , they wanted to truth , n sometimes when the truth is out , ppl just cant accept it. mmmm~ maybe i am being TOO straightforward.Originally posted by starblue:yes... and if you werent a regular already, i'd have ignored those posts entirely. sorry for being so straight, but i couldnt bare lying to you.
heh anyways.. i laugh these things off. -
scary la
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i havent seen you around here, so wanna know your asl.Originally posted by Xtrider: -
that too. But like i said , both also plays a part.. if she continue doing what she does, the guy's gonna go loco .Originally posted by starblue:ok... i sorta get it... when a guy feels out of control, he tends to becomes possessive, is that right? -
wah this one..I'm not too sure man..Originally posted by starblue:ok.....
so wad are other senarios?? care to illustrate?
how is a gal supposed to act if her bf became possessive?
maybe you girls should have some tales of your own? -
lol of cuz! human are interested to know the oposite gender dOriginally posted by gigabyte14:scary la
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ok, i think i should justOriginally posted by BadzMaro:well , they wanted to truth , n sometimes when the truth is out , ppl just cant accept it. mmmm~ maybe i am being TOO straightforward.
heh anyways.. i laugh these things off. and begin to explain.
when i , it means that your post is not "worth" commenting anything more than that. not because you are being straightforwards and i cant accept it. it's that i feel your posts are just not rational/reasonable/logical/informative etc.
i hope you take no offense. you've always been like a lightbulb to this place. -
making him trust him is the most important thing la.Originally posted by LazerLordz:wah this one..I'm not too sure man..
maybe you girls should have some tales of your own?
Especially bringing him out with her all the time , and gradually as he gains solid trust , he will go off by himself one.. dun need to force or what de man.. -
you new around here? guy/gal? age?Originally posted by gigabyte14:scary la
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Originally posted by starblue:i havent seen you around here, so wanna know your asl. 21/m lor... means i have not posted enough...
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so far i haven encountered any frens wif such issues but i feel that while being possesive is good, it just stresses the other party too much man.. relationship is all about striking a balance. someone once told me that both parties got to put in the same amount of effort for it to work, canot 1 100% 1 50%...Originally posted by LazerLordz:wah this one..I'm not too sure man..
maybe you girls should have some tales of your own?