the mysterious sex
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some guys tend to want to do things their way to assert to their girl that they are capable and decisive, until it goes overboard..Originally posted by starblue:hmmm.... explain more?
and then some guys will let her control the relationship, especially those who used to think that she was unattainable..prolly a sort of "I don't want to lose her" mentality.. -
Ok, times up, i gtg, bye bye all you grand sages!!
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oh... also will have lah, depends on the gal... like for me ah, i wun spare no corny jokes one....Originally posted by ChoCoChips:no no, i mean i prefer the girl gimme sarcastic remarks(as a joke la) if the joke is rly corny.
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lesson learnt : some girls do not like to be called "dude".
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sarcasm oso has its limits, but 1 thing for sure, girls do admire guys tt ve good sarcasm skills mah? like even if a guy is bein sarca,but its a good 1Originally posted by starblue:but does the gal(s) also like your sarcastic remarks, that's the question isnt it?
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arent those like... the extremes, instead of the norm?Originally posted by LazerLordz:some guys tend to want to do things their way to assert to their girl that they are capable and decisive, until it goes overboard..
and then some guys will let her control the relationship, especially those who used to think that she was unattainable..prolly a sort of "I don't want to lose her" mentality.. -
well, i'm no statistician..just sharing what i've seen lor.Originally posted by starblue:arent those like... the extremes, instead of the norm? -
definitely... especially if you can make a gal laugh when you are being sacarstic... that means that you have the wit, and you can present it in an amusing way without offending anyone.Originally posted by brokenluv:sarcasm oso has its limits, but 1 thing for sure, girls do admire guys tt ve good sarcasm skills mah? like even if a guy is bein sarca,but its a good 1 -
haiya... long story short ,
Girls are very interesting creatures. You are like dancing with her in the mindfield , blindfolded. then slowly as u progress , u shed ur man like insticts n become more animalistic , doing what u need to do to get the opportunity , and to seize it when the time comes. And u become the man u were before .
So every girls is a different one. But by knowing , dating etc etc more women , gives u the ability to be more understanding towards them and knowing what methods to woo her. U have a better statistical knowledge on what works and what doesnt. Thats one of the ways of a successful courtship. he he he -
I think I have that talent..at times.Originally posted by starblue:definitely... especially if you can make a gal laugh when you are being sacarstic... that means that you have the wit, and you can present it in an amusing way without offending anyone.
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i see....Originally posted by LazerLordz:well, i'm no statistician..just sharing what i've seen lor.
one more questions:
everyone has heard of that scary possessive bf. is possessiveness personality based (as in if you get one, you are just suay for picking a bf like that), or are there non-genetic reasons behind it? -
he he.. i have it all the time.Originally posted by LazerLordz:I think I have that talent..at times. 
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aww thank you.Originally posted by starblue:definitely... especially if you can make a gal laugh when you are being sacarstic... that means that you have the wit, and you can present it in an amusing way without offending anyone. -
yeah, you do.Originally posted by LazerLordz:I think I have that talent..at times. -
of course there rae non-genetic reasons. Her friends can be a factor. Her environment and how she interacts with other males. And sometimes the girl her self have ways to make him possesive n sometimes they are to blame themselves.~Originally posted by starblue:i see....
one more questions:
everyone has heard of that scary possessive bf. is possessiveness personality based (as in if you get one, you are just suay for picking a bf like that), or are there non-genetic reasons behind it? -
if you are naturally outgoing but you hid it from your bf when he was wooing you, and he happens to be one of those cautious, paranoid type...then it's non-genetic..Originally posted by starblue:i see....
one more questions:
everyone has heard of that scary possessive bf. is possessiveness personality based (as in if you get one, you are just suay for picking a bf like that), or are there non-genetic reasons behind it?
hey, you don't have to put in under a microscope man.. -
Originally posted by BadzMaro:he he.. i have it all the time.
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huh?? thank me for wad??? i wasnt speaking of you. i wasn speaking of the trait in general.Originally posted by ChoCoChips:aww thank you. -
ok, you're being very vague. any examples to illustrate those points?Originally posted by BadzMaro:of course there rae non-genetic reasons. Her friends can be a factor. Her environment and how she interacts with other males. And sometimes the girl her self have ways to make him possesive n sometimes they are to blame themselves.~ -
i have it tooOriginally posted by BadzMaro:he he.. i have it all the time. 
but no gf
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highlighted in red: isnt that a bit personality based???Originally posted by LazerLordz:if you are naturally outgoing but you hid it from your bf when he was wooing you, and he happens to be one of those cautious, paranoid type...then it's non-genetic..
hey, you don't have to put in under a microscope man..
i mean like.... if a guy wasnt possessive with say, a previous gf, but becomes possessive of you then it shows that he is not possessive by nature. in this case, what caused him to become possessive? -
Originally posted by starblue:huh?? thank me for wad??? i wasnt speaking of you. i wasn speaking of the trait in general.
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insecurity la...Originally posted by starblue:ok, you're being very vague. any examples to illustrate those points?
if the gf too chio most prob the guy will have it -
might mean that you have the wrong sort.Originally posted by Xtrider:i have it too
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well, how should i say. Its up the the ability of the guy not to inteprete the signals wrongly. So its hard to be very precise on the moments and time. If i can do it , i wouldnt written a book about it n solved the Men from Mars issue.Originally posted by starblue:ok, you're being very vague. any examples to illustrate those points?