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i just want to save us from public embarassment...Originally posted by the Bear:who's getting who into trouble?
if i'm here and you decide to stab yourself, you cannot blame me..
plus once this kinda thing happen they are going to leak out all kind of secrets in front of everyone...it is like washing dirty laundry in the public...haiz.. -
you know as well as i do she won't think that way.Originally posted by the Bear:who's getting who into trouble?
if i'm here and you decide to stab yourself, you cannot blame me..
besides its hard to say its not my fualt if you are the direct initiator of the trouble even if its by their own actions.
and its different because in this case its more like you have an electric fence and they put their hands on it. you could choose to switch on the electricity or leave ti off as it was. -
thing about laundry after it's washed, whether public or private, it becomes clean
Originally posted by rainee:i just want to save us from public embarassment...
plus once this kinda thing happen they are going to leak out all kind of secrets in front of everyone...it is like washing dirty laundry in the public...haiz.. -
not if its an unwashable stainOriginally posted by the Bear:thing about laundry after it's washed, whether public or private, it becomes clean
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yea...it will be hard to say it is not my fault...in a way, this might make me feel guilty for the rest of my life...Originally posted by hisoka:you know as well as i do she won't think that way.
besides its hard to say its not my fualt if you are the direct initiator of the trouble even if its by their own actions.
and its different because in this case its more like you have an electric fence and they put their hands on it. you could choose to switch on the electricity or leave ti off as it was.
tink abt wat if it is ur own parents, then you did sth to throw them in jail...wun u feel guilty?
but if i dun take action, it means my own life will be destroyed...
tough decision
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yeah i know.Originally posted by rainee:yea...it will be hard to say it is not my fault...in a way, this might make me feel guilty for the rest of my life...
tink abt wat if it is ur own parents, then you did sth to throw them in jail...wun u feel guilty?
but if i dun take action, it means my own life will be destroyed...
tough decision
i don't know if i could bring myself to do that if it were my parents. i'm a failure
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no la, not a failure...Originally posted by hisoka:yeah i know.
i don't know if i could bring myself to do that if it were my parents. i'm a failure
i believe every child will also not want to do this to their own parents...maybe that's why so many cases of abuse go on unnoticed...because the child is too afraid to voice out the problems for fear of getting his parents into trouble... -
its more like how the country and thier human rights etc etc has a factor in it.Originally posted by rainee:no la, not a failure...
i believe every child will also not want to do this to their own parents...maybe that's why so many cases of abuse go on unnoticed...because the child is too afraid to voice out the problems for fear of getting his parents into trouble...
in overseas , the son will not hesitate to report ur parents @ss if there is any form of abuse. But us, we take this kind of punishment as normal and we suck it in. -
abuse is abuse.. no matter what the hell it is called..
and abuse, has to stop or be stopped...
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i been abused , but i understand now when i get older. So i didnt go all fuked up crazy after that. N use it as an excuse.
But abuse , what is abuse ? how do u get rid of abuse ? -
leaveOriginally posted by BadzMaro:i been abused , but i understand now when i get older. So i didnt go all fuked up crazy after that. N use it as an excuse.
But abuse , what is abuse ? how do u get rid of abuse ? -
?Originally posted by the Bear:leave
leave the very hands that carried u when u were a baby , fed u , invested in you .. hell i guess so. -
but seriously , i am sure you all got abused before someway or another ma right ?
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yah..
thing is this.. you didn't ask to be put on earth by them.. they did so and frankly, parents OWE their children..
what? children owe their parents?? so parents become bloody selfish things to put a lot of people on earth to owe them a living??
parents.. when they do the correct thing, bring up their children right, their children will love them unconditionally.. and when the parents set their children free, the children will go unfettered... but they will return.. out of love...Originally posted by BadzMaro:?
leave the very hands that carried u when u were a baby , fed u , invested in you .. hell i guess so. -
we're talking about chronic abuse.. where it doesn't stop...Originally posted by BadzMaro:but seriously , i am sure you all got abused before someway or another ma right ?
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but some parents are not good parents. They dont know how. Maybe say , working parents. Holding high positions in society , the stress, the daily n constant bs. Is it thier fault ? But the whole point of having a children is to have ur next generation continue on ur legacy. No matter what , u still owe it to them . If not , at least ur loyalty.Originally posted by the Bear:yah..
thing is this.. you didn't ask to be put on earth by them.. they did so and frankly, parents OWE their children..
what? children owe their parents?? so parents become bloody selfish things to put a lot of people on earth to owe them a living??
parents.. when they do the correct thing, bring up their children right, their children will love them unconditionally.. and when the parents set their children free, the children will go unfettered... but they will return.. out of love... -
Since when abuse stops. Wont stop until the other person is dead.. or.. enlightened.Originally posted by the Bear:we're talking about chronic abuse.. where it doesn't stop... -
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Found most stuff that i learnt before, all clean forgotten, screw.
Is tuition the key? -
revision is.Originally posted by seow:Found most stuff that i learnt before, all clean forgotten, screw.
Is tuition the key? -
can't sleep.
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cant sleep ?
then share ur thoughts here.
from 2am to 6am is XXX nite. in SBH CB.
N i get to say whether what u say is appropriate or not.
U ask a question. I answer n then i ask and u answer.
sounds gay.. but this will make u go sleep -
i will always remember BadzMaro as the person who made me go to sleep.
nite all
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nights.