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doing stuffs~ u ?
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im...doing stuffs too...
but...its day time for me...and night time for u leh... -
o ?
oh yeah. just catching up some work. finish a while ago but cant sleep. trying to play some stuffs but also cant sleep. Drink a bit also cant.
eyes...popping out,.. -
lai lai lai...
i shall tell u bedtime stories...
once upon a time
there was a boy
he slept late
and woke up even later
in the end
he died...
/me goes to switch off the lights and tucks maro into bed
NITENITE~
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lol!
u @ss
anyways i go rest a while need to wake at 6.30 -
nitenite~~
do wake up on time ok
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omg...mayi wake up so early ah...
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haiz sianz...my parents seem to be in a moody period again...
kept saying i m useless
i wan to know if i m so useless how come i can still provide 800 per month for them for nearly a year liaoz...
sometimes i wish i can tell them that they are the useless one now, but i bite my tongue and said nothing, bcos wan to show respect to them. but it is getting increasingly difficult to respect ppl who dun show respect to me
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take it easy.Originally posted by rainee:haiz sianz...my parents seem to be in a moody period again...
kept saying i m useless i wan to know if i m so useless how come i can still provide 800 per month for them for nearly a year liaoz...
sometimes i wish i can tell them that they are the useless one now, but i bite my tongue and said nothing, bcos wan to show respect to them. but it is getting increasingly difficult to respect ppl who dun show respect to me
come sg work got more money when you go back
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i oso wan to go to SG to work, but my parents wun let me.Originally posted by hisoka:take it easy.
come sg work got more money when you go back
The other day I told them i m going out to dinner with my frens, they are reluctant to let me go, then on Saturday I told them I want to go eat by myself so dun need to trouble them to ta pau for me, they forced me to come back home straight away. Then kept saying I am abandoning them, bla bla...
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we've been thru this before and you know what i think.Originally posted by rainee:i oso wan to go to SG to work, but my parents wun let me.
The other day I told them i m going out to dinner with my frens, they are reluctant to let me go, then on Saturday I told them I want to go eat by myself so dun need to trouble them to ta pau for me, they forced me to come back home straight away. Then kept saying I am abandoning them, bla bla...
With this kinda thing happening, you think they will let me go singapore to work?
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yea I know...even Rin also said he is getting fed up with the way they treated me and want to call some authority to step in le...Originally posted by hisoka:we've been thru this before and you know what i think.
anyway they sound desperate
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well i suggest you either stop him or do it yourself.Originally posted by rainee:yea I know...even Rin also said he is getting fed up with the way they treated me and want to call some authority to step in le...
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yea...i tell him not to do it...Originally posted by hisoka:well i suggest you either stop him or do it yourself.
i think it would be more messy if your parents think rin is snatching you away
but he says if my parents hurt me physically and he comes to know abt it, no choice but to call the authorities le, cos it is his responsibility to protect me also as his gf...
cos he knows i m too soft-hearted to do this kinda thing, if i can do it i wud have done it long ago when they abused me while i was younger last time -
wel i would too if i was himOriginally posted by rainee:yea...i tell him not to do it...
but he says if my parents hurt me physically and he comes to know abt it, no choice but to call the authorities le, cos it is his responsibility to protect me also as his gf...
cos he knows i m too soft-hearted to do this kinda thing, if i can do it i wud have done it long ago when they abused me while i was younger last time -
Me 3.
Rainee take care ok.. -
thanks peeps...
rin wud be going to taiwan soon le...hopefully nothing happens during that time -
"if i wanted to abandon you i would have done that a long long LONG time ago instead of standing here putting up with your bullsh1t.. you think what? your daughter is to waste her life sitting at home, being resentful of you? that's what you're doing.. making me resent you..."
"i go and work you not happy, i don't go to work, you also not happy.. nabeh! liddat reasonable people would have abandoned you a LONG time ago!! but i'm still here, listening to your bullsh1t, listening to threats which will get you IMPRISONED.."
"push me and hurt me, and you WILL feel the wrath of the law.. just because you are my folks and i love you doesn't mean that you can take advantage of me and ruin MY life.. if you are not happy with your own and you feel you've ruined yours, why the hell would you want to ruin YOUR DAUGHTER'S?? what the hell is wrong with you?"
stuff like that.. a long tirade... sometimes snaps parents to their senses.. -
I got tried that with them last time but it just caused my dad to try to hurt me physically and called me ungrateful...until I had to run into my room and locked myself inside...Originally posted by the Bear:"if i wanted to abandon you i would have done that a long long LONG time ago instead of standing here putting up with your bullsh1t.. you think what? your daughter is to waste her life sitting at home, being resentful of you? that's what you're doing.. making me resent you..."
"i go and work you not happy, i don't go to work, you also not happy.. nabeh! liddat reasonable people would have abandoned you a LONG time ago!! but i'm still here, listening to your bullsh1t, listening to threats which will get you IMPRISONED.."
"push me and hurt me, and you WILL feel the wrath of the law.. just because you are my folks and i love you doesn't mean that you can take advantage of me and ruin MY life.. if you are not happy with your own and you feel you've ruined yours, why the hell would you want to ruin YOUR DAUGHTER'S?? what the hell is wrong with you?"
stuff like that.. a long tirade... sometimes snaps parents to their senses..
seriously, sometimes i wish they wud just drop dead
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there comes a time, when you are forced to do what they fear you will do...
because you are forced into that situation by them...
get a job in singapore, move here...
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they will come and make trouble in my workplace and cause me to embarass myself there...haizOriginally posted by the Bear:there comes a time, when you are forced to do what they fear you will do...
because you are forced into that situation by them...
get a job in singapore, move here...
if they do get violent or whatever, the law will protect you.. -
in singapore?
heard of this thing called a "restraining order" ?
they come within a certain distance of you, they'll be arrested...
they try to talk to you, they'll be arrested..
they try to email you, they'll be arrested...
like in the other topic we were talking about, you are only abused if you allow yourself to be abused...Originally posted by rainee:they will come and make trouble in my workplace and cause me to embarass myself there...haiz -
same problem she can't bear to get them into troubleOriginally posted by the Bear:in singapore?
heard of this thing called a "restraining order" ?
they come within a certain distance of you, they'll be arrested...
they try to talk to you, they'll be arrested..
they try to email you, they'll be arrested...
like in the other topic we were talking about, you are only abused if you allow yourself to be abused... -
who's getting who into trouble?
if i'm here and you decide to stab yourself, you cannot blame me..Originally posted by hisoka:same problem she can't bear to get them into trouble