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uh.. what does that have to do with love ? then why she married ?Originally posted by rainee:cos love is blind
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Affairs are bound to happen. Scandals are happening all around. U need the ball n chains. U need GPS on him. Now thanks to latest 3G capabilities! GUYS n GIRLS who wanna sneaky sneaky not so easy liaw...
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err...she willingly be with that guy even tho he has a wife oledi cos she loves him? so the love blinded her and made her stay with him even tho she is likely to be better off with someone who is not having an affair behind his wife's back...Originally posted by BadzMaro:uh.. what does that have to do with love ? then why she married ? -
Wasn't there a song about this?Originally posted by alfagal:Do some guys have so called an affair, though they already have a steady gf? (esp those getting married)
What goes thru their minds manz...in doing so?
"O it's sad to belong to someone else, when the right one comes along..."
Guess that's the reason...don't be in a hurry to be hitched but then again, don't wait until the gals you like start calling you uncle either
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but one think i find q amazing..its been quite long..
2yrs not long not short..
was thinking bout alex qn...lust or love?
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nice quote...Originally posted by oxford mushroom:Wasn't there a song about this?
"O it's sad to belong to someone else, when the right one comes along..."
Guess that's the reason...don't be in a hurry to be hitched but then again, don't wait until the gals you like start calling you uncle either
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this guy i know... he's gotten over his gf, but he still sticks in the r/s cos he's tpp soft hearted to break up. but he's "looking out" for other gals. wad is this logic man??? -_-"
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gotten over?
and yet in it?
uhh.. what's going on...
anyway, in love, it's all or nothing... anything less, it's not love...Originally posted by starblue:this guy i know... he's gotten over his gf, but he still sticks in the r/s cos he's tpp soft hearted to break up. but he's "looking out" for other gals. wad is this logic man??? -_-" -
I think there is a fine line separating love and lust. Either one can be dominant and they can co-exist together.
Alternatively Love can be divided into 2 sections : Lust (the craving of sexual gratification) and Attachment (the sense of calm, peace, and stability one feels with a long-term partner). -
hey...alex...are you a therapist?Originally posted by alexkusu:I think there is a fine line separating love and lust. Either one can be dominant and they can co-exist together.
Alternatively Love can be divided into 2 sections : Lust (the craving of sexual gratification) and Attachment (the sense of calm, peace, and stability one feels with a long-term partner).
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under psychological terms its: passion n intimatcy respectivelyOriginally posted by oxford mushroom:hey...alex...are you a therapist? 
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Tell you a true story---it actually happened to a friend of mine...
He met a girl when he was in high school and fell in love. Unfortunately her parents decided to emigrate and took her away. At such a young age and faced with a long distance relationship, they drifted apart (this was in the 80s, when students haven't got mobile phones and love letters were written on paper, not email).
Years later, he met someone else, got engaged and forgot about the earlier girl. We all attended his engagement party and soon his wedding date was announced. Just as he was busy preparing for his wedding, the first girl returned and established contact.
He was in a dilemma because all the past feelings came flooding back. He told us that he still loved the first girl. Obviously, all of us said, "What about your fiancee?" He struggled with it for a while but finally decided to call off the wedding and later married his teenage sweetheart.
What would you do? Do the honorable thing and marry the fiancee? Go through life thinking about what could have been? Or call off the wedding as he did and be called a S.O.B by friends and relatives? -
im just a simple boy with simple dreams. All I want is to meet a nice rich female to look after and cherish meOriginally posted by oxford mushroom:hey...alex...are you a therapist? 
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If possible, marry both of them. Convert to Islam if he had to. Somehow, I feel in this world, there are many 'right' ones for you. But the question is, which one will you choose if you are only allowed to have one?Originally posted by oxford mushroom:Tell you a true story---it actually happened to a friend of mine...
He met a girl when he was in high school and fell in love. Unfortunately her parents decided to emigrate and took her away. At such a young age and faced with a long distance relationship, they drifted apart (this was in the 80s, when students haven't got mobile phones and love letters were written on paper, not email).
Years later, he met someone else, got engaged and forgot about the earlier girl. We all attended his engagement party and soon his wedding date was announced. Just as he was busy preparing for his wedding, the first girl returned and established contact.
He was in a dilemma because all the past feelings came flooding back. He told us that he still loved the first girl. Obviously, all of us said, "What about your fiancee?" He struggled with it for a while but finally decided to call off the wedding and later married his teenage sweetheart.
What would you do? Do the honorable thing and marry the fiancee? Go through life thinking about what could have been? Or call off the wedding as he did and be called a S.O.B by friends and relatives? -
Hmm...even if he had married his fiancee, would it be fair to her to live her life with someone whose heart is somewhere else?Originally posted by oxford mushroom:Tell you a true story---it actually happened to a friend of mine...
He met a girl when he was in high school and fell in love. Unfortunately her parents decided to emigrate and took her away. At such a young age and faced with a long distance relationship, they drifted apart (this was in the 80s, when students haven't got mobile phones and love letters were written on paper, not email).
Years later, he met someone else, got engaged and forgot about the earlier girl. We all attended his engagement party and soon his wedding date was announced. Just as he was busy preparing for his wedding, the first girl returned and established contact.
He was in a dilemma because all the past feelings came flooding back. He told us that he still loved the first girl. Obviously, all of us said, "What about your fiancee?" He struggled with it for a while but finally decided to call off the wedding and later married his teenage sweetheart.
What would you do? Do the honorable thing and marry the fiancee? Go through life thinking about what could have been? Or call off the wedding as he did and be called a S.O.B by friends and relatives? -
bottomline: anything is possible