Here is the analysis:Originally posted by starblue:i will smile and say, "thank you." then if i think on it, i may ask why he/she said that.![]()
just say mah. not against the law right?Originally posted by CoolMyth:Dunno must say meh?
Like that I need to answer dunno for a lot of things wor.![]()
Here is the analysis:Originally posted by rainee:I will say "thank you" graciously![]()
Hmmm....first part quite true. But second part not quite. I always regard myself as someone with low-esteem. The regulars here shall know.Originally posted by alfagal:Here is the analysis:
If you try to change the subject when you are being complimented or you simply ignore it, this means that you don't like to pretend and you cherish authenticity. You feel that saying nice things to someone is merely an attempt to please the listener. You don't believe there is truth in compliments, and think that the complimenter must want something in return. You have good self-esteem and aren't afraid of criticizing, or being criticized.
then my "asking they why they complimented me sometimes" says wad about me?Originally posted by alfagal:Here is the analysis:
If you are gracious and simply say thank you when you receive a compliment, it shows that you are confident and self-assured. You respect the privacy of others, and don't like to poke your nose into anyone's business. You are sure of what your values are, and are proud of what you believe.
usually I said that cos if I reject the compliment, they will say I am not gracious la, bla bla blaOriginally posted by alfagal:Here is the analysis:
If you are gracious and simply say thank you when you receive a compliment, it shows that you are confident and self-assured. You respect the privacy of others, and don't like to poke your nose into anyone's business. You are sure of what your values are, and are proud of what you believe.
same as starry
You ignore the compliment.Originally posted by alfagal:How do you react to compliments?
Think about the last few times you were sincerely complimented and what your responses were.
please answer
You answer with a question.
You return the compliment.
You ignore the compliment.
You agree.
You refer to others.
You say "thank you" graciously.
okay..since i have ur blessingsOriginally posted by starblue:/pat pat
next time bully cool instead ok???
I didn't get to know any chio bu.Originally posted by CoolMyth:Please PM to my account a picture of the chioest gal you know as payment.
Kum sia.![]()
i will not reject it cos i feels petty to me lah... people wanna say i cute, i also dun wan to disagree lah right not??Originally posted by rainee:usually I said that cos if I reject the compliment, they will say I am not gracious la, bla bla bla
Why must ask him to bul-wee me?Originally posted by starblue:/pat pat
next time bully cool instead ok???
Here is the analysis:Originally posted by TooFree:You ignore the compliment.![]()
how bout i downplay the compliement and compliement them instead?Originally posted by alfagal:How do you react to compliments?
Think about the last few times you were sincerely complimented and what your responses were.
please answer
You answer with a question.
You return the compliment.
You ignore the compliment.
You agree.
You refer to others.
You say "thank you" graciously.
*cough* dun say i say one lah...Originally posted by alexkusu:okay..since i have ur blessings![]()
Beauty World? Used to frequent there very often.Originally posted by seow:I didn't get to know any chio bu.
If i ever meet you in real life at the beauty world area in bukit timah, i blanja you milo dinosaur, but that is if we ever meet.![]()
ur not worth her time ma....Originally posted by CoolMyth:Why must ask him to bul-wee me?
I want you to bul-wee me leh....![]()
Zhen De Mah....?Originally posted by alexkusu:ur not worth her time ma....
i mean that in a nice way![]()
Here is the analysis:Originally posted by alexkusu:how bout i downplay the compliement and compliement them instead?
Originally posted by CoolMyth:Why must ask him to bul-wee me?
I want you to bul-wee me leh....![]()
me tooOriginally posted by alexkusu:how bout i downplay the compliement and compliement them instead?
What friendly shop?Originally posted by CoolMyth:Beauty World? Used to frequent there very often.
Eh, you know if the "friendly" shop there still around?![]()
hhmm...Originally posted by alfagal:1. Here is the analysis:
You enjoy being surrounded by lots of your relatives and friends. You can be over-possessive and sometimes this can hurt the people around you. Learn to chill out; you have lots of friends, so there's no need to cling to just a few. Share your natural happiness around, particularly to your sweetheart.
2.Here is the analysis:
You are strong, brave and decisive. You are good at management and leading. Sometimes your husband/wife and children will find you a bit on the strict side, but you'll take care of your family to the best of your abilities. When there is a problem, you'll face it with no fear. You are a true homely idol.
3.Here is the analysis:
The needs and wants of your family members will lag far behind what your own needs and wants are. You'll be isolated from them, and live in your own little world. You may flippant when it comes to caring for your loved one and you won't listen to any criticism from anyone.
Dun want....Originally posted by starblue:i pass priviledge to him. u just treat his bullying as if i am bullying u lah ok?? guai..
pui! putting words into my mouth again.Originally posted by alexkusu:ur not worth her time ma....
i mean that in a nice way![]()
Okay, nvm.Originally posted by seow:What friendly shop?
I frequent the makan place opposite beauty world, bt trail is near there.![]()