how can someone say....
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x2Originally posted by rainee:Well, I am the real me when I am with someone I love
I wouldn't bother pretending...And I guess after a while, the real me will come up, it is not that easy pretending to be someone else all the time...and especially when you start to trust that person, you will lose the mask you always put on when you are talking to strangers or even acquaintances...
Well, I do know of some which has happy endings, some do not, but then again who are we to guess whether a r/s will end happily ever after or not unless we try it ourselves?
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-_-" of cos i'm the real me in real life. i meant, you can't be EXACTLY you online cos typing and speaking styles have to have a difference... some people are better at writing than speaking right??? at least i think the online me and the real me got only about 70% similarities only.. (which is of cos to say, the real me is much more charming than this... )
but then, the question is still there... since you don't REALLY know who the other person you're talking to online REALLY is, how can you say you love him/her???
and raven, stop your crap. noob. -
wtf?Originally posted by starblue:and raven, stop your crap. noob. -
of course, that is why after a while you wil tend to abandon MSN and start to chat on the phone...easier that wayOriginally posted by starblue:-_-" of cos i'm the real me in real life. i meant, you can't be EXACTLY you online cos typing and speaking styles have to have a difference... some people are better at writing than speaking right??? at least i think the online me and the real me got only about 70% similarities only.. (which is of cos to say, the real me is much more charming than this... )
but then, the question is still there... since you don't REALLY know who the other person you're talking to online REALLY is, how can you say you love him/her???
and raven, stop your crap. noob. So during that time you will get to judge him thru speaking as well...
You can be real with someone you met online as well, as long as you start to trust him/her enough -
nah.. i mean hor... i tend to clam up a bit with new people, even if we've chatted like old friends on phone/msn... like, i'm more open online, can crap like hell with total strangers. but i can't do that in real life, not unless the person's really close to me... see???Originally posted by rainee:of course, that is why after a while you wil tend to abandon MSN and start to chat on the phone...easier that way So during that time you will get to judge him thru speaking as well...
You can be real with someone you met online as well, as long as you start to trust him/her enough -
*Simple Bear wonders who is the real bear...
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Hmm ok, but isn't that a good thing? I mean you are able to be more open online...so you will get to know each other faster...Originally posted by starblue:nah.. i mean hor... i tend to clam up a bit with new people, even if we've chatted like old friends on phone/msn... like, i'm more open online, can crap like hell with total strangers. but i can't do that in real life, not unless the person's really close to me... see???
But once you get close to a person online, don't you think you will start losing your reserve and start being more of yourself? I mean it is one thing to be able to chat freely with strangers, but there is always the caution there. But after knowing them for a while...and after you have started to trust them, don't you start to treat them as how you wud treat a fren you have in real life?