~Parents bad points~
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It's ok. Why u very fierce? Always scold the kids issit?Originally posted by a_splash:orr ok ok
soli soli.... 
i will hv three writing about my bad points then....
guess the first on the list will be fierce mum.... told them i will be changing changing liao .....
ok lah....we all learnt from each other mah.....
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Originally posted by SBS9828X:wakes me up at 8 each morning... wen play com too long will scold but different story for my sister... she wud even ask me to stop to let her play maple...
Shes biased...... biased at everything learn from my boi lah....he says no fair at everything that he don't like... -
before married....my brothers called me 'mu lao hu'...Originally posted by Wanda:It's ok. Why u very fierce? Always scold the kids issit?
so i don't know ley..... -
Heheh...spice gal!Originally posted by a_splash:before married....my brothers called me 'mu lao hu'...
so i don't know ley..... -
must be due to my high intake of chilli....Originally posted by Wanda:Heheh...spice gal! -
no worries..Originally posted by a_splash:aiyo yo....future mother in law won't like that very much, would she??
for me...i m too embarrassed to mess other ppl's place up...
i contribute to the mess with nel's stuff...
so it always seems like nel's the only one messin the place up
but then...
they started it..
i just joined in cos i bth.. they messed up the place 5 sec after i cleared it up..
since den.. i dun clean the room for them liao -
so its luan zhong de luan....Originally posted by shinta:no worries..
i contribute to the mess with nel's stuff...
so it always seems like nel's the only one messin the place up
but then...
they started it..
i just joined in cos i bth.. they messed up the place 5 sec after i cleared it up..
since den.. i dun clean the room for them liao
gao zhao! -
funny no one complains about the daddy??
daddies all the good guys at home?? poor mums... -
I don't want to start on my father...too many things to complain about.
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ok lets not then...Originally posted by Wanda:I don't want to start on my father...too many things to complain about.
my dad has many things for me to complain too if i want to...but he also had a few nice things for me to tok about..... -
many times parents' so called bad points are bitter medicine meant for our good....not many can fully understand till they are old enugh......
but of course there are some with truly bad points....its just too bad.....
whatever they are....they are our parents....not everyone can be a good parent in every single way..(parenting skill don't come easy for everyone)....but most parents do what they think best for their children, there maybe other areas they have done badly, but we must still gv them a plus for their effort in those area they have tried their best to do...
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kids in singapore are too spoilt.
and the media is a bad influence.
its like a phase in singapore.
rebelling against parents and complaining about them seems to be 'cool' at a certain age...
i used to be that way too.
anyways, parents are also humans and no human is perfect. to err is human, to forgive devine...after all, im sure they have only good intentions...
why is there no post about our own bad points??? -
I am not too old. My mum is still alive at 78 years old. My son is 18 years old. I don't know whether I qualify to talk on behalf of parents.Originally posted by udontknowme:kids in singapore are too spoilt.
and the media is a bad influence.
its like a phase in singapore.
rebelling against parents and complaining about them seems to be 'cool' at a certain age...
i used to be that way too.
anyways, parents are also humans and no human is perfect. to err is human, to forgive devine...after all, im sure they have only good intentions...
why is there no post about our own bad points???
My son, hated me. I had not done any bad which he agrees. However, I do nag at him for things that he did... I do not wish for my son to be a burden to himself or society and I always nag at him when he did something wrong. He hated me for that. We just cannot communicate. I spoke to him many times. I tried each time to make up with him but each time I failed.
The last time I spoke to him I told him, parent are human too. I admitted I failed as a father. However, although we can attend school for many things, there is never a subject or course to tell you how to be a parent. There isn't a book to tell you how to behave like one. Like others, I tried it out on trial basis... I maybe wrong now but at that time, the was the best decision I made, " for his sake ". I know many parent will say " this is for your own good " and youngster get fed up listening to it. So I learn not to repeat this. There, parenting is a learning process ... but there are much more to it ..
Many of the complaints here doesn't reflect any serious issues. In fact, you can see the love the parents try to give to each individual here. The problem is, they are not able to put it in the way the youngster can accept it. Please reflect on your own action and try to put yourself in your parents' shoe and see if you can do it better. When I had my son, I told myself that he will not get the treatment my parent treated me. He will be special... but look at it, I failed misery and is even worst than what my parent it. Both my parents came from China and without education. I felt that they score better than me in term of parenting... Today, at this age, my mother still nag at me.... at time I am still angry with her but for the love she gaves me .... and yes, she still nag ....
Just my two cents worth .... -
Just saw yesterday Xin Ming about a 40 years old day beating her mother everyday..... is this what the parent deserves after bring her into the world and raised her up ?
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my mom likes to talk bad about people behind their backs.
including me.