~Parents bad points~
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We all love our parents for brining us up..but at times we hate them...why?
because of their behaviour at times...
Care to tell us wat is it that you hate about your mum and dad?
I hate my mom at times..she is such a tidy freak...everyday mop the floor...and ask me if i got mop my room..if not i get nag by her...haizz
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everything is fine....
only 1 thing...
to take money from her.. is harder to climb the mount everest
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when you do something good , they will never praise.
when you do something bad , they can nag until donno when. -
hATE?? YOZZZ too strong a word....Originally posted by StarPuppy:We all love our parents for brining us up..but at times we hate them...why?
because of their behaviour at times...
Care to tell us wat is it that you hate about your mum and dad?
I hate my mom at times..she is such a tidy freak...everyday mop the floor...and ask me if i got mop my room..if not i get nag by her...haizz
i will say irritated??
my mum is worrying and a bit superstitious kind....she cares too much for us...sometimes a bit can't breathe..... till now she is.....
but when me and brothers understand its cos of her great love for us...we get over it easily....
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same case with miOriginally posted by a_splash:hATE?? YOZZZ too strong a word....
i will say irritated??
my mum is worrying and a bit superstitious kind....she cares too much for us...sometimes a bit can't breathe..... till now she is.....
but when me and brothers understand its cos of her great love for us...we get over it easily.... -
always complain my cleaning not up to standard
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always complaining my room is in a mess
but its my room wat...i happy can liao
and she love to nag -
my mom....she always work night shift whole year round exept CNY rest for a few days.
good or bad? bad thing is...see her always tired. good thing is...got her own income. -
Actually, your mum is trying to inculcate in you the good habits, although you won't appreciate it now.Originally posted by StarPuppy:We all love our parents for brining us up..but at times we hate them...why?
because of their behaviour at times...
Care to tell us wat is it that you hate about your mum and dad?
I hate my mom at times..she is such a tidy freak...everyday mop the floor...and ask me if i got mop my room..if not i get nag by her...haizz
As we grow older, things about mum that used to irritate us - we usually realised they're either for our own good (coz we were young and need guidance), or can be explained by some other reason. And yes, "hate" is too strong a word.
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x2Originally posted by InnoHippo:always complain my cleaning not up to standard -
u noe...Originally posted by Wanda:Actually, your mum is trying to inculcate in you the good habits, although you won't appreciate it now.
As we grow older, things about mum that used to irritate us - we usually realised they're either for our own good (coz we were young and need guidance), or can be explained by some other reason. And yes, "hate" is too strong a word.
my parents are tidy freaks when it comes to our room...
they're not that bothered with the mess in the livin room or anywhere else.. but the rooms that we slp in... tsk tsk tsk...
i always thought my room is very bad...
but nel's room's worse...
but hey! i contributed to half the mess there -
haizzz...everyone has a tough to digest family script....Originally posted by SGpork:everything is fine....
only 1 thing...
to take money from her.. is harder to climb the mount everest hope one day she can see that money is not everything??
qian si shen wai wu....don't let the money issue spoil your r/s bah...
see if you meanwhile borrow one?
take care.... -
natural human to take things for granted....if they have taken for granted, u can always reminds them to praise you for them....teach them to appreciate your good point...Originally posted by lalala1999:when you do something good , they will never praise.
when you do something bad , they can nag until donno when. -
ain't we luckyOriginally posted by poon cho tang:same case with mi
go on, hug her and say thank you....and tell her you have grown up liao
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Originally posted by InnoHippo:always complain my cleaning not up to standard when my mum first gotten me to sweep the floor, she really buay tahan...and commented ' you scare the floor will feel pain is it?'
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i tell my children...maybe if you like mess,....should try stay at the rubbish collection area...Originally posted by monkeybusiness:always complaining my room is in a mess
but its my room wat...i happy can liao
and she love to nag -
poor her....sayang her more.......maybe give a massage on the shoulder, i m sure she will feel great in the heart....Originally posted by Ah Cek:my mom....she always work night shift whole year round exept CNY rest for a few days.
good or bad? bad thing is...see her always tired. good thing is...got her own income. -
haro mama wanda.....Originally posted by Wanda:Actually, your mum is trying to inculcate in you the good habits, although you won't appreciate it now.
As we grow older, things about mum that used to irritate us - we usually realised they're either for our own good (coz we were young and need guidance), or can be explained by some other reason. And yes, "hate" is too strong a word.
well well....its only natural when being kids, not many things parents say or insist they do, are fully appreciated or able to apprehend...
parents always like to say its for your own good...but in the children's mind...there will be either a question 'what's so good' or they would be so numb and immune
and again...not all things mama say is right...(at least not all the time ) ..
communication between parents and children is not easy...cos we have come a long way and its not easy to bring ourselves back to their mentality and children can't reach our mentality too......
some ppl do it swiftly somehow....some with much hair pulled...
its good to hear what children have to say...and hopefully children can also try to hear their parents out.... -
aiyo yo....future mother in law won't like that very much, would she??Originally posted by shinta:u noe...
my parents are tidy freaks when it comes to our room...
they're not that bothered with the mess in the livin room or anywhere else.. but the rooms that we slp in... tsk tsk tsk...
i always thought my room is very bad...
but nel's room's worse...
but hey! i contributed to half the mess there
for me...i m too embarrassed to mess other ppl's place up...
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my mum's comment is "are u tickling the floor?" ......Originally posted by a_splash: when my mum first gotten me to sweep the floor, she really buay tahan...and commented ' you scare the floor will feel pain is it?' -
Originally posted by InnoHippo:my mum's comment is "are u tickling the floor?" ......
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how come most of your parents are concerned with cleanliness only? For me, its communication problem. She accepts that we have to stay out for cca and other activities but she doesn't understand that we have to do this and the most irritating is when she goes" I let you go to XXXX what else you want?' It obviously shows that she doesn't understand that we have to go... She allows that but grudgingly
and a whole load of complaints but shall keep it to myself -
Haro mama splashhhyy...Originally posted by a_splash:haro mama wanda.....
well well....its only natural when being kids, not many things parents say or insist they do, are fully appreciated or able to apprehend...
parents always like to say its for your own good...but in the children's mind...there will be either a question 'what's so good' or they would be so numb and immune
and again...not all things mama say is right...(at least not all the time ) ..
communication between parents and children is not easy...cos we have come a long way and its not easy to bring ourselves back to their mentality and children can't reach our mentality too......
some ppl do it swiftly somehow....some with much hair pulled...
its good to hear what children have to say...and hopefully children can also try to hear their parents out....
Hanor hanor. But why u call me mama har? I no have kids leh... so that they won't grow up writing in forum about my bad points.
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wakes me up at 8 each morning... wen play com too long will scold but different story for my sister... she wud even ask me to stop to let her play maple...
Shes biased...... biased at everything -
orr ok okOriginally posted by Wanda:Haro mama splashhhyy...
Hanor hanor. But why u call me mama har? I no have kids leh... so that they won't grow up writing in forum about my bad points. soli soli....
i will hv three writing about my bad points then....
guess the first on the list will be fierce mum.... told them i will be changing changing liao .....
ok lah....we all learnt from each other mah.....