11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
guy hangs up the phone.
5 min later, phone rings
awaken by the phone rings, guy: hello?
guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?
guy (confused): huh? what?
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? why you said this??
guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...
guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...
gal: you already said want to sleep already, what else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go
sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that
gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not
because afraid that i will be unhappy...
in the end, guy spend another ?comforting gal, actual sleep time is
11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep. what
worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you
have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then
(still sounding out)
never fall into the trap and hang up the phone
guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i
give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the
reason, and offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this
guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember
to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
gal hang up the phone
in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call
from gal the next day...
female wants feeling and care. most of the time, female's logic cannot
be figure out with a reasoning mind.
say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than
Â½hr of precious time
when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the
phone first. else it will be disastrous...
if your gf isn't like the one in the example, then congrats to u!
but if otherwise, dun accuse her of being unreasonable. what she wants
is very simple.