11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably
yawns
bad example
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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
guy hangs up the phone.
5 min later, phone rings
awaken by the phone rings, guy: hello?
gal: .............
guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?
guy (confused): huh? what?
gal: .............
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? why you said this??
gal: ..............
guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...
guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...
gal: you already said want to sleep already, what else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go
sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that
do?
gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not
because afraid that i will be unhappy...
in the end, guy spend another ?comforting gal, actual sleep time is
11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep. what
worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.
good example
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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you
have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then
(still sounding out)
never fall into the trap and hang up the phone
guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i
give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the
reason, and offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this
guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one
hor...
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember
to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
guy: ehmm...
gal hang up the phone
in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call
from gal the next day...
conclusion 1:
female wants feeling and care. most of the time, female's logic cannot
be figure out with a reasoning mind.
conclusion 2:
say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than
½hr of precious time
conclusion 3:
when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the
phone first. else it will be disastrous...
conclusion 4:
if your gf isn't like the one in the example, then congrats to u!
treasure her!
but if otherwise, dun accuse her of being unreasonable. what she wants
is very simple.
