the one you are with

• dcx

  24 Apr 05, 14:49

  For a moment, i saw "Twenty" as "Tweety"...
• deathscythe99

  24 Apr 05, 15:23

  Originally posted by progene:

  

  *pokes*
• bratpig

  24 Apr 05, 15:26

  Originally posted by dcx:

  For a moment, i saw "Twenty" as "Tweety"...

  tweety should go with
• progene

  25 Apr 05, 02:17

  I thought I saw a tweety bird....
  
  I did!! I did!!
  
  I did saw a tweety bird!!!
  
  
• cindtan29

  25 Apr 05, 09:55

  Originally posted by bratpig:

  tweety should go with

  hee.....i like this!!!! YEAH!
• bratpig

  25 Apr 05, 12:47

  Originally posted by progene:

  I thought I saw a tweety bird....
  
  I did!! I did!!
  
  I did saw a tweety bird!!!
  
  

  should be p u s s y cat la
  
  stupid...cannot spell p u s s y
• varatare

  25 Apr 05, 13:32

  Hi Twenty47
  
  I have something which I want you to consider very carefully. I fully agree that you shallnt come in between and break up a relationship. Which of course mean you have to suffer.
  
  But, PLEASE READ THIS VREY CAREFULLY, you have the potential to make four people suffer instead of one. You, your going to be gf, your 1st gf and her bf.
  
  So before you going to accept anyone's love, I hope you can at least pour away some of your old love and make some room for your new love.
  
  Although it is common to say that it is happiness to be loved then love. But dont just let the other party to bring happiness to you, give her some too.
  
  Regards
  
  

  Originally posted by twenty47:

  is he or she the one who u really love in the 1st place? As in is there someone else whom you would really want to be with but due to the irony of life, you are now with someone whom AT FIRST is not the top on your list?
  
  I am facing this kind of irony now. The girl whom I have feelings towards has a boyfriend and of course I would never think of snatching her over but now all of a sudden, another girl came into my life and she, I can tell is interested in me. Now, i am in a dilemma as to whether to go ahead to accept the 2nd girl or not. I am afraid that I would be unfair to her.
  
  Listening to "wo ai de ren" by chen xiao chun right now....
  

• cindtan29

  25 Apr 05, 13:40

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Hi Twenty47
  
  I have something which I want you to consider very carefully. I fully agree that you shallnt come in between and break up a relationship. Which of course mean you have to suffer.
  
  But, PLEASE READ THIS VREY CAREFULLY, you have the potential to make four people suffer instead of one. You, your going to be gf, your 1st gf and her bf.
  
  So before you going to accept anyone's love, I hope you can at least pour away some of your old love and make some room for your new love.
  
  Although it is common to say that it is happiness to be loved then love. But dont just let the other party to bring happiness to you, give her some too.
  Regards
  
  

  hmmm.....very cheem leh....but certainly worth to consider ...........thanks
• varatare

  25 Apr 05, 13:58

  Yuo are most welcome.
  
  

  Originally posted by cindtan29:

  hmmm.....very cheem leh....but certainly worth to consider ...........thanks

• bratpig

  25 Apr 05, 14:01

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Yuo are most welcome.
  
  

  but hor...the story is like that leh:
  
  Ah twenty likes gal A, who already has a bf, B. then along came C, who shows interest in Ah twenty.
  
  So hor, none of them are his gf yet.
• varatare

  25 Apr 05, 15:02

  Hi bratpig
  
  I understand and know the story. Now maybe let me show you how it is possible to have 4 people suffering.
  
  Ah twenty get C to be his gf but still like A. He stay in touch with A and B dont like and could possible misundertsand A and Ah Twenty relationship. A not happy as B dont trust her. Ah Twenty will not happy because he though he is the main reason for their misunderstanding. C will also sad if she find out she is just use to replace A.
  
  I know this sound complex and maybe not possible. But you do understand that when relationship is involved, it is always complex (could be even more complex then what I just stated) and anything is possible.
  
  A and B are already together and I am not really worry for them, I more for worry for C. If Ah twenty is to accept her, I hope he do it because he do love her, not because he want to use C as a replacement for A. Which I can say no gal will like that.
  
  Regards
  
  

  Originally posted by bratpig:

  but hor...the story is like that leh:
  
  Ah twenty likes gal A, who already has a bf, B. then along came C, who shows interest in Ah twenty.
  
  So hor, none of them are his gf yet.

• bratpig

  25 Apr 05, 15:06

  oic...sorry....i was confused why you assumed that twenty has got gf just now
  
  

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Hi bratpig
  
  I understand and know the story. Now maybe let me show you how it is possible to have 4 people suffering.
  
  Ah twenty get C to be his gf but still like A. He stay in touch with A and B dont like and could possible misundertsand A and Ah Twenty relationship. A not happy as B dont trust her. Ah Twenty will not happy because he though he is the main reason for their misunderstanding. C will also sad if she find out she is just use to replace A.
  
  I know this sound complex and maybe not possible. But you do understand that when relationship is involved, it is always complex (could be even more complex then what I just stated) and anything is possible.
  
  A and B are already together and I am not really worry for them, I more for worry for C. If Ah twenty is to accept her, I hope he do it because he do love her, not because he want to use C as a replacement for A. Which I can say no gal will like that.
  
  Regards
  
  

• progene

  25 Apr 05, 22:05

  *Yawn*
  
  So long....lazy to read..can any1 summarise anot?
• dcx

  25 Apr 05, 22:48

  Originally posted by progene:

  *Yawn*
  
  So long....lazy to read..can any1 summarise anot?

  me summarize...let's see...who wanna be the male lead, female??
  
  
• dcx

  25 Apr 05, 22:59

  Originally posted by twenty47:

  is he or she the one who u really love in the 1st place? As in is there someone else whom you would really want to be with but due to the irony of life, you are now with someone whom AT FIRST is not the top on your list?
  
  I am facing this kind of irony now. The girl whom I have feelings towards has a boyfriend and of course I would never think of snatching her over but now all of a sudden, another girl came into my life and she, I can tell is interested in me. Now, i am in a dilemma as to whether to go ahead to accept the 2nd girl or not. I am afraid that I would be unfair to her.
  
  Listening to "wo ai de ren" by chen xiao chun right now....
  

  hMz...i think i understand liaoz....
  
  1) The girl you've feelings for has a bf now, however, may i ask you that is she the 1st girl you had feeling for before?
  
  2) The girl you had feelings for --- Does she has feelings for you? If yes, ask urself, y she ended with her current bf? That's to say, so what if you had feelings for her...is the relationship between n her going to work out?
  
  3) The "xtra" girl that appeared out which you assumed she likes you--- ok~ Fine...let's assume taht she likes you...your main problem now is whether you shld accept her as you're afraid that it might be unfair to her....
  >> a) Since yuo know that you still can't forget abt the 1st girl you had feelings for, then juz be friends with the "xtra" girl, be friends onli...go out makan, see movies, walk walk..lim kopi..wateva...by then you shld know whether if she's really what you wan or not...