the one you are with
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is he or she the one who u really love in the 1st place? As in is there someone else whom you would really want to be with but due to the irony of life, you are now with someone whom AT FIRST is not the top on your list?
I am facing this kind of irony now. The girl whom I have feelings towards has a boyfriend and of course I would never think of snatching her over but now all of a sudden, another girl came into my life and she, I can tell is interested in me. Now, i am in a dilemma as to whether to go ahead to accept the 2nd girl or not. I am afraid that I would be unfair to her.
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you are double posting!!!Originally posted by twenty47:is he or she the one who u really love in the 1st place? As in is there someone else whom you would really want to be with but due to the irony of life, you are now with someone whom AT FIRST is not the top on your list?
I am facing this kind of irony now. The girl whom I have feelings towards has a boyfriend and of course I would never think of snatching her over but now all of a sudden, another girl came into my life and she, I can tell is interested in me. Now, i am in a dilemma as to whether to go ahead to accept the 2nd girl or not. I am afraid that I would be unfair to her.
Listening to "wo ai de ren" by chen xiao chun right now....
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No...this is called referencing from different sourcesOriginally posted by dragg:you are double posting!!! 
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no he/she is double-threadingOriginally posted by dragg:you are double posting!!! -
Someone 'bribed' this person to post here right?
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Dear twenty47,
I understand the situation that you are facing now. We can only advise you not to accept another girl just because you are feeling lonely, or you can't get the girl on the top of your list.
It is not only unfair to the girl, but to you as well. You will never love the girl wholeheartedly, should you enter into such relationship with this mentality.
Trust me, the relationship wont last.
However, you may wish to get to know the second girl better. Who knows, you may even grow to love her in the long-run.
Good lUck -
He is just seeking alternative views
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I was asked to post here leh.Originally posted by dragg:you are double posting!!! -
is not.....this is by request....Originally posted by dragg:you are double posting!!! 
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it's ok...no need to care themOriginally posted by twenty47:I was asked to post here leh. -
YES ....u are being asked....so dun bother wif others......Originally posted by twenty47:I was asked to post here leh.
FOLLOW & LISTEN TO THE MODERATORS here.............. -
Dear twenty47,
JUst read in the other agony forum that you think it is a waste of time waiting for the girl with a bf.
Just curious har, if u think it is a waste of time waiting for someone u claimed to love so much, then just how much do you really love her? -
but ah twenty har....now then i realised u use the same topic title leh....shld change a bit mah....u really want Uncle and Aunt Agony to fight si bo....Originally posted by twenty47:I am facing this kind of irony now. The girl whom I have feelings towards has a boyfriend and of course I would never think of snatching her over but now all of a sudden, another girl came into my life and she, I can tell is interested in me. Now, i am in a dilemma as to whether to go ahead to accept the 2nd girl or not. I am afraid that I would be unfair to her.
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It's not really a waste of time. As I've said previously, its a feeling of liking but too bad she is attached and I do not wish to get between them. For this I've been suffering in agony for months... Sometimes I really think that I am silly to hope for something that is very unlikely to happen.
Haiz.. zao wu nong ren ah -
Haiz....dont sad la....xiang feng hen wanOriginally posted by twenty47:It's not really a waste of time. As I've said previously, its a feeling of liking but too bad she is attached and I do not wish to get between them. For this I've been suffering in agony for months... Sometimes I really think that I am silly to hope for something that is very unlikely to happen.
Haiz.. zao wu nong ren ah
actually, just guessing la...feeling of like and feeling of love is diff....i feel that you only like the girl w/bf....u do not love her....so...do not break them up...n you shld pick urself up also
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Dear twenty,
have u tot of expressing ur love to her since u claimed u really love her? Is beside the point whether she is attached or not.....just make known to her that u like her can? u oni live once rite?
or do u think she carries any liking to you or not? any feelings or hinting from her?
Regards,
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i think you should give other girls a chance. you'll nv know... maybe after knowing the second one better, you may realise that the second is not bad either. being loved is definitely better then to love. of coz it may sound selfish but it is very seldom that you'll meet someone whom you love and loves you as much as you love them.Originally posted by twenty47:It's not really a waste of time. As I've said previously, its a feeling of liking but too bad she is attached and I do not wish to get between them. For this I've been suffering in agony for months... Sometimes I really think that I am silly to hope for something that is very unlikely to happen.
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ah twenty,
keep on looking if you have yet to find the right one....however, cherish her once you have found it -
I wish I am those kind of jerk.. but I am not.. just can't bring myself to tear up another person's r/s for my own sake....Originally posted by cindtan29:Dear twenty,
have u tot of expressing ur love to her since u claimed u really love her? Is beside the point whether she is attached or not.....just make known to her that u like her can? u oni live once rite?
or do u think she carries any liking to you or not? any feelings or hinting from her?
Regards,
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whoa...you are a good man leh....Originally posted by twenty47:I wish I am those kind of jerk.. but I am not.. just can't bring myself to tear up another person's r/s for my own sake....
cheer up la...we believe that you will find the one eventually, given your kind nature -
Ah twenty,
shld u really dun wan or feel that u dun want to break others than....y not....try to fall in love with someone before rushing for a relationship rite....who knows the rite one is not far away or just across the road and Not those that r around u leh .......
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yes...love someone before you enter into any relationship...Originally posted by cindtan29:Ah twenty,
shld u really dun wan or feel that u dun want to break others than....y not....try to fall in love with someone before rushing for a relationship rite....who knows the rite one is not far away or just across the road and Not those that r around u leh .......
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Thanks for all the advice. You guys definitely helped me think clearer. My heartfelt gratitude.
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simi?Originally posted by progene: