aiya... u also think is funny... shit sia.. ehh, am i really so unreasonable to ask for a bit of manners from people to mi??Originally posted by dragg:is your surname chee?
hmmmm... cool down girl.. remember wat i say about the argument part? the more u argue, the more he retaliate.. just let things lie bah..Originally posted by carpe diem jur:aiya... u also think is funny... shit sia.. ehh, am i really so unreasonable to ask for a bit of manners from people to mi??
Most pple will take goodbye for granted la... you say goodbye liao, some pple will take that as a cue to hang up lor... then when u call back to ask pple why they never say goodbye pple will definitely think u are joking.. or nothing to say find thing to say...Originally posted by carpe diem jur:I just hate people not saying bye-bye before they hang up phone or knowing very well i'm going off le... wah piangz... it is manners loh !! how DIFFICULT isit to say bye bye ??!!
i'm not being unreasonable by expecting people to know i dun like it, i have told this particular person NUMEROUS TIMES le !!! those who dunno, mi really dun mind lah... i only called them back to tel them about this... but I told this person so many farking tyms and this person still think i'm joking !!! VERY FUNNY TO DISPLAY A LITTLE OF MANNERS MEH ??!! OR IS IT FUNNY THAT I REMINDED AND I TAKE THIS VERY SERIOUSLY ??!
DAMN IT !! KNN lah !! and never APOLOGIZE LEH !!!! I already give chance and said i'm angry abt this, and this person think i'm joking !!!!! Wah piangz eh !!
I've never tolerate with friends who knows i need this little respect from them... and why all people can make effort to say bye-bye and this person dont ???!! Not gotta talk to this person anymore until apologise....
ehh pals, tel mi honestly, AM I ASKING FOR TOO MUCH FOR FRIENDS TO AT LEAST SAY BYE BYE WHEN I SAID BYE FIRST ?? pls tel mi......
yeah.... so disappointed...Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:Unfortunately courtesy is very much lacking in our society.
Forgot to add.....Good bye
ehh, i know... but binz, i juz cant tek it lying down loh... anything but not for this... and till now, this person didnt even wanna apologize, no intentions.... utterly disappointed.... sianz... i didnt wanna argue la... juz dun wanna talk to this person...Originally posted by binZ:hmmmm... cool down girl.. remember wat i say about the argument part? the more u argue, the more he retaliate.. just let things lie bah..
c ya!!
no lah... i dun like flamming... i'm ok with all sorts of honestly from people... thats the purpose of starting this thread... juz be straight forward to mi... i juz wan hear the truth whether am i asking for too much anot... or am i too harsh to improvise this "rule" to my close friends...Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Most pple will take goodbye for granted la... you say goodbye liao, some pple will take that as a cue to hang up lor... then when u call back to ask pple why they never say goodbye pple will definitely think u are joking.. or nothing to say find thing to say...
No flamm pls
the most angry part of the conversation is, we are about to end the conversation, dan i said ok, bye-bye... this person kept quiet... and i asked nicely "can u say bye-bye to mi pls", dan quiet again....Originally posted by TehJarVu:no say bye bye wonder how did the conversation end?
don't treat it as manners also can treat it as a conversation-ending mechanism mah.
so strange, no bye bye then how to end the conversation?
dearie !!! so relief u came and console mi... so sweet of u... sobb... so touched...Originally posted by HENG@:dearie... dun angry ok? relac relac
*hugz*
is this the first time you spoke with him on the phone?Originally posted by carpe diem jur:the most angry part of the conversation is, we are about to end the conversation, dan i said ok, bye-bye... this person kept quiet... and i asked nicely "can u say bye-bye to mi pls", dan quiet again....
i asked again "u got anything to tel mi?" that person said "no".
then i said "ok, bye-bye".... quiet....
i said AGAIN, in a angry tone already "DAN CAN U PLS SAY BYE BYE??"..... that person replied "hmm"
i got so damn angry and said "BYE-BYE !!! AND CAN U PLS SAID BYE BYE??"... and finally that person said "orh, bye bye".
U TEL MI LAH !!! GOT THIS KINDA PEOPLE ANOT??? PISS RIGHT???!
no lah... not first tym... always explained said "forget to say bye-bye"... or say "i usually dun say bye bye, so i not used to saying it".... is this person telling mi he dunno wat is courtesy ??! wah lau... til now i cannot release my anger loh... how ah??? tel mi leh....Originally posted by dragg:is this the first time you spoke with him on the phone?
he is certainly weird.
if this is not the first time i presume he is someone you know.Originally posted by carpe diem jur:no lah... not first tym... always explained said "forget to say bye-bye"... or say "i usually dun say bye bye, so i not used to saying it".... is this person telling mi he dunno wat is courtesy ??! wah lau... til now i cannot release my anger loh... how ah??? tel mi leh....
yeah lah... is like someone hang up on u lidat... infact, meeting in person is different... we can see by gestures for the bye-bye part but i wil stil say bye bye lah... but phone leh... i cannot see expression or gestures loh...Originally posted by ChingAlvin:it feels weird when some 1 doesnt say good bye on the phone when we are hanging up too. but i dont say good bye in person i am used to putting my hands up and smile.
Originally posted by carpe diem jur:dearie !!! so relief u came and console mi... so sweet of u... sobb... so touched...
*hugx*
told that person numerous tyms already... i'm not trying to change a person or whatsoever... i dont believe in changing a person, juz expecting a little courtesy... or probably i've never met this kinda strange people before, to the extend that i would get so worked up over such a little thing... anyway, saying bye-bye really means alot to mi, thats why i made the effort to tel the close ones who calls mi often...Originally posted by dragg:if this is not the first time i presume he is someone you know.
then you should be able to tell if he is someone rude or just plain eccentric.
why get angry over something you cant change unless you want to stop the relationship.
no worries, ur dearie dun cry one... juz feeling angry... and i gotta cool down until the day this person apologizes... thankx dearie !!!Originally posted by HENG@:
dun cry okies? hugz hugz
frankly, this is the first time i heard of someone not saying goodbye after a call. i am sure he has to practice it at work. he cant possible hang off right after a conversation.Originally posted by carpe diem jur:told that person numerous tyms already... i'm not trying to change a person or whatsoever... i dont believe in changing a person, juz expecting a little courtesy... or probably i've never met this kinda strange people before, to the extend that i would get so worked up over such a little thing... anyway, saying bye-bye really means alot to mi, thats why i made the effort to tel the close ones who calls mi often...
actually my intention not to stop the friendship... i juz need an apology... i might cool it down... and this person knew i'm angry at this matter... so, anyway, i'm not gotta talk to this person liao la... no point i made an effort to remind him, and this person dun even wanna bother... is like one-sided friendship....
okies. punch the person who dun say bye instead. its more fun.Originally posted by carpe diem jur:no worries, ur dearie dun cry one... juz feeling angry... and i gotta cool down until the day this person apologizes... thankx dearie !!!