Is luv relationships a 'Want' or a 'Need'??

• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 15:44

  pals, is being a relationship a 'want' or a 'need'?? why?
• stellazio

  14 Jul 05, 15:47

  probaly a want to some people and a need to others?cause there are lonely people who wants a companion but will be able to live on without one whereas some feels that they can't live without a companion.i'm just talking crap..exams stress..
• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 15:50

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  probaly a want to some people and a need to others?cause there are lonely people who wants a companion but will be able to live on without one whereas some feels that they can't live without a companion.i'm just talking crap..exams stress..

  hahar !! mi also project stress... dats why posted some strange questions... i'm wondering, how can a relationship become a 'need'??
• dibilo

  14 Jul 05, 15:50

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  pals, is being a relationship a 'want' or a 'need'?? why?

  probably a 'Love'?
• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 15:56

  Originally posted by dibilo:

  probably a 'Love'?

  yesh dats why i'm asking... is love a want or a need??
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  14 Jul 05, 15:59

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  pals, is being a relationship a 'want' or a 'need'?? why?

  It starts as a 'need'. We are all humans and it is part of our needs. Then we make a conscoius choice of whether we 'want' to go into a relationship. Just my personal take on the matter.
  
  I need, do you want
• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 16:03

  Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:

  It starts as a 'need'. We are all humans and it is part of our needs. Then we make a conscoius choice of whether we 'want' to go into a relationship. Just my personal take on the matter.
  
  I need, do you want

  why is it a need in the beginning??
• dibilo

  14 Jul 05, 16:06

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  yesh dats why i'm asking... is love a want or a need??

  lol... hmmm depends... love is when u 'want' to be with someone and 'want' to share the good/bad things in life with.
  
  love can also be a need when u love someone so much that you can't live w/o him/her... now it becomes a need.
  
  too many variables and there is no answer for this. most likely a mixture of both.
• leddy

  14 Jul 05, 16:06

  i want to f*ck I need to f*ck, what is the difference?
• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 16:14

  Originally posted by leddy:

  i want to f*ck I need to f*ck, what is the difference?

  for example, i want to eat, i need to eat... the diff is, u need to eat to survive.... but u want to eat not becoz u are hungry or dying of hunger...
  
  the fact is, we dun need f*ck to survive... neither do we need love to survive... how can it become a NEED ??? tel mi, people !!!
• pinkygal76

  14 Jul 05, 16:19

  For some they just Need to f*ck and f*ck and f*ck........ sigh..... pyschologically need ... ..
  but man no need to luv to f*ck rite?
• alexkusu

  14 Jul 05, 16:19

  hmm...trick question issit? well, sumtime the relationship can be "I need sex" or "I want sex" kinda thing.
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  14 Jul 05, 16:21

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  why is it a need in the beginning??

  Biological I suppose. The bees do it, the birds do it, we all do it...
• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 16:27

  Originally posted by pinkygal76:

  For some they just Need to f*ck and f*ck and f*ck........ sigh..... pyschologically need ... ..
  but man no need to luv to f*ck rite?

  hmm... makes sense... is either u love to f*ck or u dun.. how can NEED TO LOVE TO F*CK...?? hahar !!
• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 16:31

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  hmm...trick question issit? well, sumtime the relationship can be "I need sex" or "I want sex" kinda thing.

  so now sex bacame an issue with love relationship already !!
  
  ok, so, wat if, u enjoyed sex with a woman very much, like the best sex partner u ever had, will u love her becoz u oni love having sex with her??
• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 16:34

  Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:

  Biological I suppose. The bees do it, the birds do it, we all do it...

  dan, if u have a love realtionship now (since i dunno u haf anot, so i put it as "if"), does it help u in achieving ur goals in life?? or does it improve ur life?? in other words, benefit u anot??
• alexkusu

  14 Jul 05, 16:37

  Personally....no. I prefer for her to have something on the inside. No point having a person who can give good sex but is dumb, etc etc. Later my sex drive is gone..then what happen? She also useless rite?
• pinkygal76

  14 Jul 05, 16:39

  love can be veri motivational one ......
  
  LOVE can work WONDERS my frenz!!!
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  14 Jul 05, 16:43

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  so now sex bacame an issue with love relationship already !!
  
  ok, so, wat if, u enjoyed sex with a woman very much, like the best sex partner u ever had, will u love her becoz u oni love having sex with her??

  ...the very reason I said biological and refrained from using that three letter wordÂ…
  
  It is a chemical process that goes on in our body that makes us attract one another. U love her and that why u want to have sex with her. U don't love her because u love having sex with her. Do you see a difference?
  
• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 16:45

  Originally posted by pinkygal76:

  love can be veri motivational one ......
  
  LOVE can work WONDERS my frenz!!!

  i feel so numb that i cant feel anything anymore... so i start to question myself, do i need love anot?? if is juz a want, dan i dun haf to get involve anymore... another ques is, is it wasting tym anot...?? u understand wat i'm trying to say?
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  14 Jul 05, 16:51

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  dan, if u have a love realtionship now (since i dunno u haf anot, so i put it as "if"), does it help u in achieving ur goals in life?? or does it improve ur life?? in other words, benefit u anot??

  Yes, it will benefit me if my ultimate intention is to find a wife. I am not sure whether that is what you mean.
  
• carpe diem jur

  14 Jul 05, 16:55

  Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:

  Yes, it will benefit me if my ultimate intention is to find a wife. I am not sure whether that is what you mean.
  

  so settling down is one of ur goal in life right??
• pinkygal76

  14 Jul 05, 16:59

  oh my dear.....are you going thru a bad patch in your relationship??? .....
  but we do have a choice to be in love or out of love.... choose to be in love....
  you will be a happier person....
  
  Love can come in many forms....from frenz, parents or your better half/ gf....
  I do ask myself this question sometimes...... *sigh* i guess its always good to believe
  in the notion of love..... love can be a motivational force.... human beings are social animals
  rite??? Or else may as well live as hermits!!!
  
  LOVE yourself and you will be loved!!!
  
  *Hugz* POWER OF LOVE!....
  
  
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  14 Jul 05, 17:00

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  i feel so numb that i cant feel anything anymore... so i start to question myself, do i need love anot?? if is juz a want, dan i dun haf to get involve anymore... another ques is, is it wasting tym anot...?? u understand wat i'm trying to say?

  there is an interesting thread at AA by Yunhaier...
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=141446
  Have you seen it? It would be very interesting to see your choice
• Devil1976

  14 Jul 05, 17:02

  A 'want'..? I only have 'needs' for SEX...?? <>
  
  Oh yeah... And 'need' for companionship at times maybe...?