do u like spending time with children??
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no offence to anyone... but i find them too troublesome and irritating to haf... i'll b reluctant to haf kids in future if i ever gets married... piangz... cannot tahan sia...
so guys, do u like spending tym andplaying wid kids?? i guess gers do but i dunno bout u guys......??!!
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Most definitely yes. However, there are people like yourself who may not enjoy interacting with kids. Nothing wrong with that.
What is really the problem are fathers wanting children but do not invest their time and energy on these kids and hope that these kids will turn out well. Nothing ventured nothing gain. Parenting is a full time job and anyone not willing to make some sacrifices should not go into it. -
As long as the kids are not spoil brats... Anyway cant imagine changing their soiled diapers and wake up to their crying at 4 am.. pure torture
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Of course. i enjoy playing with them altot i agree they r irratating sometimes.
If i can't have a child of my own in the future, i will choose to adopt one.
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children are blessings
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i used to work as a teacher in child care centre
any kind oso see b4 liao..... -
ehh... i wanted to adopt one too... i'm afraid of giving birth sia... wouldlove to be a single mother of a daughter... but i wanna adopt my own daughter...Originally posted by SpeedStar:Of course. i enjoy playing with them altot i agree they r irratating sometimes.
If i can't have a child of my own in the future, i will choose to adopt one. -
x2Originally posted by DriftingGuy:As long as the kids are not spoil brats... Anyway cant imagine changing their soiled diapers and wake up to their crying at 4 am.. pure torture 
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i love children.....especially those small small cute cute in uniform.. and watch them run around.. so cute.. so funny..
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u work as child care teacher before???!! lucky now no more, or else jiat lat liao..... *tsk tsk tsk*Originally posted by FireIce:i used to work as a teacher in child care centre
any kind oso see b4 liao.....
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but they can be devils when they are damn naughty....and cute little angels too....Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):i love children.....especially those small small cute cute in uniform.. and watch them run around.. so cute.. so funny.. -
still cute lah..Originally posted by carpe diem jur:try tekin care of them and see wat happens... dan come tel mi how u feel, ok?? -
few days ago, got two kids come to the shop i'm working and start to touch touch here, touch touch there... touch touch is ok, but they try to climb on top of the pianos to reach for the violins hanging on above the pianos...
wah lau !! i freaked out when i turn ard and saw them almost pullin those violins down... i try to explain to them nicely say "cannot climb ok?? wait fall down pain pain"... then their mum arrive, i was thinkin "phew, safe liao"... but u know wat the mum said??? "climb slowly har..."
wah liew... the mother cannot even help mi control her kids... in the first place, her kids should be climbing ON TOP OF THE PIANO !! will spoilt one loh... and theviolins is not a toy man !! dunno how to handle sia... thats why i always stare at kids when they come in to the shop....
see, tel mi, how to stop these irritating kids ???!! -
Some of the kids, are like that. I have two cousins and they come to my house sometimes. Both of them are very 'touchy'. Most of the things that is fragile or very important, we usually kept them out of their sight. They is one time when my mother forget to keep the keys for the cupboard, which is still intact on the door. My llttle cousin locked the cupboard and hide the keys. We only found out the key is missing when dad want to get some clothes from the cupboard at nite. We search for nearly one hour just to find the keys, not to mention ativiate my auntie to ask my cousin for the key's location...Originally posted by carpe diem jur:few days ago, got two kids come to the shop i'm working and start to touch touch here, touch touch there... touch touch is ok, but they try to climb on top of the pianos to reach for the violins hanging on above the pianos...
wah lau !! i freaked out when i turn ard and saw them almost pullin those violins down... i try to explain to them nicely say "cannot climb ok?? wait fall down pain pain"... then their mum arrive, i was thinkin "phew, safe liao"... but u know wat the mum said??? "climb slowly har..."
wah liew... the mother cannot even help mi control her kids... in the first place, her kids should be climbing ON TOP OF THE PIANO !! will spoilt one loh... and theviolins is not a toy man !! dunno how to handle sia... thats why i always stare at kids when they come in to the shop....
see, tel mi, how to stop these irritating kids ???!!
But although they are naughty, but I still find them very cute...My litter cousin will put his both hands together and pray beside me when I am offering incense to the god. Oh my he is only 1 years old only....the face and his action so kawaii leh...
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For those nottie 1s, being soft & sweet wun work. Normally, if the soft way falls on deaf ears, I wun act angel with them also. I'll stare hard @ them (muz not let the parents seeOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:few days ago, got two kids come to the shop i'm working and start to touch touch here, touch touch there... touch touch is ok, but they try to climb on top of the pianos to reach for the violins hanging on above the pianos...
wah lau !! i freaked out when i turn ard and saw them almost pullin those violins down... i try to explain to them nicely say "cannot climb ok?? wait fall down pain pain"... then their mum arrive, i was thinkin "phew, safe liao"... but u know wat the mum said??? "climb slowly har..."
wah liew... the mother cannot even help mi control her kids... in the first place, her kids should be climbing ON TOP OF THE PIANO !! will spoilt one loh... and theviolins is not a toy man !! dunno how to handle sia... thats why i always stare at kids when they come in to the shop....
see, tel mi, how to stop these irritating kids ???!!
), go near them & try to intimidate them, hang ard keep on following them & dun stop staring.
The key point is to irritate them back.. sure to make them go running back to their mommy! -
hanor hanor !!!! abit mean of mi to do dat but i really buay tahan loh.... usually worse part is the mommy will stare back at us as if we are the one in the wrong... piangz...Originally posted by Camellias4me:For those nottie 1s, being soft & sweet wun work. Normally, if the soft way falls on deaf ears, I wun act angel with them also. I'll stare hard @ them (muz not let the parents see ), go near them & try to intimidate them, hang ard keep on following them & dun stop staring.
The key point is to irritate them back.. sure to make them go running back to their mommy! -
Gawd, I love kids.. Especially those below 5 years old, they have the funniest things to say..
Remember this incident my friend related to me a few years back:
On the MRT, there was this kid with his mother, sitting across from my friend.
5 minutes into the journey, the kid tells his mother: Mummy, I want to pee pee..
His mother told him to wait till they reach their station then take him to the toilet.
Kid: I don't care I don't care, I want to pee pee now..
His mother of course tries to shut him up..
Suddenly the kid says something which made everyone on the train look up.
"Mummy open your mouth, I pee pee inside"
His mother told him sternly to shut up and not talk nonsence, visibly angry with what he just said.
Then the kid said: WHY DADDY CAN DO THAT I CANNOT?!
Everyone around them were trying to stifle their giggles and the mother rushed out of the train at the next stop, red faced. -
erm......Originally posted by auringedotcom:Gawd, I love kids.. Especially those below 5 years old, they have the funniest things to say..
Remember this incident my friend related to me a few years back:
On the MRT, there was this kid with his mother, sitting across from my friend.
5 minutes into the journey, the kid tells his mother: Mummy, I want to pee pee..
His mother told him to wait till they reach their station then take him to the toilet.
Kid: I don't care I don't care, I want to pee pee now..
His mother of course tries to shut him up..
Suddenly the kid says something which made everyone on the train look up.
"Mummy open your mouth, I pee pee inside"
His mother told him sternly to shut up and not talk nonsence, visibly angry with what he just said.
Then the kid said: WHY DADDY CAN DO THAT I CANNOT?!
Everyone around them were trying to stifle their giggles and the mother rushed out of the train at the next stop, red faced. 
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I read this somewhere sometime ago ...
"We were very happy and lovingly tat we never felt the need for children til my husband was diagnosed cancer. I was lost and fearful. If he leaves me, I'll be alone. I wish we had children but all is too late now." -
Authentic experience? unlikelyOriginally posted by auringedotcom:Gawd, I love kids.. Especially those below 5 years old, they have the funniest things to say..
Remember this incident my friend related to me a few years back:
On the MRT, there was this kid with his mother, sitting across from my friend.
5 minutes into the journey, the kid tells his mother: Mummy, I want to pee pee..
His mother told him to wait till they reach their station then take him to the toilet.
Kid: I don't care I don't care, I want to pee pee now..
His mother of course tries to shut him up..
Suddenly the kid says something which made everyone on the train look up.
"Mummy open your mouth, I pee pee inside"
His mother told him sternly to shut up and not talk nonsence, visibly angry with what he just said.
Then the kid said: WHY DADDY CAN DO THAT I CANNOT?!
Everyone around them were trying to stifle their giggles and the mother rushed out of the train at the next stop, red faced. -
i like kids! nice to bully! heh~Originally posted by carpe diem jur:no offence to anyone... but i find them too troublesome and irritating to haf... i'll b reluctant to haf kids in future if i ever gets married... piangz... cannot tahan sia...
so guys, do u like spending tym andplaying wid kids?? i guess gers do but i dunno bout u guys......??!! -
u no need kids... u already behave like one...Originally posted by binZ:i like kids! nice to bully! heh~ -
I related the story in my own words for dramatic effect, but the gist of the story is true to my best knowledge, I don't think my friend, who happens to be a rather decent girl will cock this story out..Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Authentic experience? unlikely -
I will have kids.
But I will be very strict with them.
They dun have to be outstanding ppl or role models.
Most important they must NEVER be trouble makers. -
x2Originally posted by Troy437:I will have kids.
But I will be very strict with them.
They dun have to be outstanding ppl or role models.
Most important they must NEVER be trouble makers.
all parents should think like u... and be more strict... if kids turned out to be trouble-maker, u cant help much as a parent... it all depends on the character of ur kid.... at most u can is punish loh... right??