Receiving end of love declaration
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How would u feel n react to it? I juz got one ytd from a fren of mine.
Feel free to air ur views n experiences.
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nobody does that to lav yet, so no experience to share
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To receive is flattering.
But hard to tell someone you're not interested. -
Agree..Originally posted by Nelstar:To receive is flattering.
But hard to tell someone you're not interested.
Flattering, yes. Ego-boosting, i must concur.
N it's difficult to reject sb coz u might lose a fren. Furthermore, i do know the bitter feeling of rejection i dun wish to inflict the same pain on others.
I juz try to avoid her question when she wanted to know whether i liked her. -
usually it is girls tell the guys lor, guys have to be strongOriginally posted by Nelstar:To receive is flattering.
But hard to tell someone you're not interested. -
Since when was tt the case. Guys do reject girls de wor.Originally posted by Lavendin:usually it is girls tell the guys lor, guys have to be strong -
ok change to only handsome guys or pretty gals get to do the rejectingOriginally posted by Gackt247:Since when was tt the case. Guys do reject girls de wor.
dont tell me wrong again, ok i gave up -
Not necessary have to be good-looking mah. There are rare cases where love is indeed blind.Originally posted by Lavendin:ok change to only handsome guys or pretty gals get to do the rejecting
dont tell me wrong again, ok i gave up -
then it shd be real true love, so envy them horOriginally posted by Gackt247:Not necessary have to be good-looking mah. There are rare cases where love is indeed blind. -
Haa so far,received 4 times,rejected four.one by sms,the rest since they either used letters or by fren,i did the same way back.
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How did u go abt ur rejection?Originally posted by stellazio:Haa so far,received 4 times,rejected four.one by sms,the rest since they either used letters or by fren,i did the same way back. -
erm those by letters or thru frens,i made it clear the same way back la.no face to face contact easy ma..lol..the sms one.i noe i dun like her,so i said gif me one month or wad la,see whether got chemistry for feelings to build although i noe i don't.den the magical words lohz,partners we are not meant to,frens we shall be
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Tt's pretty alright. Some pple can be harsh in their rejection towards others.Originally posted by stellazio:erm those by letters or thru frens,i made it clear the same way back la.no face to face contact easy ma..lol..the sms one.i noe i dun like her,so i said gif me one month or wad la,see whether got chemistry for feelings to build although i noe i don't.den the magical words lohz,partners we are not meant to,frens we shall be -
I don't dare to be harsh,if not i wun even bother to give 1month trial period.lol.i mean what you do unto others,others will do unto you,u dun wan ppl reject u harshly,dun do it den no matter the circumstances.its a human heart afterall.
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Yep.. i do know the harsh realities of this game we call love. Juz as much as i dun like to be hurt, i do not wish do the same on others as well. I rather hurt myself physically den to let others endure emotional pain, which in my opinion is alot more excruciating.Originally posted by stellazio:I don't dare to be harsh,if not i wun even bother to give 1month trial period.lol.i mean what you do unto others,others will do unto you,u dun wan ppl reject u harshly,dun do it den no matter the circumstances.its a human heart afterall. -
hmmm... i would try to remain in platonic friendship dan to tek a step forward to try workin things out... i dun wish to hurt anyonewhether is it intentionally or unintentionally, not to mention fear of losing a person i like/love... no matter how hard u try, u always hurt the person u wan to protect most.... nothing last forever, not even the best things...
sometimes its better to remain the way it is dan to get involved and turned out bad in the end... anything more dan friendship makes things very complicated... love hurts, but friendship hurts more when lost through love...
if some things are better left unsaid, then maybe they too are better left undone... right?? -
y not be more straight forward?? sometimes its the things dat u didnt say hurt the most... she might mistaken that u liked her too but u are afraid to approach... better be frank... though it hurts, but doesnt drag...Originally posted by Gackt247:Agree..
Flattering, yes. Ego-boosting, i must concur.
N it's difficult to reject sb coz u might lose a fren. Furthermore, i do know the bitter feeling of rejection i dun wish to inflict the same pain on others.
I juz try to avoid her question when she wanted to know whether i liked her. -
I think we are suppose to be with the person we'r opposite with, that way two people won't make the same mistake.... hahar !!Originally posted by Gackt247:Yep.. i do know the harsh realities of this game we call love. Juz as much as i dun like to be hurt, i do not wish do the same on others as well. I rather hurt myself physically den to let others endure emotional pain, which in my opinion is alot more excruciating.