Who feel pressured about upcoming V-Day?

• FireIce

  13 Jan 05, 20:25

  jus let me know the date and i will nag u like i hound ppl to sign up Premier Membership
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 03:11

  Originally posted by foxwalk:

  i used to not like V-day too, it was nice to hang out with friends until.. they were all attached. but frankly speaking, it's not a big deal. even if you are single.
  
  just continue like it's any other day. that's how i lived all my single v-days. and i may be single this v-day too. big deal.
  
  one thing i cant stand is ppl who go ard sulking just cuz they're not attached on tt day or they dun have a date. i want to tell them-- get a life.
  
  and anyway, v-day is more than one month away. i'm more int in chinese new year despite being an anti traditionalist.

  yea I dun mind living thru V-Day as a single if all the people around me dun harass me about it and make singlehood seems like some kinda disease. and they will ask questions that will make me feel even more pressured and disappointed like,"Eh, I thought you have been going out with him? Why he didn't ask you out eh? You both not dating anymore ah?"
  
  
  
  i.c.y
• Otingocni

  14 Jan 05, 10:58

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  yea I dun mind living thru V-Day as a single if all the people around me dun harass me about it and make singlehood seems like some kinda disease. and they will ask questions that will make me feel even more pressured and disappointed like,"Eh, I thought you have been going out with him? Why he didn't ask you out eh? You both not dating anymore ah?"
  
  
  
  i.c.y

  Ignore them lor.
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 11:29

  Originally posted by Otingocni:

  Ignore them lor.

  I try to, but then it makes me start to doubt what I mean to him...
  
  i.c.y
• InnoHippo

  14 Jan 05, 11:38

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  yea I dun mind living thru V-Day as a single if all the people around me dun harass me about it and make singlehood seems like some kinda disease. and they will ask questions that will make me feel even more pressured and disappointed like,"Eh, I thought you have been going out with him? Why he didn't ask you out eh? You both not dating anymore ah?"
  
  
  
  i.c.y

  u cook a nice dinner for him lah ..... very romantic one
• FireIce

  14 Jan 05, 11:39

  Originally posted by InnoHippo:

  u cook a nice dinner for him lah ..... very romantic one

  yes, it's very romantic to see him wash the dishes and mop the floor
• Otingocni

  14 Jan 05, 11:40

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  I try to, but then it makes me start to doubt what I mean to him...
  
  i.c.y

  Love is not calculated on a balance. If you start to compare, then you're not treating the other party with respect.
  
  If you wanted, you should ask or hint.
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 11:41

  Originally posted by InnoHippo:

  u cook a nice dinner for him lah ..... very romantic one

  cannot la, we both live in dorms...
  
  i.c.y
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 11:41

  Originally posted by Otingocni:

  Love is not calculated on a balance. If you start to compare, then you're not treating the other party with respect.
  
  If you wanted, you should ask or hint.

  I dunno how to ask or hint since we are not "official" yet...
  
  i.c.y
• Otingocni

  14 Jan 05, 11:43

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  I dunno how to ask or hint since we are not "official" yet...
  
  i.c.y

  Then i think he has every right to not include you in his calendar.
  
  Frankly, he can take you for granted since you're not official yet.
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 11:44

  Originally posted by Otingocni:

  Then i think he has every right to not include you in his calendar.
  
  Frankly, he can take you for granted since you're not official yet.

  even when we have been dating exclusively for like the past 6 months?
  
  i.c.y
• InnoHippo

  14 Jan 05, 11:46

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  cannot la, we both live in dorms...
  
  i.c.y

  every meal also have to eat out?
  
  then u jio him out for dinner lah .....
• Otingocni

  14 Jan 05, 11:48

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  even when we have been dating exclusively for like the past 6 months?
  
  i.c.y

  You're not his gf yet, my dear. That's his excuse. As long as you two keep it that way, he can give himself more than one excuse to keep you at the distance while asking you when he's bored.
  
  I think it's clearly a situation where he can choose not to indulge in. If you're putting your heart and soul now, I think you should press further.
  
  Girl, you're going to be hurt further if he decide to turn his back on you when you already had him in your mind as your bf.
• InnoHippo

  14 Jan 05, 12:01

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  yes, it's very romantic to see him wash the dishes and mop the floor

  yalor .... especially when she gives him a good massage after that
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 12:10

  Originally posted by Otingocni:

  You're not his gf yet, my dear. That's his excuse. As long as you two keep it that way, he can give himself more than one excuse to keep you at the distance while asking you when he's bored.
  
  I think it's clearly a situation where he can choose not to indulge in. If you're putting your heart and soul now, I think you should press further.
  
  Girl, you're going to be hurt further if he decide to turn his back on you when you already had him in your mind as your bf.

  so i shud press him for an answer? i dun wan to rush him into it dats all...
  
  i.c.y
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 12:11

  Originally posted by InnoHippo:

  every meal also have to eat out?
  
  then u jio him out for dinner lah .....

  usually during dates we will eat out, if not i will just meet him for dinner in the cafe..
  
  i.c.y
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 12:12

  last time my ex...work n vday purposely then on vday i felt so lone. the next day is a breakoff news...
  
  but is over
• InnoHippo

  14 Jan 05, 12:14

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  so i shud press him for an answer? i dun wan to rush him into it dats all...
  
  i.c.y

  sound him out lah .....
  
  good to have a heart-to-heart talk once in a while
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 12:16

  Originally posted by InnoHippo:

  sound him out lah .....
  
  good to have a heart-to-heart talk once in a while

  i dunno how to talk about this...i m really clueless when it comes to this kinda thing...
  
  i.c.y
• Otingocni

  14 Jan 05, 12:25

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i dunno how to talk about this...i m really clueless when it comes to this kinda thing...
  
  i.c.y

  If everyone got clues what to do in life, then there won't be people making mistakes.
  
  Just do it.
  
  Worry after it.
  
  
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 12:29

  Originally posted by Otingocni:

  If everyone got clues what to do in life, then there won't be people making mistakes.
  
  Just do it.
  
  Worry after it.
  
  

  i just dun wan to regret...
  I dun wan to lose this frenship...
  
  i.c.y
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 12:29

  Originally posted by Otingocni:

  If everyone got clues what to do in life, then there won't be people making mistakes.
  
  Just do it.
  
  Worry after it.
  
  

  yes...sometimes better find out answer and get over with it.
  
  hi otingocni...how ur own problem? solve?
• JLennon

  14 Jan 05, 12:50

  yes, the pressure of choosing the best florist. haven't come across one that provides a consistently good looking bouquet. i must have covered most of the florists within a km radius of my workplace and still not satisfied.
• JLennon

  14 Jan 05, 12:51

  Originally posted by zodi:

  
  
  I FIGURED!

  
• frOst^~^nOva

  14 Jan 05, 13:10

  i'm single and loving it! V days is just an overrated day for couples. For a couple in a relationship, everyday is valentine's day. No need to wait until Feb 14 to celebrate and buy flowers at ridiculously high prices and dine in overcrowded restaurants.