different language used between man&woman + interpretation
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You should find out for your own good. So that the next r/s, you'll know how to deal with it.Originally posted by jusgal:i also dunno -
ya... he gives, i take.Originally posted by Estee:hahahaha...... yeah.... all about give and take yah??
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Yeah I agree - it's the approach. Learn how to push your mate's buttons. Play him/her like you master an instrument. (but in a good way! LOL)
It's about seeing the forest for the trees. No use insisting that it's gotta be done >> EXACTLY LIKE THAT << and ignoring everything else that's present.
It's about knowing how to suffer minor losses (yes, even pride... and especially romantic ideals) to win the war.
On a lighter note, where've you been? Seem to have disappeared for awhile and now you're back
Originally posted by M©+square:Wad's the smirk for?
To gain Win win r/s, first both parties will have to understand the approach ma....communication is a paramount role in successful r/s. -
Guys must note tat woman need to be reassure from time to time tat u love her a lot or she very important to u...
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Yeah, got it on the SPOT!Originally posted by choco B:Yeah I agree - it's the approach. Learn how to push your mate's buttons. Play him/her like you master an instrument. (but in a good way! LOL)
It's about seeing the forest for the trees. No use insisting that it's gotta be done >> EXACTLY LIKE THAT << and ignoring everything else that's present.
It's about knowing how to suffer minor losses (yes, even pride... and especially romantic ideals) to win the war.
On a lighter note, where've you been? Seem to have disappeared for awhile and now you're back
Me? I've been into work and solitude.
Didn't have much to contribute...most of the time not in the condition to help others. So got to hide in the cave to think thru. -
Do you know that there are ways to make him assure you every now and then? And at his own will.Originally posted by jusgal:Guys must note tat woman need to be reassure from time to time tat u love her a lot or she very important to u... -
Hmmm.... hope you return with ++ level and power-up'ed
It's good to have you backOriginally posted by M©+square:Yeah, got it on the SPOT!
Me? I've been into work and solitude.
Didn't have much to contribute...most of the time not in the condition to help others. So got to hide in the cave to think thru. -
Good to See you!Originally posted by choco B:Hmmm.... hope you return with ++ level and power-up'ed It's good to have you back Muacks!!! 
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How?Originally posted by M©+square:Do you know that there are ways to make him assure you every now and then? And at his own will.
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Cannot teech here. If got chance meet at outing then i teech.Originally posted by gal gal:How? -
I ALSO wanna KNOWOriginally posted by M©+square:Do you know that there are ways to make him assure you every now and then? And at his own will.
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teach leh...Originally posted by M©+square:Cannot teech here. If got chance meet at outing then i teech. -
Originally posted by jusgal:I ALSO wanna KNOW
Very easy one...how come you all don't know ah? -
This one takes some time to explain. Cannot do it here la.Originally posted by jusgal:teach leh... 
Outing lor. -
when's the next outing that's coming up?Originally posted by M©+square:This one takes some time to explain. Cannot do it here la.
Outing lor. -
the problem is he wun be here. he is back home while I am stuck here, miles and miles away from him. We are even separated by the Pacific Ocean nowOriginally posted by M©+square:If he really didn't wish you on that day,
try 'XXX(how you call him), you don't want to wish me happy brithday ah?' (give that big smile)
I believe he'll melt and like you even more. And i think for the rest of the day...you'll enjoy yourself.
Sometimes, your first step will reap much more returns.
think I cried a bit just now cos miss him again
and right now my ex-crush is overnighting in my room, talk about irony!!!
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Originally posted by _Aaron_:
yea
Yeap. That's the way it should be, especially when hinting doesn't work.
Icy Jie, don't start a cold war for little things... its not worth it de. Esp when you hint him, then he's dense and doesn't get it.
[b]He'll be like "What..? I never do anything wrong she also mad at me? Am i supposed to apologise? No way!"
Now, does this sound familiar?[/b] he said dat to me before the first time he said he sensed I was angry at him...but in the end he still apologized and brought me out for dinner as a way of saying sorry.
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u forgot one thing...i m not officially his gf yet.Originally posted by Fuqua:here's what i think.
a person who forget his gf b'day is NOT worth knowing.
happy advance b'day btw.
thanks for the early wishes
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I told him not to take the trouble to send me back all the time, but he said he wans to make sure I get home safely...Originally posted by M©+square:How far apart are you guys stayin apart?
distance matters but yet not matter at the same time.
Sometimes When bf is really tired, even walking across the road to send you home is a heavy chore.
Many times,
He may try to please you, deep down it's a chore.
But i believe it's all worth it when he sees you happy.
Cold war is very bad esp for bf who does in your bid most times.
One mistake destorys all his good deeds. Unfair right?
You're not wrong to think that way. Just that you need to approach your thoughts to him in ways that won't pressure him. Speak honestly but without demand. REMEMBER - He must realise that his gf is not petty but infact very mature and understanding in executing your message to him.
In near future, he'll do things automatically.
Haiyah....this one difficult to explain. Must teech hands on de.
Cheers
Yea, cannot deny that he has done a lot of things for me, he went shopping and watch movies that he doesn't like with me, he even went ice skating with me even though I know he is terrified of it and he doesn't know how to skate. That's why sometimes I feel like I am being too demanding, like I want him to be perfect in every way and I want him to be what I expect from my ideal man. I know it is very tiring on him sometimes, really want to give him a hug to show just how much I have appreciated all that he has done for me.
but mebbe now cos I am all alone here, so I miss him a lot and just want to know that how he is doing back home ma...but dun want to demand him to call me all the way from Malaysia when he is busy visiting his family which he hasn't seen for like 2 years already...
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wat outing? whose outing???Originally posted by M©+square:This one takes some time to explain. Cannot do it here la.
Outing lor. -
Next outing/don't know whose one lah.. If i got meet you. Then you remind me to tell you lor.Originally posted by jusgal:wat outing? whose outing??? -
ho`ho`ho`....Merry Christmas
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u pm me lah.....Originally posted by M©+square:Next outing/don't know whose one lah.. If i got meet you. Then you remind me to tell you lor. -
do i know u?Originally posted by Santa Claus:ho`ho`ho`....Merry Christmas -
u mean u do not know santa claus? so poor thingOriginally posted by jusgal:do i know u?