different language used between man&woman + interpretation
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okie...i admit I am also one of those girls who expect the guys to sort of know what is going on my head. Like whenever we went out together, I would sort of expect him to come pick me up and send me home after that, so if he doesn't I would still smile at him of cos so dat he wun think I am petty but mebbe deep down I am being petty cos I would get irritated like the whole night after dat. but think he sensed dat after a while, so he pretty much followed me home evtime now after our date
another thing is when he is away for a long time(like now) and he doesn't know dat I expect him to call or at least let me know how he is doing back home. I am trying to keep calm now, I dun wan to come across as too demanding or anything but i have a feeling if he doesn't do that soon, I might start another spat of cold war *sigh*
do you think I am wrong to think that way??
i.c.y -
Ya... Come on, we guys cannot make out what your gal wants...Originally posted by icyprincess:okie...i admit I am also one of those girls who expect the guys to sort of know what is going on my head. Like whenever we went out together, I would sort of expect him to come pick me up and send me home after that, so if he doesn't I would still smile at him of cos so dat he wun think I am petty but mebbe deep down I am being petty cos I would get irritated like the whole night after dat. but think he sensed dat after a while, so he pretty much followed me home evtime now after our date
another thing is when he is away for a long time(like now) and he doesn't know dat I expect him to call or at least let me know how he is doing back home. I am trying to keep calm now, I dun wan to come across as too demanding or anything but i have a feeling if he doesn't do that soon, I might start another spat of cold war *sigh*
do you think I am wrong to think that way??
i.c.y -
guys : i just wanna play football <<<< hard to understand ah?
apparently my friend's gf has problems understanding.
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but the thing is..once i say it out loud, he would think I am being demanding. Like I can say,"I want you to call me to let me know how you are doing back home, if you dun, I am going to hate you."Originally posted by sbst275:Ya... Come on, we guys cannot make out what your gal wants...
That's what I have on my mind right now, I can just say it like that and I would be speaking my mind but won't he think i am trying to control him? I just want him to do it out of his own will, dun wan to force.
i.c.y -
If he wants you to speak directly, just say... We guys would be puzzled if your dun talkOriginally posted by icyprincess:but the thing is..once i say it out loud, he would think I am being demanding. Like I can say,"I want you to call me to let me know how you are doing back home, if you dun, I am going to hate you."
That's what I have on my mind right now, I can just say it like that and I would be speaking my mind but won't he think i am trying to control him? I just want him to do it out of his own will, dun wan to force.
i.c.y -
MAYBE can give hints baOriginally posted by icyprincess:but the thing is..once i say it out loud, he would think I am being demanding. Like I can say,"I want you to call me to let me know how you are doing back home, if you dun, I am going to hate you."
That's what I have on my mind right now, I can just say it like that and I would be speaking my mind but won't he think i am trying to control him? I just want him to do it out of his own will, dun wan to force.
i.c.y -
hints are a waste of time.Originally posted by jusgal:MAYBE can give hints ba
be like my friend
'i wanna play football with the guys' -
I already sent him an email but I think he just reached Malaysia like a day ago, he probably is too busy visiting his family and friends back home right now so dun think he even saw the email yet.Originally posted by sbst275:If he wants you to speak directly, just say... We guys would be puzzled if your dun talk
I am missing him so much already
i.c.y -
then what about guys that go whining when their GFs want to go for their gossip sessions??
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they should join his guy friends for football.Originally posted by Estee:then what about guys that go whining when their GFs want to go for their gossip sessions?? -
oh so next time can ask the guy join in for gossip session also lah u mean.....Originally posted by kopiosatu:they should join his guy friends for football. -
haih..this guy is super dense one lor...last time I gave out so many hints but he din realize it until like a month later when I was already boiling mad...Originally posted by jusgal:MAYBE can give hints ba
but if i just tell him to call me when we are not even officially bf-gf yet, seems like I am being a control freak and being too demanding lor...
i.c.y -
no i meant the girl go do her own stuff, the guy go do his own stuffOriginally posted by Estee:oh so next time can ask the guy join in for gossip session also lah u mean.....
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hi icy.Originally posted by icyprincess:I already sent him an email but I think he just reached Malaysia like a day ago, he probably is too busy visiting his family and friends back home right now so dun think he even saw the email yet.
I am missing him so much already
i.c.y
yeah, sori, i just reached home, have read ur email and missing u too
but seriosuly, i'm agree with kopiosatu, hints r a waste of time with us. i almost always prefer the ger to give it to me straight. but whether i like it or not, thats another matter. -
orh..... depends mah... scarly that guy couch potato kind?? then gf wan go out they whine and whine....Originally posted by kopiosatu:no i meant the girl go do her own stuff, the guy go do his own stuff -
MY EX also expect me to know his tots....very tiring to guess lahOriginally posted by kopiosatu:hints are a waste of time.
be like my friend
'i wanna play football with the guys' -
my friend like tat. the gf love shopping while he sleep.Originally posted by Estee:orh..... depends mah... scarly that guy couch potato kind?? then gf wan go out they whine and whine....
each time she reach shopping centre....close liao -
Originally posted by jusgal:MY EX also expect me to know his tots....very tiring to guess lah
Guy also does this? -
why not?? there are all sorts of people out there.Originally posted by sbst275:
Guy also does this? -
depends what the bf/gf want out of the r/s i suppose.Originally posted by icyprincess:haih..this guy is super dense one lor...last time I gave out so many hints but he din realize it until like a month later when I was already boiling mad...
but if i just tell him to call me when we are not even officially bf-gf yet, seems like I am being a control freak and being too demanding lor...
i.c.y
hints no good.
I can figure out most things, remember important dates and do some lovey-dovey stuffs but it wud be nice too if u can talk to me and tell me straight how u wud want me display my love for u.
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yes...Originally posted by sbst275:
Guy also does this? -
my next one i ask him to tell me. i hate guessingOriginally posted by Estee:why not?? there are all sorts of people out there.
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couch potato?Originally posted by Estee:orh..... depends mah... scarly that guy couch potato kind?? then gf wan go out they whine and whine....
switch on the tv... he wun know gf exists anymore.
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i intro u to my friend, but he's not single... he's a cheaterOriginally posted by jusgal:my next one i ask him to tell me. i hate guessing -
ahahahahah....... there's too many examples to state... but no point....Originally posted by kopiosatu:couch potato?
switch on the tv... he wun know gf exists anymore.
simple solutions for simple people