different language used between man&woman + interpretation

• jusgal

  22 Dec 04, 17:10

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  I 1st skipped because of working
  
  Now because of family... Like this, dun need to further studies liao

  ur case bo bian liao lah
• sbst275

  22 Dec 04, 17:14

  Originally posted by jusgal:

  ur case bo bian liao lah

  What to do? Family comes 1st
• jusgal

  22 Dec 04, 17:23

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  What to do? Family comes 1st

  agrees
• _Aaron_

  22 Dec 04, 17:24

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  What to do? Family comes 1st

  Maybe when your bb grows up and becomes independent.
  Its never too late to learn..~
• jusgal

  22 Dec 04, 17:26

  Originally posted by _Aaron_:

  Maybe when your bb grows up and becomes independent.
  Its never too late to learn..~

  ya lor
• sbst275

  22 Dec 04, 17:27

  Originally posted by _Aaron_:

  Maybe when your bb grows up and becomes independent.
  Its never too late to learn..~

  Ya... But have to learn something on the meanwhile - Being a parent
• _Aaron_

  22 Dec 04, 17:27

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  Ya... But have to learn something on the meanwhile - Being a parent

  That by itself, takes a lifetime to learn.
  
  Signing off. See you all later~
• jusgal

  22 Dec 04, 17:32

  Originally posted by _Aaron_:

  That by itself, takes a lifetime to learn.
  
  Signing off. See you all later~

  bye....see you tomolo
• sleepycat

  23 Dec 04, 01:08

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  If he really didn't wish you on that day,
  
  try 'XXX(how you call him), you don't want to wish me happy brithday ah?' (give that big smile)
  I believe he'll melt and like you even more. And i think for the rest of the day...you'll enjoy yourself.
  
  Sometimes, your first step will reap much more returns.

  Agreed! M©+square, uncannily it sounds to me that you've been through alot but those times make you so attractive now. I like your sexy mind! Keep on moving and get outta that cave... I bet some girls are already waiting! Or, you're already out and hanging or swinging?
  
  Folks, whatever the language or situation, say it with love & the message almost always hit home this way... if there's very little love left, make some yea?
  
  
• sleepycat

  23 Dec 04, 01:15

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  yes.. but.. don't you see it... stop looking at "whose fault"... look at who the odds are stacked against...
  
  a totally blameless dude could be lynched with the same reason...
  
  the bottom line is: trust your guy... you chose him, you better learn to trust him..
  
  don't use emotional blackmail against him.. don't tell him yes when you mean no.. don't tell him "it's all right" when it isn't...
  
  because he trusts you totally, he's going to take those things face-value.. screw venus, screw mars.. this is planet earth...
  
  when a guy says "nothing" he means it.. and if you cannot understand that, you cannot turn around and cry bitterly saying he does not understand you if you keep saying "it's all right" when you don't mean it..
  
  after a while, he'll learn not to trust you... simply because you did not tell him simple truths...
  
  and everything goes to hell after..
  
  so, is it easier to be straightforward and call a spade a spade, or is it easier for a man to learn (and he will fail dismally) the "language" of women who do not say what they mean?
  
  and back to "different situations", no matter what situations, the woman will prevail.. right or wrong... because, tragically men are hard-wired that way.. the battle may be won... but in the long run, the whole war may be lost...
  
  

  Great points bear! Though I'm no man, I know you're not far from the harsh reality men face. Then again, no matter whose victory it is, where and when love is lost, both lost... agree?
  
  So, what does it matter that the woman may seem to have prevailed?
• jusgal

  23 Dec 04, 09:38

  Originally posted by sleepycat:
  
  
  Great points bear! Though I'm no man, I know you're not far from the harsh reality men face. Then again, no matter whose victory it is, [b]where and when love is lost, both lost... agree?
  
  So, what does it matter that the woman may seem to have prevailed? [/b]

  ya both lost
• jusgal

  23 Dec 04, 10:55

  morning all...
• icyprincess

  23 Dec 04, 11:01

  yay he just replied to my mail said he arrived safely in Malaysia already, now relaxing back home lor...i was getting a bit worried already since I mailed him about 2-3 days ago and he din reply.
  
  Anyway, it is good to know that he is now happily spending his time in Malaysia
  
  i.c.y
• sbst275

  23 Dec 04, 11:02

  Me going to Hong Kong soon... Bringing my laptop
• jusgal

  23 Dec 04, 11:58

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  Me going to Hong Kong soon... Bringing my laptop

  FOR work?
  
• jusgal

  23 Dec 04, 11:59

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  yay he just replied to my mail said he arrived safely in Malaysia already, now relaxing back home lor...i was getting a bit worried already since I mailed him about 2-3 days ago and he din reply.
  
  Anyway, it is good to know that he is now happily spending his time in Malaysia
  
  i.c.y

  u should hide in his luggage mah. save airticket.
• sbst275

  23 Dec 04, 12:01

  Originally posted by jusgal:

  FOR work?
  

  Honeymoon... Laptop so to surf
• jusgal

  23 Dec 04, 12:02

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  Honeymoon... Laptop so to surf

  so nice
• sbst275

  23 Dec 04, 12:07

  Originally posted by jusgal:

  u should hide in his luggage mah. save airticket.

  Ya... Then he knows you ser bu de ta zhou
• jusgal

  23 Dec 04, 12:37

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  Ya... Then he knows you ser bu de ta zhou

  
• jusgal

  23 Dec 04, 12:38

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  Ya... Then he knows you ser bu de ta zhou

  SAVE $ also
• Fuqua

  23 Dec 04, 12:59

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  Me going to Hong Kong soon... Bringing my laptop

  Have fun. Bb safe to travel?
  I went to work there for couple of weeks.
  The shopping was crazy ...
  
  
• Fuqua

  23 Dec 04, 13:05

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  yay he just replied to my mail said he arrived safely in Malaysia already, now relaxing back home lor...i was getting a bit worried already since I mailed him about 2-3 days ago and he din reply.
  
  Anyway, it is good to know that he is now happily spending his time in Malaysia
  
  i.c.y

  u're acting like his gf.
  u sure it's not official yet?
  
  Parting is such sweet sorrow.
  
  
• 798

  23 Dec 04, 13:07

  Originally posted by sbst275:

  Me going to Hong Kong soon... Bringing my laptop

  you go hk who is going to report us sbs news?
• icyprincess

  23 Dec 04, 13:52

  Originally posted by Fuqua:

  u're acting like his gf.
  u sure it's not official yet?
  
  Parting is such sweet sorrow.
  
  

  is it not like a fren to write an email to inquire whether he has arrived safely or not? I have also written such an email to my roomie to be honest...so I din really think much of it. And I did tell him at the end of the email to not to bother to reply since he should be enjoying himself at home, but it is just nice that he took the time to write back to me
  
  Anyway a lot of people are saying that we are a couple, we are definitely going out since I have been dating him for almost a few months now. But I said it is not official yet since he has not asked me to be his gf or anything. I do not know why, maybe he is still too nervous, still too unsure but I have since stopped trying to force him to ask that particular question, I will just let him say it when he is most comfortable doing it. So for now, I shall let things be since I am happy with the way it is going now...
  
  Parting is a very sorrowful thing indeed, tho it makes me glad to think that I shall see him again in about 3 weeks time Anyway absence makes the heart grows fonder
  
  i.c.y