is tat the way couples shld be??
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i've always heard my guy friends tat their girls always "tok" them. go where also its taken for granted tat the guys will foot the bill.
anyone encounter this or wld like to share ur ideas?? -
guys oso take for granted tt girls must do housework and wash dishes....
why dun they suggest go dutch in this area?
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If the guy feel been 'tok' than the gal he is with sure not someone he really like or love.Originally posted by xiao_shin:i've always heard my guy friends tat their girls always "tok" them. go where also its taken for granted tat the guys will foot the bill.
anyone encounter this or wld like to share ur ideas??
If it is for years and still feel been 'tok' haha he is not getting anything from her
ask him to move on. -
Equality is not about being equal.
However, I do recommend dutch... from 2nd dates onwards, till both are comfortable with who foot the bill. -
poor thing, that means u are dating the wrong type of girls. There are some very considerate, willing to pay
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dutch is best
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you lai you wang~~
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went back to reservist these few days.. ive heard my camp mates complaining tat their new gfs ah... this this this.. tat tat tat...
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I foot most of the bills for my gf....Originally posted by xiao_shin:went back to reservist these few days.. ive heard my camp mates complaining tat their new gfs ah... this this this.. tat tat tat...
nv had that feeling that shes taking me for granted...
hahahaha...
opps...
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I tink the guy should pay la
but depends la if still studying
mayb sometimes should go dutch la -
imo, i dun mind footing the bills, but when i get the feeling im there made used of, it repulses me.
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not always... not all gals will take the guys for granted... there are some who will appreciate and some will insist u no need to pay for her... there will be some who will treat the guy back...Originally posted by xiao_shin:i've always heard my guy friends tat their girls always "tok" them. go where also its taken for granted tat the guys will foot the bill.
anyone encounter this or wld like to share ur ideas??
...but remember
Do what you WANTED to do and not what people or yourself THINK you SHOULD do... -
Just do whatever you want to do.. If she wants you to do it, you can said don't want what
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Originally posted by Imperfect:
wow... chim sia....
not always... not all gals will take the guys for granted... there are some who will appreciate and some will insist u no need to pay for her... there will be some who will treat the guy back...
...but remember
Do what you [b]WANTED to do and not what people or yourself THINK you SHOULD do...
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should take turns la.... but not to the last cent.... guy pay for dinner, gal pay for movies or drinks.... give and take is good....
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what u want to do comes unconditional... what u think you should do comes with conditions... or u will resent later on...Originally posted by xiao_shin:wow... chim sia.... -
But frankly, I think if the guys think so, then they might be doing things quite unwillingly... Anyway, I once heard one of my close friends said this : Girls will go for the guys' $$ and guys in return will ask the girl to pay back wif their body...Originally posted by xiao_shin:i've always heard my guy friends tat their girls always "tok" them. go where also its taken for granted tat the guys will foot the bill.
anyone encounter this or wld like to share ur ideas??
If this is indeed true, will the guys still have the cheeks to say that their girlfriends "tok" them????
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that is fair, but what if girls do not go for the guys' money and guys want the girl to pay back with their body or what if girls went for the guys' money and guys are not even thinking of such demands?Originally posted by yunzhongzi:But frankly, I think if the guys think so, then they might be doing things quite unwillingly... Anyway, I once heard one of my close friends said this : Girls will go for the guys' $$ and guys in return will ask the girl to pay back wif their body...
If this is indeed true, will the guys still have the cheeks to say that their girlfriends "tok" them????
this is inbalance and it does happen. -
there are oso some ego guys who insist they mus pay for eberything.......to show they are "gentleman".......
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so in conclusion, moderation is best lar, too much of something is no good.Originally posted by FireIce:there are oso some ego guys who insist they mus pay for eberything.......to show they are "gentleman"....... -
Its e guy themselves allow themselves to be 'tok'....When paying time, U can dun pay for her wat......Pai Say?? Then u ask for it lor...why complain? Unless u force her to come out when she broke and u agreed to pay for her.....In this case its e guy who agreed again.......so no reason to complain right?!Originally posted by xiao_shin:i've always heard my guy friends tat their girls always "tok" them. go where also its taken for granted tat the guys will foot the bill.
anyone encounter this or wld like to share ur ideas??
Actually its us Hwa Hee Gum Wan let the gals 'tok' us one...bcoz we wan Bin Zhu (face) and Seh Ho (Stylo) mah.....no one take knife and force u wat?
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Its e guy themselves allow themselves to be 'tok'....When paying time, U can dun pay for her wat......Pai Say?? Then u ask for it lor...why complain? Unless u force her to come out when she broke and u agreed to pay for her.....In this case its e guy who agreed again.......so no reason to complain right?!Originally posted by xiao_shin:i've always heard my guy friends tat their girls always "tok" them. go where also its taken for granted tat the guys will foot the bill.
anyone encounter this or wld like to share ur ideas??
Actually its us Hwa Hee Gum Wan let the gals 'tok' us one...bcoz we wan Bin Zhu (face) and Seh Ho (Stylo) mah.....no one take knife and force u wat?