Blind Leads The Blind (Bear Version)
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What do you guys think of Sgboy when he don't turn up to any outing?
I feel the same to Bear as he don't appear here. -
i guess there is some misunderstanding between honghong and susan. if only honghong can show up and clarify the statement, the tension is still there.
Remember all of us attended outing before and i hope whatever it is, our friendship will not stain because of these issue. -
Dun worry......Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:Nelstar ...
I got bully by xiao ren and not just infront, behind to... so you ask me to sit there wait till I die of bleeding .... not fair to ME!!!!!!!
Every single one who visit the forum and see wats goin on have eyes to see N brain to think........
....... Dun be upset becos of some irresponsible xiao ren who goes around speaking ill of U.
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Thank you Xking.... I try not to think. So touch with all my friends here .... Thank you all !!!Originally posted by xking:Dun worry......
Every single one who visit the forum and see wats goin on have eyes to see N brain to think........
....... Dun be upset becos of some irresponsible xiao ren who goes around speaking ill of U. -
nothing to worry if conscience is clear....
like crystal clear
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I would like to take this chance to thanks "those" PM me the post in shout box so that I can clear up for all those victims named (Evil, perverts,brain damge ......)
The damge has done to us is more than this thread could help.
For those I know and unknown person who is suffering and eat up the sorrows, sorry that is the max I can do.
As far as I know I would start to put the victims name below, whoever yourself know who you are and wanted please post here.
Vitctims Name:
FOS
Stoner
Meowsusan
Oceanos
Sgboy2004
Windjammer -
If you realized, the parties involved are the Bear, hong and susan. xs don't have to add in to the fire. What Bear has done doesn't constitute that we should retaliate or attack him/her/it/whoever/whatever with the similar methods.Originally posted by F.O.S:Nelstar,
you ever come across that Bear calling ppl Brain Damage?
"use your brain" , "think" or suffer from @#$%$#@@# ".
Does that mean any better ?
I guess Nelstar you might be good in English that you think his words don't mean anything.
Xiao Shin say "hum Ji" is = food , and Xiao Ren mean little boy in china .
So if you guy want and like to twisted your words SPEAK Chinese to me.
"Ruo yao shi jiao, yi li wei ben" : If you wants to teach others a lesson, use respect as a weapon.
Are you telling me to fight a fire with a flame thrower?
If someone is intend on insulting you and you're not happy with that, what are you doing when you're insulting him back?
Don't tell me you don't see my base idea. I'm not protecting him, I'm preventing people from doing something they despise. -
Originally posted by F.O.S:
really weird.. i mean bear role 'passerby' ?
For those whom knows what happen. Please read whats going on and comment.
1st incident happens 7 May 2004 which is abt 11 days ago, thought the case was closed, please read second message which I think the orignial version was twisted. Those whom seen the live firing please advise and comment.
[b]7 May 2004 in Shout box
thhong22> susan> i don need u to teach me wat to do.... itÂ’s my life.... i control it.... i do it the way i wan....
MeOwSuSan> Sorry to tell you hong lor ... I donÂ’t control you ... it I kpo try to help...sad to say ... you ask for it canÂ’t be help ... very thankful for listening "hong" ....
thhong22> i ask for wat? y the "hong"?
susan> anyway thanx for ur advice.... i noe wat to do myself
MeOwSuSan> GOOD .... Hope you see light one day ....sweet dream ... ALL the best "HONG"
MeOwSuSan> LOVE and LIGHT is alway there may the good heart seen them soon ....
y mus put " "???? iÂ’m hong, not "hong"
thhong22> don tell me wat love, light, god, angel.... i don believe n i don wan listen..... u talk like oceanos... i don like
thhong22> iÂ’m this straight forward... go tell him if u wan... flame me all he wan.... i don care
[MeOwSuSan> I not him ... "hong" I have seen Angel so I belive there is .... I canÂ’t belive at first but now i but ...
MeOwSuSan> Angel and fairlys only can seen by people who have a heart of LOVE...
thhong22> iÂ’m HONG not "HONG".... i don need the " "
the Bear> brainwashing comes to those who want to be brainwashed.. remember that everyone...
yah yah... i not love, cos iÂ’m heartless
the Bear> and it seems like some, are lost because they feel they have to be lost...
thhong22> well said bear.........
MeOwSuSan> " hong" mean you are special .... so is how you see yourself to be ...
the Bear> "susan".. you seem to be unable to think for yourself...
iÂ’m juz hong.... no need to be "hong"... iÂ’m juz a common normal gal.... nothing special....
"susan"... stop jumping and clinging onto others, behave your age and take responsibility for your own actions rather than follow blindly...
Who hurt who , who trying to help who?[/b]
meowsusan keep naming honghong ''hong''
honghong irritated by this?
bearbear help honghong?
but bearbear ah, dun give others names lehx.. v.bad de
i think actually meowsusan shouldn't have called her "hong"
bearbear shouldn't name meowsusan "susan"?
honghong did her best to stop meowsusan from naming her as "hong"
meowsusan shouldn't explain 'her given names' as special.. ehh -
mi myself calling the Bear as Bearbear, am i harmful? im sorry guys im used in calling bearbear honghong croco all these.. sure it don't hurt does it?
apologies for all whom got mi names -
are u a peace maker here?Originally posted by Nelstar:If you realized, the parties involved are the Bear, hong and susan. xs don't have to add in to the fire. What Bear has done doesn't constitute that we should retaliate or attack him/her/it/whoever/whatever with the similar methods.
"Ruo yao shi jiao, yi li wei ben" : If you wants to teach others a lesson, use respect as a weapon.
Are you telling me to fight a fire with a flame thrower?
If someone is intend on insulting you and you're not happy with that, what are you doing when you're insulting him back?
Don't tell me you don't see my base idea. I'm not protecting him, I'm preventing people from doing something they despise. -
Nelstar:-Originally posted by Nelstar:If you realized, the parties involved are the Bear, hong and susan. xs don't have to add in to the fire. What Bear has done doesn't constitute that we should retaliate or attack him/her/it/whoever/whatever with the similar methods.
"Ruo yao shi jiao, yi li wei ben" : If you wants to teach others a lesson, use respect as a weapon.
Are you telling me to fight a fire with a flame thrower?
If someone is intend on insulting you and you're not happy with that, what are you doing when you're insulting him back?
Don't tell me you don't see my base idea. I'm not protecting him, I'm preventing people from doing something they despise.
first of all if u wan a respect from some one.... learn to respect other's first.. whether using respect as a weapon anot is another issue...if this simple logic he also cannot abid by... do u think he deserve to be respect..... the answer is NO!!!!!!!!! Not even using respect as a weapon.... He dun deserve it.....
Do u think during this era at this century still got "yi fu de ren" got in ur dreams lor....tonight u slp early maybe u can dream of that....
Just my worthless pic of comments... -
Nelstar,Originally posted by Nelstar:If you realized, the parties involved are the Bear, hong and susan. xs don't have to add in to the fire. What Bear has done doesn't constitute that we should retaliate or attack him/her/it/whoever/whatever with the similar methods.
"Ruo yao shi jiao, yi li wei ben" : If you wants to teach others a lesson, use respect as a weapon.
Are you telling me to fight a fire with a flame thrower?
If someone is intend on insulting you and you're not happy with that, what are you doing when you're insulting him back?
Don't tell me you don't see my base idea. I'm not protecting him, I'm preventing people from doing something they despise.
I also know "yi du gong du", there is no way to teach him a lession if he don't reply and repent.
He is keeping qiuet to avoide his mistake, this kind of problem has been repeating and repeating, I believe he is getting worst that now it happen to a lady.
He can use his chim Ang mo that we don't understand, why can't we use our hokkian and chinese that he don't?
He nv admit his mistake, by keeping quiet he will nv get out of this .
When his group slamp ppl I see XXXX even , did he stop them? did any of you stop them? comeon look at both side, we are just returning whatever he give to us. -
i'm getting more and more confused.. i'm sorry that i'm too lazy to read the whole 6 pages, may i know who your referring?Originally posted by F.O.S:Nelstar,
I also know "yi du gong du", there is no way to teach him a lession if he don't reply and repent.
He is keeping qiuet to avoide his mistake, this kind of problem has been repeating and repeating, I believe he is getting worst that now it happen to a lady.
He can use his chim Ang mo that we don't understand, why can't we use our hokkian and chinese that he don't?
He nv admit his mistake, by keeping quiet he will nv get out of this .
When his group slamp ppl I see XXXX even , did he stop them? did any of you stop them? comeon look at both side, we are just returning whatever he give to us. -
There is a difference from not interfering and taking sides and it is important about being partial and being defensive in what you comprehend.Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:Nelstar ... I got bully by xiao ren and not just infront, behind to... so you ask me to sit there wait till I die of bleeding .... not fair to ME!!!!!!!
First of all, I'm not a victim. Therefore, passing any judgement before understanding what has been said, done or assumed is not justified. It's not wrong to sympathize the victims involved, but pointing fingers is definitely wrong if you're not clear on the issue.
More importantly, it will be unfair to hold trial to a case where only one party makes their statement. To be partial, one must see from both viewpoints and their reasonings, before passing the final judgement.
Secondly, both parties involved are my friends. It hurts either way to say or judge anything without understanding. You must understand this, I've been through all these squabbles for seven years online. I've seen enough that I think that it might be better to let it pass.
If you feel I'm heartless by not taking sides, what would you feel if your children are fighting against one another or your parents are fighting against one another? I don't know if anyone gain from this, but surely it hurts me more to think I'm going to expect something occuring. I don't want to talk about what I expect to happen. I just want to silently forget all this.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=79509
Look at that, that is something I want you all to learn. -
simple , ask him apologies here, solve.
this is not the first time liao. -
apologise to who and whats the purpose?Originally posted by F.O.S:simple , ask him apologies here, solve.
this is not the first time liao. -
think must know wats behind bear story before verdict is passedOriginally posted by F.O.S:simple , ask him apologies here, solve.
this is not the first time liao. -
It simply doesn't justify inflicting pain against someone who did.Originally posted by F.O.S:Nelstar,
I also know "yi du gong du", there is no way to teach him a lession if he don't reply and repent.
He is keeping qiuet to avoide his mistake, this kind of problem has been repeating and repeating, I believe he is getting worst that now it happen to a lady.
He can use his chim Ang mo that we don't understand, why can't we use our hokkian and chinese that he don't?
He nv admit his mistake, by keeping quiet he will nv get out of this .
When his group slamp ppl I see XXXX even , did he stop them? did any of you stop them? comeon look at both side, we are just returning whatever he give to us.
To what ends he abuses his language and to what ends the damage inflicted is not unknown to me.
What I am saying is, don't repeat the same mistakes. If your argument is strong enough, you don't even need to use such strong attacks.
XS: In any way, what do you expect to get from him if you constantly taunt him? You'll expect someone who slammed someone to think "Hey I gotta change." or start slamming you for saying that?
If you understand the logic behind the likely result you'll understand certain things are pointless and they don't do you any benefits. Yes, it allows you to cool down, but when he retaliates, you're going to get a bitter end out of it. -
oceanos made good point
take a good look guys~
yes meowsusan with a kind personality, poor language? nah i don't think so
she agitated honghong simply because she name her as "hong" and honghong did request her not to use the '' '' to address her, this right or wrong? i think meowsusan partially in fault
and mi lang also not good~ wat wat.. we are fellow forumites dun quarrel liow la~ -
me also. nel... u know how i feel about this whole thing. haiz...Originally posted by Nelstar:There is a difference from not interfering and taking sides and it is important about being partial and being defensive in what you comprehend.
First of all, I'm not a victim. Therefore, passing any judgement before understanding what has been said, done or assumed is not justified. It's not wrong to sympathize the victims involved, but pointing fingers is definitely wrong if you're not clear on the issue.
More importantly, it will be unfair to hold trial to a case where only one party makes their statement. To be partial, one must see from both viewpoints and their reasonings, before passing the final judgement.
Secondly, both parties involved are my friends. It hurts either way to say or judge anything without understanding. You must understand this, I've been through all these squabbles for seven years online. I've seen enough that I think that it might be better to let it pass.
If you feel I'm heartless by not taking sides, what would you feel if your children are fighting against one another or your parents are fighting against one another? I don't know if anyone gain from this, but surely it hurts me more to think I'm going to expect something occuring. I don't want to talk about what I expect to happen. I just want to silently forget all this.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=79509
Look at that, that is something I want you all to learn. -
it is not about "yi de fu ren"Originally posted by xiao_shin:Nelstar:-
first of all if u wan a respect from some one.... learn to respect other's first.. whether using respect as a weapon anot is another issue...if this simple logic he also cannot abid by... do u think he deserve to be respect..... the answer is NO!!!!!!!!! Not even using respect as a weapon.... He dun deserve it.....
Do u think during this era at this century still got "yi fu de ren" got in ur dreams lor....tonight u slp early maybe u can dream of that....
Just my worthless pic of comments...
If you think you can swear and taunt better you'll win the argument, I'll say I'm sorry, but I looked down on you. Everyone is watching. We know what is happening. If you're taunting someone, you're doing something wrong. That definitely reflects upon you and your statements.
Think about it. You expects so many eyes to see you insulting someone to believe what you say?
I think not. -
i thought i thought him guilty already?Originally posted by Dan Ryou Shou:think must know wats behind bear story before verdict is passed -
yup... gong dao zi zai ren xin~Originally posted by Nelstar:It simply doesn't justify inflicting pain against someone who did.
To what ends he abuses his language and to what ends the damage inflicted is not unknown to me.
What I am saying is, don't repeat the same mistakes. If your argument is strong enough, you don't even need to use such strong attacks.
XS: In any way, what do you expect to get from him if you constantly taunt him? You'll expect someone who slammed someone to think "Hey I gotta change." or start slamming you for saying that?
If you understand the logic behind the likely result you'll understand certain things are pointless and they don't do you any benefits. Yes, it allows you to cool down, but when he retaliates, you're going to get a bitter end out of it. -
sylvia, do u know what happened between susan n hong hong before bear stepped in? no so i think we cannot just judge like that. and u don't quite know the previous history and going ons, so u can't just say its because "she agitated honghong simply because she name her as "hong"" so simple.Originally posted by ^sylvia^:oceanos made good point
take a good look guys~
yes meowsusan with a kind personality, poor language? nah i don't think so
she agitated honghong simply because she name her as "hong" and honghong did request her not to use the '' '' to address her, this right or wrong? i think meowsusan partially in fault
and mi lang also not good~ wat wat.. we are fellow forumites dun quarrel liow la~ -
Seems like more n more ppl getting in the pict.
haiz..
I think 1 thing is..
pardon me for saying dis.
this thread shouldn't have started at all.
whoever is related, read twice what everyone's posting here and understand the intention.
and most impt is, not those who persuade this thread to dissolve means we r siding bear huh?
everyone goes for outing, makes friend here, y turn dis place into such an ugly one?
Just a penny of my tots