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is good or bad??Originally posted by xiao_shin:ya last time i do restrict her not to go out with a few guys that wanna to woo her.. but now i already left her go out with her friends liao.... just except for one...
sigz.... maybe u are more sensitive toward things lor.... 
if it is good then learn, if it is bad then learn the good way. -
F.O.SOriginally posted by F.O.S:Can guys view the above another way?
1) did guys in the first place restrict the gals from going out with other guys?
2) are you yourself (guys) like to fling or flirt?
If you had restricted the gals to do so then don't complaint, if you didn't then restrict her too so that she feels the same.
For the blood type, i/c no...... date of so and so....
I have to agree that guys are more careless, but we guys can try to challenge them by making it a habit to write down somewhere, this is very useful for giving you gf a supprise during some special day
XS,
you incident above is a daily bread of all relationship, every couple have differnet ways to solve the problem or leave it aside.
I use to reply my gf for question that I don't know how to answer : " what is that ? can eat or not?" I am to earn a leaving , you are to spent, don't bother me for those thing that cannot make me full.
but another side I will write down everything thing I can that she mind.
my 2 cent worth.
thats gd that u make an effort to small things that some guys dont really care...
not all gals really wan to make a point that their bfs know their minor details.. but just want them to take note.. n the gal will be really surprised that a couple of weeks later u ask agian, they know it. This sometimes shows how "xi xing" u are also.. if the guys doesnt knoe, i guess that its all expected -
dun be surprise that even u can foget wat happen a min ago.. thats real senile...Originally posted by xiao_shin:of course if called a person name for 55 yrs and still can forget then the person must be suffering from senile liao... a min ago is not that serious lah.... maybe a few days or weeks lor.. 
my bf can forget wat happen the day before, n u will be surprise tat he is only in his twenties... -
conclusion :Originally posted by claud:F.O.S
thats gd that u make an effort to small things that some guys dont really care...
not all gals really wan to make a point that their bfs know their minor details.. but just want them to take note.. n the gal will be really surprised that a couple of weeks later u ask agian, they know it. This sometimes shows how "xi xing" u are also.. if the guys doesnt knoe, i guess that its all expected
if a guy do not know, forgetful & careless = Normal (so gals should mad over that)
if a guy is xi xing = add on advantage nothing much. (Guys take note if you can good lor, cannot you are still normal ) -
X_SOriginally posted by xiao_shin:ya last time i do restrict her not to go out with a few guys that wanna to woo her.. but now i already left her go out with her friends liao.... just except for one... sigz.... maybe u are more sensitive toward things lor....
does it shows that its time to buck up on ur relationship??.. just that i think u lack confidence in it.. if there is enough trust u have in ur gf, guess there shouldnt be any prob (provided she really knows where she stands as she knows she is attached already)
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I think its normal, cause I dont bother thing like what I did what I eat .... this make my memory full. as long I don't die can liao.Originally posted by claud:dun be surprise that even u can foget wat happen a min ago.. thats real senile...
my bf can forget wat happen the day before, n u will be surprise tat he is only in his twenties...
I don't even remember my friends name if I don't see them often, I got hard time remember names.
BUT!! try question me over my job or work.
so, it depends you like to remember or not , its not forgetful .... -
Claud,Originally posted by claud:X_S
does it shows that its time to buck up on ur relationship??.. just that i think u lack confidence in it.. if there is enough trust u have in ur gf, guess there shouldnt be any prob (provided she really knows where she stands as she knows she is attached already)
Nice toking to you, seems you understand XS same as me, but hor,
1 question:
relationship first or career first? -
i think basically if meeting ur bf on sat only is applicable to ns men ba..Originally posted by xiao_shin:hmmm... what if u and ur guy onlys meets once in a week leh?? then will u expect him to company u on sat and forbid him to go out with his friends??
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You mean girls don't meet their friends on Sat?Originally posted by claud:i think basically if meeting ur bf on sat only is applicable to ns men ba.. -
who say i dun believe in my gf??? hahaha.. i still believe in her.. and let her go out with her friends what...Originally posted by claud:X_S
does it shows that its time to buck up on ur relationship??.. just that i think u lack confidence in it.. if there is enough trust u have in ur gf, guess there shouldnt be any prob (provided she really knows where she stands as she knows she is attached already) -
den does she believe in u???Originally posted by xiao_shin:who say i dun believe in my gf??? hahaha.. i still believe in her.. and let her go out with her friends what... -
i think so ba.... coz this few months i also never do anyting that breaks her heart or what mah.. so lor.... i never done anything wrong behind her back.Originally posted by claud:den does she believe in u???