Survey for those in a relationship.
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hi all just to check with all those guys and girls in relationship.
Do u guys/girls really keeps promises that u make to the other party?? eg will be like... one month can go out with friends how many times or u tell her what time u reach home then end up lata then what u told her..
And for gals do u think that guys are more absent-minded towards small minor stuff in relationship??? like blood type, bought what clothes at where??
just a little survey all forumites are welcome to join whether got bf/gf a not... give ur views..
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i'm generally very forgetful... not becoz "wa boh sim"... it's i think i suspect i'm suffering from a memory sickness.
getting worse and worse as i grow older. most likely i'll become senile by the age of 55 and my forget what my own name is...
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u are girl??? sorrie ar... then how do ur bf reacts to it??Originally posted by weeeeeee.....:i'm generally very forgetful... not becoz "wa boh sim"... it's i think i suspect i'm suffering from a memory sickness.
getting worse and worse as i grow older. most likely i'll become senile by the age of 55 and my forget what my own name is... 
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where is the survey form?
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no need survey form one lah... u wanna give comments??Originally posted by sgboy2004:where is the survey form?
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Baby sgboy2004
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I guess it's all about give and take...Originally posted by xiao_shin:hi all just to check with all those guys and girls in relationship.
Do u guys/girls really keeps promises that u make to the other party?? eg will be like... one month can go out with friends how many times or u tell her what time u reach home then end up lata then what u told her..
And for gals do u think that guys are more absent-minded towards small minor stuff in relationship??? like blood type, bought what clothes at where??
just a little survey all forumites are welcome to join whether got bf/gf a not... give ur views..
When u make a promise, dun make it an empty one, at least fulfil the basic agreement that is made between the couple.
Most guys are not actually absent minded, should put it in the way that they are just less sensitive towards those so-called promises they made cos they actually tot that it's not a really BIG issue whether to fulfil it or not, it's just a remark at that point of time.
Anyway, in a r/s, acceptance is a factor.
So if you really wanna commit, why bother so much? as long as he's not being too much~ -
yes yes i agree with u.. as a guy point of view.. that's is what my gf say me also...Originally posted by IamAngeline:I guess it's all about give and take...
When u make a promise, dun make it an empty one, at least fulfil the basic agreement that is made between the couple.
Most guys are not actually absent minded, should put it in the way that they are just less sensitive towards those so-called promises they made cos they actually tot that it's not a really BIG issue whether to fulfil it or not, it's just a remark at that point of time.
Anyway, in a r/s, acceptance is a factor.
So if you really wanna commit, why bother so much? as long as he's not being too much~ -
both my bf and I are too old and been through too many relationships to bother abt minor things... and who goes out with who etc... we have our space and so long as there is mutual trust and honesty... can liow...
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Originally posted by xiao_shin:yes yes i agree with u.. as a guy point of view.. that's is what my gf say me also...
THEN next time learn to be more sensitive a bit ba -
Originally posted by weeeeeee.....:i'm generally very forgetful... not becoz "wa boh sim"... it's i think i suspect i'm suffering from a memory sickness.
getting worse and worse as i grow older. most likely i'll become senile by the age of 55 and my forget what my own name is...
hahahah!! weeeeeee..... is ger.......???Originally posted by xiao_shin:u are girl??? sorrie ar... then how do ur bf reacts to it?? -
hmmm... what if u and ur guy onlys meets once in a week leh?? then will u expect him to company u on sat and forbid him to go out with his friends??Originally posted by KittynMeow:both my bf and I are too old and been through too many relationships to bother abt minor things... and who goes out with who etc... we have our space and so long as there is mutual trust and honesty... can liow... -
ya u noe... say is always easlier... sigz... think most guys will be insenstive also one lor....Originally posted by IamAngeline:
THEN next time learn to be more sensitive a bit ba 
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Well, if you really meant it, you dun have to suceed to make her happy. Just a slight improvement she will have another tot of you~Originally posted by xiao_shin:ya u noe... say is always easlier... sigz... think most guys will be insenstive also one lor.... -
i don think guys are forgetful ..... hahaha ... army taught us liao mah...... "act blurr become stonger."
So the trick is to pretend to forget ..... and let it all past..... heeeee -
nope i wun... i would hope he can spend time with me but if he can't then i'll find my own prog. if it carries on for a long time (like over a couple of months), then its time to talk...Originally posted by xiao_shin:hmmm... what if u and ur guy onlys meets once in a week leh?? then will u expect him to company u on sat and forbid him to go out with his friends??
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hahaha... okie okie.. must try..Originally posted by IamAngeline:Well, if you really meant it, you dun have to suceed to make her happy. Just a slight improvement she will have another tot of you~ -
is not that easy if lah.. if u meet one then u will noe liao...Originally posted by stoner:i don think guys are forgetful ..... hahaha ... army taught us liao mah...... "act blurr become stonger."
So the trick is to pretend to forget ..... and let it all past..... heeeee
all the talks is easy but wan to do hor... hahahaha..... -
hmmm... how come u girls can think like that ar... hmmm.... must ask my gf to come in and read... hahahaa...Originally posted by KittynMeow:nope i wun... i would hope he can spend time with me but if he can't then i'll find my own prog. if it carries on for a long time (like over a couple of months), then its time to talk... -
any more sugguestion coming??? dun worry abt saying the wrong things because i pressume that all the other forumites here are all pretty liberate here.. so feel free to give some comments and advice???
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hhmm.. i dun think its tat serious to the extend that ppl called u for 55yrs and u forgot ur name.. most prob u will forget what u did a min a go...Originally posted by weeeeeee.....:i'm generally very forgetful... not becoz "wa boh sim"... it's i think i suspect i'm suffering from a memory sickness.
getting worse and worse as i grow older. most likely i'll become senile by the age of 55 and my forget what my own name is... 
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for a guy to become a little more sensitive...takes ages...Originally posted by IamAngeline:
THEN next time learn to be more sensitive a bit ba -
Can guys view the above another way?Originally posted by xiao_shin:hi all just to check with all those guys and girls in relationship.
Do u guys/girls really keeps promises that u make to the other party?? eg will be like... one month can go out with friends how many times or u tell her what time u reach home then end up lata then what u told her..
And for gals do u think that guys are more absent-minded towards small minor stuff in relationship??? like blood type, bought what clothes at where??
just a little survey all forumites are welcome to join whether got bf/gf a not... give ur views..
1) did guys in the first place restrict the gals from going out with other guys?
2) are you yourself (guys) like to fling or flirt?
If you had restricted the gals to do so then don't complaint, if you didn't then restrict her too so that she feels the same.
For the blood type, i/c no...... date of so and so....
I have to agree that guys are more careless, but we guys can try to challenge them by making it a habit to write down somewhere, this is very useful for giving you gf a supprise during some special day
XS,
you incident above is a daily bread of all relationship, every couple have differnet ways to solve the problem or leave it aside.
I use to reply my gf for question that I don't know how to answer : " what is that ? can eat or not?" I am to earn a leaving , you are to spent, don't bother me for those thing that cannot make me full.
but another side I will write down everything thing I can that she mind.
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of course if called a person name for 55 yrs and still can forget then the person must be suffering from senile liao...Originally posted by claud:hhmm.. i dun think its tat serious to the extend that ppl called u for 55yrs and u forgot ur name.. most prob u will forget what u did a min a go... a min ago is not that serious lah.... maybe a few days or weeks lor.. -
i'm a dory
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ya last time i do restrict her not to go out with a few guys that wanna to woo her.. but now i already left her go out with her friends liao.... just except for one...Originally posted by F.O.S:Can guys view the above another way?
1) did guys in the first place restrict the gals from going out with other guys?
2) are you yourself (guys) like to fling or flirt?
If you had restricted the gals to do so then don't complaint, if you didn't then restrict her too so that she feels the same.
For the blood type, i/c no...... date of so and so....
I have to agree that guys are more careless, but we guys can try to challenge them by making it a habit to write down somewhere, this is very useful for giving you gf a supprise during some special day
XS,
you incident above is a daily bread of all relationship, every couple have differnet ways to solve the problem or leave it aside.
I use to reply my gf for question that I don't know how to answer : " what is that ? can eat or not?" I am to earn a leaving , you are to spent, don't bother me for those thing that cannot make me full.
but another side I will write down everything thing I can that she mind.
my 2 cent worth. sigz.... maybe u are more sensitive toward things lor.... 