Secret and lies in a r/s...
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Who keeps more? Would it usually be the guys or gals!
I say the gals!
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sometimes it's not relli secret or lies
jus censoring of information.............hehehehehe
i wun pinpoint guy or ger tend to do tt more.....
guess it's how much each individual willing to share with their other half......
practise sense and sensibility.......know when to say wat......... -
I think is equal, bcos there is no measurement.
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yup i agree with FI sometimes telling some white lies helps in a relationship also. But only when the guy or gal did nothing very serious to hurt the other parties.Originally posted by FireIce:sometimes it's not relli secret or lies
jus censoring of information.............hehehehehe
i wun pinpoint guy or ger tend to do tt more.....
guess it's how much each individual willing to share with their other half......
practise sense and sensibility.......know when to say wat.........
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ehh.....to clarify....
i dun like lies......nobody does
i want the truth always......if there is something relli no good to tell or tell liao will cause something drastic to happen, then dun say it (censor info).....dunno and dun want to know oso
DON'T LIE -
I only lie about secrets
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okie okie..Originally posted by FireIce:ehh.....to clarify....
i dun like lies......nobody does
i want the truth always......if there is something relli no good to tell or tell liao will cause something drastic to happen, then dun say it (censor info).....dunno and dun want to know oso
DON'T LIE
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Actually I think its the guy now, cause girls tend to get jealous and would'nt let their bf see other gers... so the guy has to lie and say he's with the guys but actually he's out with some ger ger.
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Sk loves gender based discussions!
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sometime white lies also good what.. haha but one thing good about being sinle is that.. i dun even need to telll white lies now.. haha just look at my nick.. hahaha........ last time have to plan my timetable carefully one... now dun need. hahaha
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Strongly Agree~Originally posted by FireIce:ehh.....to clarify....
i dun like lies......nobody does
i want the truth always......if there is something relli no good to tell or tell liao will cause something drastic to happen, then dun say it (censor info).....dunno and dun want to know oso
DON'T LIE -
But i'd prefer him 2 tel mi e truth than 2 lie 2 mi, n i found out e truth... Even worse, rite?Originally posted by :Actually I think its the guy now, cause girls tend to get jealous and would'nt let their bf see other gers... so the guy has to lie and say he's with the guys but actually he's out with some ger ger.
But y in e 1st place u wanna go out wif other gers? If she oso goes out wif other guys, u like meh? -
Hey... shsssh keep it hush hush...Originally posted by Lingos:Sk loves gender based discussions! -
Well, if a guy or gal is going out with the opposite sex just as causal friends, its fine. People in a relationship should be allowed to see their friends.Originally posted by shan_cai:But i'd prefer him 2 tel mi e truth than 2 lie 2 mi, n i found out e truth... Even worse, rite?
But y in e 1st place u wanna go out wif other gers? If she oso goes out wif other guys, u like meh?
But, jealousy gets in the way of people's mind and sometimes, one party might get jealous that the other party keeps seeing this close friend. And gets angry about it and never tells the person not to see the close friend... so its a white lie to say otherwise... -
Sk, it depends hun.
Sometimes the guy lies more -> i've experienced this.
Sometimes I lie more -> heheh. more than one occasion..
like the time when he dropped me off in the city and was supposedly meeting a friend.. when i was..
Never mind.
GUILT STRICKEN face!
watch what you say SK, don't want this to be locked hehhe. -
boils down to personality
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Originally posted by Lingos:
LINGOS! YOU you! You were the one who locked out my post the last time!
Sk, it depends hun.
Sometimes the guy lies more -> i've experienced this.
Sometimes I lie more -> heheh. more than one occasion..
like the time when he dropped me off in the city and was supposedly meeting a friend.. when i was..
Never mind.
GUILT STRICKEN face!
watch what you say SK, don't want this to be locked hehhe.
But, you're forgiven! -
sometimes white lies are bo bian ones. cause some kinds of girls (on the general) likes to make a mountain out of the mole. so no offence all the ladies forumites.
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SK. hehe..
And her stupid response wasn't to be blamed?
heheeh..GIRLS LIE..
Lie about their weight, lie about who they are seeing..
Guys lie.
The whole world is lying! -
No... sorry, nice guys like mua, dun lie! We just tell you the slanted truth.Originally posted by Lingos:SK. hehe..
And her stupid response wasn't to be blamed?
heheeh..GIRLS LIE..
Lie about their weight, lie about who they are seeing..
Guys lie.
The whole world is lying!
Yeah, but its best, not to lie at all, even if its a white lie. Cause, it hurts your crediability, trust with one person, dignity... wah see how much harm and damage it causes!
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Originally posted by xiao_shin:
hehe but girls are not the only ones who will make mountains out of molehills.... heard of guys who do that too....
sometimes white lies are bo bian ones. cause some kinds of girls ([b]on the general) likes to make a mountain out of the mole. so no offence all the ladies forumites. [/b]
Lies or truth?? will anyone swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth??
I will tell the truth... but whether it's the whole truth, it depends on the issue and timing. Sometimes, it's wiser to wait to let the other person know slowly and gently. -
quite truth also lah...Originally posted by KittynMeow:hehe but girls are not the only ones who will make mountains out of molehills.... heard of guys who do that too....
Lies or truth?? will anyone swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth??
I will tell the truth... but whether it's the whole truth, it depends on the issue and timing. Sometimes, it's wiser to wait to let the other person know slowly and gently. -
sk a bit contradicting leh..Originally posted by :No... sorry, nice guys like mua, dun lie! We just tell you the slanted truth.
Yeah, but its best, not to lie at all, even if its a white lie. Cause, it hurts your crediability, trust with one person, dignity... wah see how much harm and damage it causes! -
so sk do u have a conclusion out of this topic??
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Not just credibility.
Sometimes you tell white lies to shoo off people.
If they found out, well its your credibilty.
But is it relevant?
Some people are just gong tao or too urm 'stupid' to undertsand your intentions. So I put them aside. No point saying any further
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