Originally posted by xking:some girls are like that...
U love someone....she expect U to be there when she need U [b]all the time.
BuT U expect same thing sometimes jus sometimes she say U expect too much...wat shit??
Then she can ignore U....but U cant ignore her.
She has to win...she's always right.....she can get angry and throw temper U cannot???
Is there fairness in love??? Not fair...
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Probably U R rite here....Originally posted by Ah Ma:mayb cos u always give in tats y she lidat..sometimes lao hu bu fa wei ta ni shi bing mao.....
canot always give in to girls 1...
yes yes i agree.... but not everytime lah...Originally posted by Ah Ma:mayb cos u always give in tats y she lidat..sometimes lao hu bu fa wei ta ni shi bing mao.....
canot always give in to girls 1...
when she cool down, explain your feeling to her... i think this works on me.... usually will feel very guilty after fa pi qi....Originally posted by xking:Probably U R rite here....
I always give in.... i dun wanna ji jiao so much.....esp she got family problems.... But she abit guo fen lately le..
Abit taboleh tahan liao....
mayb she like u bcos u always give in her n hong her lor...and rely on u too much...tout u always will give in to her 1...girls r lidat 1...cos too spoilt liaoz...mayb u tell her wat u tink nw...see if she gt any changes or nt...if nt, then u shld aso give her some colors to see arbo she climb over ur headOriginally posted by xking:Probably U R rite here....
I always give in.... i dun wanna ji jiao so much.....esp she got family problems.... But she abit guo fen lately le..
Abit taboleh tahan liao....
If it becomes behavioural and unintentionally invoked, it's harder to feel guilty cos the person might think that she right by reacting tat way.Originally posted by Patty:when she cool down, explain your feeling to her... i think this works on me.... usually will feel very guilty after fa pi qi....
Eh buddy, very simple lah.Originally posted by xking:Then after few days i bo hew her.....she come say sorry and all dat..... I mean it's not the point about saying sorry. It's like 4gif and 4get, 4gif N 4get... Then happens again.
It's like i just tired of it...in a way.
Everytime bad mood take me as chu qi tong. It's very "xiong" to me......will get "internal bleeding". If not becoz of all her problems i would've burst out wif her....
Phew....everytime i try to remain calm. Cut the heaty conversation b4 it get out of hand....but each time after putting down the phone i curse and swear. #$%$^%&^&
Originally posted by xking:Then after few days i bo hew her.....she come say sorry and all dat..... I mean it's not the point about saying sorry. It's like 4gif and 4get, 4gif N 4get... Then happens again.
It's like i just tired of it...in a way.
Everytime bad mood take me as chu qi tong. It's very "xiong" to me......will get "internal bleeding". If not becoz of all her problems i would've burst out wif her....
Phew....everytime i try to remain calm. Cut the heaty conversation b4 it get out of hand....but each time after putting down the phone i curse and swear. #$%$^%&^&
yaya ask this guy.... he is the best lah!Originally posted by F.O.S:Xking I have some suggestion and thoughts to share with you , but not here
someone see it and it won't work on her anymore
just go with it first and we should have chance private chat one day
Originally posted by xking:is anything in this world fair??? it maybe fair to u but not to the other party... even in mutual agreement there may not be fairness...
U love someone....she expect U to be there when she need U [b]all the time.
BuT U expect same thing sometimes jus sometimes she say U expect too much...wat shit??
Then she can ignore U....but U cant ignore her.
She has to win...she's always right.....she can get angry and throw temper U cannot???
Is there fairness in love??? Not fair...
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I noe....posting here is just a channel to release the heat....fa xie ma..Originally posted by BufPuf:nothing is fair in love
some1 will give in more..some 1 will take more..
if u choose to be the party who always give in..den dun complain why the other party don't appreciate..
some gers are like tht..the more u give in..the more they will climb it over your head..take it for granted..
sometimes is goot to have your own stand ...
posting here no use 1..coz she won't understand how u feel..try telling her if u feel that she is the 1 for u...