Originally posted by F.O.S:
1st, what you guys think is the main element to maintian relationship?
I thinks is communication and understanding, which is to express yourself and to understand your partner.
If you are able to express yourself without any aid, project the truth of yourself , invlove in gathering and make new friend through friends, classmates and colleagues you were find your Mr / Miss right.
Only you yourself will know who suit you, if you have mix ard and can get along well with friends you won't have the problem getting a partner.
But if you fail , whats make you feel that SDU , matchmake helps?
If you think or your parents think you need to be matchmake, check yourself .
1) Is there any friends of yours that likes to meet up with you regularly, or comfortable being with you. (no need to be opposit sex)
2) What is the problem with you that you can't get along with opposit sex. (put your looks aside)
3) Can you share your feeling , secrets with opposit sex? Is there any of such friend ard you?
If you fail the above, don't waste ppl time.
Maintain Relationship
Nobody is perfect, know yourself and know other. Be considerate make you a perfect couple.
1) must be able to take your partner's nonsense ( there will be something you strongly against but he/she insist doing a stupid thing)
2) Always put yourslef in his /her shoes, don't be calulative. Don't think of "Why he/she can I cannot")
3) Don't do things behind (If he or she dislike thing you do , best don't do )
4) "Perfect" relationship don't have "White Lies", open and share all things happen even you deserve a scolding or a mistake that will ended break off. (If you left thing behind and accumulate will liad to your guilty, soon you will feel you loving him / her just to repay what you have done. (so far nobody I know has done it)
My 5cents towards a worked out relationship.
Many many more , but feel I am out of topic.
Ah Ma, you dying soon don't need lah.
shen ao siah...