How to get along with ppl in the forum?
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if u wen xin wu kui, why do u even have to worry about this at all?
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a) cosying up to our forum guardianOriginally posted by Ah Ma:y premier member
b) Admin need your money, 'less' reasons to kick you out
c) so you wont be bothered by FI everytime you hit something k posts.
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Originally posted by Ah Ma:i only wan get along with chiobu
chiobu wan go dating wit me tell me -
I nv have no problem mixing ard in real life, in my 33yrs this is my first time in forum, I am shock by myself that I reflected so badly myself, I THINK , bcos in forum we don't get to see face and base on writing to understand each others and make friends here, lots of time I really mean joke and in real life when I say the same thing to ppl maybe they can see my reaction I am just joking.Originally posted by FireIce:if u wen xin wu kui, why do u even have to worry about this at all?
I believe I did wrong things like saying "leftover" ...... I did apologised.
Not becos WJ,stoner, and me thinks the same than we are good friend, but after we get to see each other and open ourself to each other we know what we are joking and when we are serious.
While as for the rest, without listen to both side and as long the nick appear to be FOS or friend, is some how black listed.
Well, I guess I created lots of trouble for Stoner and WJ. -
huh?Originally posted by laurence82:a) cosying up to our forum guardian
b) Admin need your money, 'less' reasons to kick you out
c) so you wont be bothered by FI everytime you hit something k posts.
chim
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be true to urself...
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No, i don't hate you. I belong to this cat as well but why should i bother just because i'm least popular here.Originally posted by F.O.S:I belongs to this cat. I better leave
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you talking about me.Originally posted by KittynMeow:nah... not you... but many others... kekeke
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duh... i've never even posted anything to you..Originally posted by 798:you talking about me.
*abish* you want to classify yourself in that category then suit yourself.. i wun stop you... -
i rber this quote...
"people might not remember what you said or done, but they will always remember how you made them feel" -
hmmm.... cannot remember anything... kekekeOriginally posted by FireIce:i rber this quote...
"people might not remember what you said or done, but they will always remember how you made them feel" -
so does that mean forever ??Originally posted by FireIce:i rber this quote...
"people might not remember what you said or done, but they will always remember how you made them feel" -
In ICQ I made many friends and we meet up no problem.Originally posted by 798:No, i don't hate you. I belong to this cat as well but why should i bother just because i'm least popular here.
This is my first time facing this kind of problem, I take whatever feed back from forum to do self reflect of myself, very disappointed with my result.
confuse, shake head..... -
unless u can prove urself and make ppl change their opinion of u?Originally posted by F.O.S:so does that mean forever ?? -
I think change nick is faster right? I mean sometime ppl just condem nick and as long stop flaming and .....Originally posted by FireIce:unless u can prove urself and make ppl change their opinion of u? -
nothing's forever. not good things, not bad things. if you can screw up when people had good impression of u, so u can remedy it. and of course screw up again and so forth. but not too many times lah.Originally posted by F.O.S:so does that mean forever ??
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many nicks with the same sh!t attitude does not make any diff....ppl still will see through it..........Originally posted by F.O.S:I think change nick is faster right? I mean sometime ppl just condem nick and as long stop flaming and ..... -
Fire in the hole!Originally posted by sgboy2004:
*croco blown sky high* -
Hello FOS, don't worry so much lah. One thing I want to say is that the real world and this world is two difference places.Originally posted by F.O.S:I nv have no problem mixing ard in real life, in my 33yrs this is my first time in forum, I am shock by myself that I reflected so badly myself, I THINK , bcos in forum we don't get to see face and base on writing to understand each others and make friends here, lots of time I really mean joke and in real life when I say the same thing to ppl maybe they can see my reaction I am just joking.
I believe I did wrong things like saying "leftover" ...... I did apologised.
Not becos WJ,stoner, and me thinks the same than we are good friend, but after we get to see each other and open ourself to each other we know what we are joking and when we are serious.
While as for the rest, without listen to both side and as long the nick appear to be FOS or friend, is some how black listed.
Well, I guess I created lots of trouble for Stoner and WJ.
Many misunderstandings tend to take place here because, body language, tone of voice, facial expressions, etc. i.e. very important factors during communication, are all absence here.
In real life you may crack a 'dirty' joke and your friends may think that you are funny chap. But in here the same joke may caused some discomfort to some people here.
Maybe, they don't know you well enough, or think that you are trying to be funny. I don't know.
Like what FI said, it is possible to 'read' the person behind the nick. So if you know that ABC doesn't like certain things then don't purposely go and disturb him/her loh.
Like what weidev said, just be yourself, but at the same time, be yourself tactfully, just like in real life.
Just my 2 cents worth, hope you won't mind.
