Who here can forgive....
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WHO CAN ever FORGIVE AND BEAR NO GRUDGES?Originally posted by sillyme:me knows
forgiveness takes more than human effort.. it's not just girls that find it hard.. guys also mah
that's why i said, 'truly' because once we know we know what true forgiveness is.. then we won't say, "i forgive you" unnecessary..
if we really forgive, then we'll bear no grudge, nor use the past against them
wat if i say i can... who will believe? *smiles*
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no one canOriginally posted by anfuni:WHO CAN ever FORGIVE AND BEAR NO GRUDGES?
wat if i say i can... who will believe? *smiles*
those who say they can....they actually can't.....they just dun wanna admit it
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I am inclined to agree with you. Trusting is difficult... trusting again is lagi tough.
Alot of personal sacrifice and determination is needed, to successfully revive a failed relationship due to past infidelity.Originally posted by anfuni:no one can..... those who can are juz subjecting themselves to face the same issue again.... if they have "faint hearts" its advisable not to try it again... -
they stumbling block is that one can never know how (or if it's possible) to truly forgive until they receive true forgiveness..Originally posted by anfuni:WHO CAN ever FORGIVE AND BEAR NO GRUDGES?
wat if i say i can... who will believe? *smiles*
as the saying goes: "to err is human, to forgive divine" -
divine ppl bery good memoryOriginally posted by sillyme:as the saying goes: "to err is human, to forgive divine" -
hehe.. i haven't met any divine humans yetOriginally posted by FireIce:divine ppl bery good memory
hypothetically, if there is such divine person, even if their memory is good.. if they achieve some sort of divinity, then they'd be able to do the 'impossible' thing of forgiving -
Here's my theory: To forgive is not to care.
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being apathetic?Originally posted by choco B:Here's my theory: To forgive is not to care. -
Hmm, I think so. Pretty similar?Originally posted by sillyme:being apathetic?
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budden...Originally posted by choco B:Hmm, I think so. Pretty similar?
if you're apathetic... then how to move on?
unless you're talking about not caring for just an individual lor.. -
Yeah, just for a particular issue. It doesn't bother you, and you move on.Originally posted by sillyme:budden...
if you're apathetic... then how to move on?
unless you're talking about not caring for just an individual lor.. -
True true .. i agree with u..as there is a saying.. "a leopard nv changes its own spot", not trying to pin point on anything, just tat the "victim" will not have that much trust in u again, as there is a tendency to mistakes to be repeated...Originally posted by stoner:your ex BF/GF if they wanna patch things back......
To what extend will you say Yes or No to getting back together.... anyone got any bazzar experience pls share ....
I had a "few" GF ... but I never allowed myself to "go back' to them even if they wanna come back ..... but just recently, I gave in to my last ex..... but it never did last also ......
I felt that reconciliation is futile cus if there is already a crack in the vase, no super glue will mend tat crack... even if u drop the vase again, the other parts don crack, the fault line will surely give way again !
my ex bf's mum even gave me a call to say how much he have change this n that for u.. but wat i can say is that.. u are not the party being involved, u wont know the diff...he knelt outside my house, but wat does it says?? u wont know what he is thinking.... -
if you love a person, you can forgive and not forget
If you don't love the person you can forgive and forget
my 2cents worth. -
perhaps u are rite..Originally posted by F.O.S:if you love a person, you can forgive and not forget
If you don't love the person you can forgive and forget
my 2cents worth. -
best thing i heard from u so far...............Originally posted by F.O.S:if you love a person, you can forgive and not forget
If you don't love the person you can forgive and forget -
thank you thank you , I will keep it upOriginally posted by FireIce:best thing i heard from u so far............... -
That was some move he made.. and u ???? ..... never change your thoughts about going back to him ?!Originally posted by claud:True true .. i agree with u..as there is a saying.. "a leopard nv changes its own spot", not trying to pin point on anything, just tat the "victim" will not have that much trust in u again, as there is a tendency to mistakes to be repeated...
my ex bf's mum even gave me a call to say how much he have change this n that for u.. but wat i can say is that.. u are not the party being involved, u wont know the diff...he knelt outside my house, but wat does it says?? u wont know what he is thinking.... -
It depends on what actually started the break up in the first place.Originally posted by stoner:That was some move he made.. and u ???? ..... never change your thoughts about going back to him ?!
Maybe the guy wants to break with her at first and she is the one begging in front of the guy's door step
so why must she forgive him now? -
alamak... let u find out liao...Originally posted by F.O.S:It depends on what actually started the break up in the first place.
Maybe the guy wants to break with her at first and she is the one begging in front of the guy's door step
so why must she forgive him now?
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This is dam jia lat...... got guts to do .. no guts to admit .....
I think forgiving a person is very EZ..... all it takes is some time .... but to forget .... I would say it is impossible and don really think can especially if you have been hurt over and over again !!! time and time again .. . .. worst still ... by the same person and similar incident !