What is your think of giving birth

• F.O.S

  5 Dec 03, 16:17

  well I think this is all the old man question.
  
  I am 32, according to my plan if I suceed I only will be married again at the age of 37 and above, so if let say I am lucky that my wife gets pregnant (or shot gun lah) I must work and support my kids till about 62 yrs old.
  
  I scared
• bjork

  5 Dec 03, 16:21

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  well I think this is all the old man question.
  
  I am 32, according to my plan if I suceed I only will be married again at the age of 37 and above, so if let say I am lucky that my wife gets pregnant (or shot gun lah) I must work and support my kids till about 62 yrs old.
  
  I scared

  trust me ur wife would love to have her very own children..So good luck to u..
• sgboy2004

  5 Dec 03, 16:22

  buy more insurance.
  
  It is now quite a popular trend that pple are getting married later, esp the more educated ones.
  
  Soon the trend of adoption will set in;maybe that will be another alternative
  
  
• F.O.S

  5 Dec 03, 16:27

  Originally posted by bjork:

  trust me ur wife would love to have her very own children..So good luck to u..

  I know she will surely love to have, but I think of age 62 !! ....
  
  Sometime I really think why not I find a woman with kids about 5-6yrars old now so later hor no need to be so suffer
• F.O.S

  5 Dec 03, 16:28

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  buy more insurance.
  
  It is now quite a popular trend that pple are getting married later, esp the more educated ones.
  
  Soon the trend of adoption will set in;maybe that will be another alternative
  
  

  you selling? I better run
• FireIce

  5 Dec 03, 16:28

  hope to have 1st kid by 28......2nd kid by 30
  
  usually after 32 is considered gao ling chan fu.....no good for mom and baby.......
• bjork

  5 Dec 03, 16:31

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  I know she will surely love to have, but I think of age 62 !! ....
  
  Sometime I really think why not I find a woman with kids about 5-6yrars old now so later hor no need to be so suffer

  say only la, dun u wan ur own kids..
  My aunt is a div too but she re-married. When she did she had three kids oldest is 14 youngster is 7.
  The man she married was younger then her & it was his first marriage.
  But after abt a few years, he wanted to have his own kids badly. Reasons? He was the only child, working hard to feed three kids that are not his.. But by that time my aunt is abt 36, so she refuse.
  hai.. till now they still quarrel over it..
• F.O.S

  5 Dec 03, 16:32

  
  FI what if choi choi you married 35 ?
  
  
• Inzaghi

  5 Dec 03, 16:43

  y wanna have kids??...
• F.O.S

  5 Dec 03, 16:46

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  y wanna have kids??...

  I still haven't figure out why I want to have kid. Maybe I will just because my wife love it.
• FireIce

  5 Dec 03, 16:46

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  FI what if choi choi you married 35 ?
  
  

  too bad loh......
• realitybites

  5 Dec 03, 16:48

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  y wanna have kids??...

  hehe then y dun wan leh
• F.O.S

  5 Dec 03, 16:48

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  too bad loh......

  Too bad means wat will you try to at least have 1?
  
  then hor choi choi you want boy and give you girl then you try and try ended up got 12
• FireIce

  5 Dec 03, 16:49

  FOS:
  
  u sibeh suay chui leh.......
  
  can be more optimistic onot............
• Inzaghi

  5 Dec 03, 16:49

  Originally posted by realitybites:

  hehe then y dun wan leh

  for wat??....
• Inzaghi

  5 Dec 03, 16:50

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  I still haven't figure out why I want to have kid. Maybe I will just because my wife love it.

  u count urself lucky no kids now right?..
• F.O.S

  5 Dec 03, 16:51

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  FOS:
  
  u sibeh suay chui leh.......
  
  can be more optimistic onot............

  sori, you know me actual nick right?
• bjork

  5 Dec 03, 16:51

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  Too bad means wat will you try to at least have 1?
  
  then hor choi choi you want boy and give you girl then you try and try ended up got 12

  boy or girl got difference?
• Inzaghi

  5 Dec 03, 16:52

  Originally posted by bjork:

  boy or girl got difference?

  of cos..boy is boy..girl is girl mah...
• realitybites

  5 Dec 03, 16:52

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  for wat??....

  well for some... it's to "chuan zhong jie da" lor
  
• F.O.S

  5 Dec 03, 16:52

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  u count urself lucky no kids now right?..

  that time with my ex wife stable and settle, I wanted but my ex wife don't want. If I have kid with her I think now I won't divorce.
• Inzaghi

  5 Dec 03, 16:54

  Originally posted by realitybites:

  well for some... it's to "chuan zhong jie da" lor
  

  do u know it cost a lot of $$ to have a kid in sg??..
• bjork

  5 Dec 03, 16:55

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  that time with my ex wife stable and settle, I wanted but my ex wife don't want. If I have kid with her I think now I won't divorce.

  u can be frens with lnz he also dun like kids..
• Inzaghi

  5 Dec 03, 16:55

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  that time with my ex wife stable and settle, I wanted but my ex wife don't want. If I have kid with her I think now I won't divorce.

  me different..i dun wan kid, so i stay away from marriage...
• FireIce

  5 Dec 03, 16:55

  kids make a family complete mah........
  
  and oso.....yang er fang lao........when u old liao got ppl to take care of u.......