What would you do ?
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Let's say that you like this girl, but she's in a relationship with her bf for 3yrs liaoz...though their relationship looks rather unstable..
Knowingly that you like her and both of you can hit-off very well with each other, would you go after her???
Is it the right thing to do??? Or is it not???
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A girl secure in love would never be able to be seduced.
If she got seduced, then there has to be sth wrong wif her r/s.
So go after her by all means, it is your freedom to do, I guess all is fair in war and love
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their relationship may be unstable, but u must make sure he or she really loves u
ever seen one of my fren new stead, was sure she wants to break off with her stead, but not sure whether she love my friend enough...
besides, if u are a guy, ok, but for gal, try to think for the gal
you wouldnt want people to label her cheapr or anything like that if she goes out with u straight after break up.. -
x2.Originally posted by laurence82:you wouldnt want people to label her cheapr or anything like that if she goes out with u straight after break up..
and also take into consideration the pressure that both of u will be gg thru if u are really together. -
hMz...1st time heard of gal kenna seduced..haha..Originally posted by rainee:A girl secure in love would never be able to be seduced.
If she got seduced, then there has to be sth wrong wif her r/s.
So go after her by all means, it is your freedom to do, I guess all is fair in war and love
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Alamak...where got so fast love one.......dun even know if got reach to the stage of "like" or not...haha...Originally posted by laurence82:their relationship may be unstable, but u must make sure he or she really loves u
ever seen one of my fren new stead, was sure she wants to break off with her stead, but not sure whether she love my friend enough...
besides, if u are a guy, ok, but for gal, try to think for the gal
you wouldnt want people to label her cheapr or anything like that if she goes out with u straight after break up..
yealor yealor...that's y....me hor....now thinking of whether shld i chiong or not....if chiong, most prob. can get it...but on the other hand, it doesn't sounds swee leh.....i mean, right...
Esp. on her lor.......me bery "chin cai" de...ppl like to say what, let them say...me bo chup~~ hurhurhur~~~~ -
what pressure wor???Originally posted by browniebaobao:x2.
and also take into consideration the pressure that both of u will be gg thru if u are really together. -
well if you arent friends with her bf .. then why notOriginally posted by dcx:Let's say that you like this girl, but she's in a relationship with her bf for 3yrs liaoz...though their relationship looks rather unstable..
Knowingly that you like her and both of you can hit-off very well with each other, would you go after her???
Is it the right thing to do??? Or is it not??? -
i suggest let them break up naturally first, after all, when they reach this stage they know there is no point going on liao, rather than break up suddenly and then regretOriginally posted by dcx:Alamak...where got so fast love one.......dun even know if got reach to the stage of "like" or not...haha...
yealor yealor...that's y....me hor....now thinking of whether shld i chiong or not....if chiong, most prob. can get it...but on the other hand, it doesn't sounds swee leh.....i mean, right...
Esp. on her lor.......me bery "chin cai" de...ppl like to say what, let them say...me bo chup~~ hurhurhur~~~~ -
I like that....haha....Originally posted by borgkilla:well if you arent friends with her bf .. then why not
Sometimes, the problem doesn't lie on the opp. party, it lies on the person himself/herself...i.e. me lah.......haha.. -
Erm....i've ever thought of tat and expected that it'll happened soon....maybe in less than 6mths...or if faster, less than 3 months....but then...i dun like to wait..........hahaha.......Originally posted by laurence82:i suggest let them break up naturally first, after all, when they reach this stage they know there is no point going on liao, rather than break up suddenly and then regret -
dcx xiong, gan qing shi bu neng mian qiang de.....Originally posted by dcx:Erm....i've ever thought of tat and expected that it'll happened soon....maybe in less than 6mths...or if faster, less than 3 months....but then...i dun like to wait..........hahaha.......
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You have two option:
1) Express your feelings, even though you know she is in a relationship, and risk losing the friendship. However, if she feels for you also, then it is good news for you.
2) Wait. which one may regret if things doesn't turn out well. ie. her relationship with her boyfriend improves. -
lau di....i know cannot mian qiang, but i know how to make it happened....Originally posted by laurence82:dcx xiong, gan qing shi bu neng mian qiang de..... -
sometimes, zuo ren cannot be jueOriginally posted by dcx:lau di....i know cannot mian qiang, but i know how to make it happened....
relationship is all abt love and honesty and all the wonderful things
watever it is, good luck to u in ur quest... -
+1Originally posted by laurence82:i suggest let them break up naturally first, after all, when they reach this stage they know there is no point going on liao, rather than break up suddenly and then regret
was caught in tis situation before...
no point going after e gal whose half a heart is here n there..u will only make e gal n e bf to have more tension n stress..it wld b harder for e gal to come to a RIGHT decision..
being human, u wld find ways to sway e tots of the gal too..isnt v healthy...in my case, i totally see thru e other guy who was tryin to break us up..knowing tat our r.s was unstable, or having some probs..i saw e ugly side of him...
so wat if u suceeded...in e end, e gal might change her mind bout her bf, and wld leave u only heart brokened...false hopes hurts...
for wat u know if tis ugly situation really happens, u guys might not b able to remain as friends anymore.. -
haha...thank you~Originally posted by Deportivo:You have two option:
1) Express your feelings, even though you know she is in a relationship, and risk losing the friendship. However, if she feels for you also, then it is good news for you.
2) Wait. which one may regret if things doesn't turn out well. ie. her relationship with her boyfriend improves.
I'll prefer Choice (1)...it's either i succeed, or i don't......i prefer to go n get an answer rather than to wait wait see see, see monkeys... -
yea~ i know "make ppl" cannot be so heartless....that's y i now in dilema (wrong spelling, i guess), anyway....walk one step see one step...Originally posted by laurence82:sometimes, zuo ren cannot be jue
relationship is all abt love and honesty and all the wonderful things
watever it is, good luck to u in ur quest... -
Hello~ I totally understand what you mean....but then, what if i'm not the only speaking ill of her bf leh??? I mean, she complains abt how her bf treated her..etc.....anyway, to me, (and if you'll to know what kinda guy he's.), well.....he simply sux wor........terrible....i'm not saying that i'm good or fantastic...hopefully you understand what i mean.......Originally posted by alfagal:+1
was caught in tis situation before...
no point going after e gal whose half a heart is here n there..u will only make e gal n e bf to have more tension n stress..it wld b harder for e gal to come to a RIGHT decision..
being human, u wld find ways to sway e tots of the gal too..isnt v healthy...in my case, i totally see thru e other guy who was tryin to break us up..knowing tat our r.s was unstable, or having some probs..i saw e ugly side of him...
so wat if u suceeded...in e end, e gal might change her mind bout her bf, and wld leave u only heart brokened...false hopes hurts...
for wat u know if tis ugly situation really happens, u guys might not b able to remain as friends anymore.. -
pressure like.. whether ur (common) frens will be supportive of ur r/s, whether u can tolerate pple gossiping behind and watever lor..Originally posted by browniebaobao:x2.
and also take into consideration the pressure that both of u will be gg thru if u are really together.
and btw, who is the unlucky girl har? -
How i wish it's you.......Originally posted by browniebaobao:pressure like.. whether ur (common) frens will be supportive of ur r/s, whether u can tolerate pple gossiping behind and watever lor..
and btw, who is the[color=red] unlucky girl har? [/color] -
zhi ke xi ta bu shi woOriginally posted by dcx:How i wish it's you....... 
choy choy choy~!!! Wo cai bu yao ne~!!! -
x2...Originally posted by laurence82:their relationship may be unstable, but u must make sure he or she really loves u
ever seen one of my fren new stead, was sure she wants to break off with her stead, but not sure whether she love my friend enough...
besides, if u are a guy, ok, but for gal, try to think for the gal
you wouldnt want people to label her cheapr or anything like that if she goes out with u straight after break up..
Think for the girl -
hao cai ta bu shi ni.....arbo my life span will be shortened by 20yrs.........phew~Originally posted by browniebaobao:zhi ke xi ta bu shi wo
choy choy choy~!!! Wo cai bu yao ne~!!! -
Originally posted by dcx:hao cai ta bu shi ni.....arbo my life span will be shortened by 20yrs.........phew~
no need to live too long de, see enough, eat enough, learn enough, love enough, enjoy enough, do enough is ENOUGH le.