Some ppl are reserved, some are more sociable...
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Is this an in born character of each individual or can someone who is quiet and reserved be trained to talk well??
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well im lazy to talk haha. sometimes i jus listen but lazy to open my mouth and talk.
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yes, it can be nutured. anyway, the way we are now are what we haven experienced. therefore, if you have the will to change, you can.
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i'm shy
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depends on whu u wif? if those close fren..will tok more lor..haha
stranger...will b quiet cuz me shy. -
I am quite a moody person.
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I'm quite a shy person too. Sometimes even posting threads also makes me shy
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really bo... den i quote u will u get even more shy???Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:I'm quite a shy person too. Sometimes even posting threads also makes me shy -
nature + nurture
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I donno... but someone who cannot even make noise when poked with a needle...Originally posted by xking:Is this an in born character of each individual or can someone who is quiet and reserved be trained to talk well??
He's mute not quiet.
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first, there must be the desire to want to talk well.Originally posted by xking:Is this an in born character of each individual or can someone who is quiet and reserved be trained to talk well??
going through the right training should do the trick
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hmm....I do feel that if u tok really well and convincingly... u can alot of advantages... in most things u do i guess.
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You can't train or change a person if he/she is not willing to.
He or she will only do it when he/she admire, believe you.
Those that are quiet are usually knowing too much or they have no confident in themselve.
Those that talk alot like me , is either talkative, self confident, talk rubbish.
sometimes talk more make more mistakes.
Don't make, train, change a person that is not what they are from young, you might regrate after they changed. -
Definitely. The way you talk is part of your personal image.Originally posted by xking:hmm....I do feel that if u tok really well and convincingly... u can alot of advantages... in most things u do i guess.
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I am very quiet leh, not that i dont like to talk or lack of self confident,i just got nothing to talk with my freind.Originally posted by xking:Is this an in born character of each individual or can someone who is quiet and reserved be trained to talk well?? -
Post threads also will shy. wtf?!Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:I'm quite a shy person too. Sometimes even posting threads also makes me shy -
u can acquire the technique but u can't quite acquire the flair, which is very much innate....
there are ppl who seems shy and quiet.....but with proper guidance and probing, u can release their potential.......this is "kai qiao"... -
i oso heard other ppl say that those that r quite usually knowing too much?but y is taht so? if they know much more then does'nt they have more to talk about?Originally posted by F.O.S:You can't train or change a person if he/she is not willing to.
He or she will only do it when he/she admire, believe you.
Those that are quiet are usually knowing too much or they have no confident in themselve.
Those that talk alot like me , is either talkative, self confident, talk rubbish.
sometimes talk more make more mistakes.
Don't make, train, change a person that is not what they are from young, you might regrate after they changed. -
like going to threapy?is there these type of threapy exist?Originally posted by FireIce:u can acquire the technique but u can't quite acquire the flair, which is very much innate....
there are ppl who seems shy and quiet.....but with proper guidance and probing, u can release their potential.......this is "kai qiao"... -
When a primary boy ask you " do you have a gf" will you tell him in detail of how you chase her, how you get along with gf?Originally posted by Omega-broly:i oso heard other ppl say that those that r quite usually knowing too much?but y is taht so? if they know much more then does'nt they have more to talk about? -
im not that kind that can talk well ..... so i prefer to keep quiet and listen ......
I juz cant express myself well ............
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firstly first... if you're the kind that wants to talk... mixing with a wrong group of frens might be the problem... say for example, some people just keep blabbering and interrupt you whenever you try to talk... afew more times with them and one will start to feel that maybe he/she is not suitable to talk.... and tend to keep quiet... so mix around with people that 'let you talk' or shd i say mix around with people that "are interested with what you are gonna say"... boost ur confidence at times too...