How would you react if.....
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ur mum or dad strongly disapprove ur relationship with your bf/gf???
1) Would you fight it out with them??
2) Would you reason out with them??
3) Would you won't bother abt what your parent's feeling/thinking???
4) Others??? -
Ask them why.
Some people dun want to break their parents' hearts, so do according to what they say..but if I feel that the guy has good character etc, i'm happy with him etc..I will fight it out.
But if the guy can't accept my family, then no point being together. -
ermz..my daddy did told me.."go in poly..muz work hard n study...better dun go n have relationship hor" --> in a very fierce mannerOriginally posted by dcx:ur mum or dad strongly disapprove ur relationship with your bf/gf???
1) Would you fight it out with them??
2) Would you reason out with them??
3) Would you won't bother abt what your parent's feeling/thinking???
4) Others???
Reasoning and fight out wif him i will onli get one tight slap!
so...if i reali hv a relationship..i will keep it secret...dun let them know. -
When you mean "Fight it out"...do you go quarell with them?Originally posted by browniebaobao:Ask them why.
Some people dun want to break their parents' hearts, so do according to what they say..but if I feel that the guy has good character etc, i'm happy with him etc..I will fight it out.
But if the guy can't accept my family, then no point being together.
If let's say they die die also dun approved, how are you going to deal with this situation??? -
hMz...how are you going to maintain this kinda relationship??Originally posted by I-Me-Myself:ermz..my daddy did told me.."go in poly..muz work hard n study...better dun go n have relationship hor" --> in a very fierce manner
Reasoning and fight out wif him i will onli get one tight slap!
so...if i reali hv a relationship..i will keep it secret...dun let them know. -
got no idea oso..cuz haben happen mah...Originally posted by dcx:hMz...how are you going to maintain this kinda relationship??
guy come to my house do project or visit they already ask this n tt le...so cn predict it will be quite jialat. -
ohz...i see...Originally posted by I-Me-Myself:got no idea oso..cuz haben happen mah...
guy come to my house do project or visit they already ask this n tt le...so cn predict it will be quite jialat.
Looks like yuo're quite well-protected by your parents lehz....
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haha...yah..they scare me luan luan lai mah..Originally posted by dcx:ohz...i see...
Looks like yuo're quite well-protected by your parents lehz.... -
y would they object ur r/s with ur bf/gf? i think its cos they still worried about u ending up with the wrong guy/gal. so both of u gonna show to ur parents tat u 2 r not playing ard, serious abt each other. Action speaks louder than words.
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Dear Ah Dee,Originally posted by dcx:ur mum or dad strongly disapprove ur relationship with your bf/gf???
1) Would you fight it out with them??
2) Would you reason out with them??
3) Would you won't bother abt what your parent's feeling/thinking???
4) Others???
It would be best to reason with your parents first. Fighting would not solve anything as the parties involved will be very hot. Nobody can see any reasoning when fighting.
Convince your papa n mama that you truely love the girl and ask why they oppose to your relationship. Reason along their line. Maybe they will see light ba. Afterall, they are your parents. However, do not give up the girl you truely love.
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tell us more about this girl of yours.
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aishey...ah brat...you seems to know my problems lehz...haha...okok...i'll convince my papa & mama to accept ah cind dear....Originally posted by bratpig:Dear Ah Dee,
It would be best to reason with your parents first. Fighting would not solve anything as the parties involved will be very hot. Nobody can see any reasoning when fighting.
Convince your papa n mama that you truely love the girl and ask why they oppose to your relationship. Reason along their line. Maybe they will see light ba. Afterall, they are your parents. However, do not give up the girl you truely love. 
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Don't know I am anwering to your question, just to share my opinion.
I always believe there is a procedure in growing up.
I am the youngest in my family, in their mind I am always young and ignorant.
I had the same problem when I wanted and believe that the gal is the right one to show my parents. I change my behaviour at home, I become caring and repect elder, I talk to them more often and get closer to them. I get more involve in family gethering and have breakfast with them on Sunday morning.
Soon when they find you changing and closer to you, they will feel that you have grown up and trust your decision.
Do this steps even if you have not done so and jump into showing your gf to your family and being rejected. It takes time for others to believe and turst your decision. -
tell them why u're choosing her.... instead of the type they have in mind...Originally posted by dcx:ur mum or dad strongly disapprove ur relationship with your bf/gf???
1) Would you fight it out with them??
2) Would you reason out with them??
3) Would you won't bother abt what your parent's feeling/thinking???
4) Others???
n remind them that.. u're the one livin with her not them...
or you could tell them u got her pregnant.... den 6 mths later when they ask how come her tummy's still so flat.. u say.. she's not pregnant, of course flat lar..
in the mean time.. try to make them change their views about her...
evil hor? -
Never have such problem... my parents always accepted who i chose.
My parents very easy to get along with de. -
Originally posted by dcx:When you mean "Fight it out"...do you go quarell with them?
If let's say they die die also dun approved, how are you going to deal with this situation???
I dun mean quarrel. I mean make myself clear, let them know that is what I want. If quarrel is inevitable, then no choice.
If they die die dun approve..of course must give me a very good reason. If not, that's my own happiness, I'm an adult, I have the right to decide for myself.