would u date a guy 20 years(or more) older than u??
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No proble!! Anytime cum here ba!Originally posted by carpe diem jur:haiz... i'm tired liao.. gotta go to sleep now... i come back tml talk to u again k..?? hahar...!!
gud nyt..
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ehh, u log in already...?? come continue this topic leh...Originally posted by progene:No proble!! Anytime cum here ba! -
I'm here!
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Jus keep postin ur doubts n query la....I can always contnue when I @@ dem...Originally posted by carpe diem jur:ehh, u log in already...?? come continue this topic leh... -
what if u sees this person everyday...?? how would u react knowing very well he/she would definitely talk and look at u...?? avoid..?? someone really close to ur lifestyle leh..................................
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Jus treat him/her as normal fran lor...jus Remem nt to get too involv or else, e "love' feelin will developed...aka ri jiu shen qing.Originally posted by carpe diem jur:what if u sees this person everyday...?? how would u react knowing very well he/she would definitely talk and look at u...?? avoid..?? someone really close to ur lifestyle leh.................................. -
i know this post is a little late considering the last post was on the 6th march.
anyway, the way i see it is, if you feel you want to get into a relationship like this, you have to be prepared. has he been very open with his background? if he has been and has not made promises like he will divorce his wife and others like that then the decision is totally yours.
the only thing you have to know is that you may not have him forever. so you see the decision is all yours.
my suggestion is to keep your options open. enjoy the moment but don't get too attached.
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of course if wants to get involved in this kinda relationship u wouldnt cling on too much hope to it right?? knowing very well in the beginning, why put in hope for ur expectations...?? doesnt mean that it's a fling but juz dont expect loh...Originally posted by frust8ed:i know this post is a little late considering the last post was on the 6th march.
anyway, the way i see it is, if you feel you want to get into a relationship like this, you have to be prepared. has he been very open with his background? if he has been and has not made promises like he will divorce his wife and others like that then the decision is totally yours.
the only thing you have to know is that you may not have him forever. so you see the decision is all yours.
my suggestion is to keep your options open. enjoy the moment but don't get too attached.
thats all i have to say
motive is not to hurt anyone and avoiding didnt help too... so never want the other party to go divorce his wife... believe that both parties wouldnt want disclose this neither....
forever is juz an empty promise to those too blinded in love.... no such thing as forever... and a lifetime is too long to foresee... action proves louder than words, if a couple really meant to be together dan they'll be together.... rather not say a thing than to say "love you forever"..... that's too much to handle... if any party wants to break off, this is gotta be a broken promise and will be a painful scar to hold on to.... thats why during break up people like to say "u hurt mi so badly"... isnt it all becoz of empty promises made when u two are together...???!!! -
Married is a no no lar.... single still can.... but seeing man attending attentively to their kids very attractive huh?! Haha!!
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Married is a no no lar.... single still can.... but seeing man attending attentively to their kids very attractive huh?! Haha!!
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no lah... its juz a discussion loh... hmm... different people got different point of view on this loh, so i juz wanna hear about it...