would u date a guy 20 years(or more) older than u??

• carpe diem jur

  4 Mar 05, 01:20

  would u, gers?? considering that he's married with kids, no future, etc etc...
  
  guys, what are ur point of view??
  
  and what if he's someone u'll haf to see everyday.... such as colleagues, or in sch... or even neighbours..??
• carpe diem jur

  4 Mar 05, 04:26

  how come no one dare to reply huh?? so hard to answer meh??
  haiz...
• shinta

  5 Mar 05, 02:00

  go out in groups, yea.. but date as in interested in him.. nah.. dun tink so
• Camellias4me

  5 Mar 05, 02:06

  Married wif kids?
  Unless im into married men... hell NO!
  If he's 20yrs older, single & im attracted to him... Y not?
• progene

  5 Mar 05, 02:48

  Ans is no...date no...as a group n fran still can....tok to him for advise or wad oso can....but as a couple, NOPE!!!
  
  20yrs gap is too big la!
• shinta

  5 Mar 05, 10:31

  Originally posted by progene:

  Ans is no...date no...as a group n fran still can....tok to him for advise or wad oso can....but as a couple, NOPE!!!
  
  20yrs gap is too big la!

  some more breakin ppl's mariage wor...
• carpe diem jur

  6 Mar 05, 01:16

  true, guys... come to think of it, gers tend to be more attracted to older man loh... i also wondering why my friend is so into that guy... told her no future, nothing good.... see, love is blind~!!
• progene

  6 Mar 05, 04:30

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  true, guys... come to think of it, gers tend to be more attracted to older man loh... i also wondering why my friend is so into that guy... told her no future, nothing good.... see, love is blind~!!

  Yar...gals lik mature men ma!! N most men mature onli when they reach late 30s n above....
• Patrik

  6 Mar 05, 04:41

  Guys mature slower than girls?
  All guys want now is to have fun.
  All girls want now is to find someone rich.
  
• carpe diem jur

  6 Mar 05, 04:42

  Originally posted by progene:

  Yar...gals lik mature men ma!! N most men mature onli when they reach late 30s n above....

  yes, dats why... see the reason..??
  
  but older guys wouldnt like younger gers right??
• progene

  6 Mar 05, 04:42

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Guys mature slower than girls?
  All guys want now is to have fun.
  All girls want now is to find someone rich.
  

  hmm.....
• carpe diem jur

  6 Mar 05, 04:46

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Guys mature slower than girls?
  All guys want now is to have fun.
  All girls want now is to find someone rich.
  

  i agree that guys sometimes juz want haf fun....
  but gers do not go for someone rich...
  
  i wouldnt mind even if the person i love is not earnin a reasonable sum of income... no need to support mi, i can support myself... no need to feel inferior, coz i dont spilt between U or Me... in a relationship is U & Me....
• progene

  6 Mar 05, 04:46

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  yes, dats why... see the reason..??
  
  but older guys wouldnt life younger gers right??

  Y not?? Let say u' re in ur 30s or 40s...den got 1 gal who is 20s like u....what wld u feel and do?
  
  Wld u stay away from her despite u're still single or wld u go aft her since both of u hav liking...
  
  But of cos, other factors to consider lik does she lik u bcos of ur $$$ or person?
• progene

  6 Mar 05, 04:48

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  i agree that guys sometimes juz want haf fun....
  but gers do not go for someone rich...
  
  i wouldnt mind even if the person i love is not earnin a reasonale sum of income... no need to support mi, i can support myself... no need to feel inferior, coz i dont spilt between U or Me... in a relationship is U & Me....

  True...I agreed...
• carpe diem jur

  6 Mar 05, 04:49

  Originally posted by progene:

  Y not?? Let say u' re in ur 30s or 40s...den got 1 gal who is 20s like u....what wld u feel and do?
  
  Wld u stay away from her despite u're still single or wld u go aft her since both of u hav liking...
  
  But of cos, other factors to consider lik does she lik u bcos of ur $$$ or person?

  true lah... but if actions proves that she really not going for ur money...?? really like u for who u are...?? wat do u think??
  
  and somemore she's someone very close to ur lifestyle.... and all along she've been sincere and honest... if u are that guy, wat would u do..??
• Patrik

  6 Mar 05, 04:52

  Accept him.
• progene

  6 Mar 05, 04:55

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  true lah... but if actions proves that she really not going for ur money...?? really like u for who u are...?? wat do u think??
  
  and somemore she's someone very close to ur lifestyle.... and all along she've been sincere and honest... if u are that guy, wat would u do..??

  Hmm..I will consider am I suitable for her...Am I too old for her...Am I gd enuff for her as I'm older den her many many yrs...Can she find a younger, better man den me?
  
  Oso, I will seek her opinion, hw does she @@ all tis tink.....
  
  If everytink goes well, Den I go ahead! Tis is my life, I chose who I wanna be wif. If we chose both one another as a partner, den no regrets!
  
  Provided all tis is within age limit(e.g There's onli 10yrs differ in our age, e age gap too big, problems may occur in e future!)
• carpe diem jur

  6 Mar 05, 04:59

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Accept him.

  hahar..!! so easy hor...!!
  
  so cute la u..
• carpe diem jur

  6 Mar 05, 05:02

  ehh, guys ah, did u read above my post anot..?? he's MARRIED sia...!! hahahaahar...!! damn... that means its an affair or relationship..??
• carpe diem jur

  6 Mar 05, 05:04

  so now the discussion is no longer about age gap.... its about hurting many people involved.... what u think of this kinda ger?? slut??
• progene

  6 Mar 05, 05:13

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  ehh, guys, did u read above my post anot..?? he's MARRIED sia...!! damn... that means its an affair or relationship..??[/u]

  Dat mean is a Big No liao lor!!
  
  1st he married!! (Got kid or not is oso a big issue, but let imagine he got no kids)
  
  Married for hw many yrs does'nt matter cos no matter wad, e gal is still 3rd party.... A wife is always a wife!
  
  Whether anot he n his wife realtionship gd or bad doesn'nt gif u any chance of being a 3rd party!!! A 3rd party always in e wrong end!
  
  So wad he say to u dat his wife n him relation beri bad liao...but not due to u...U sure hav sum influence in it! A man can b bad to anybody, but nt to his wife as they vow their marrage..there're husband n wife thru paper n law....
  
  If let say he divoice his wife to b wif u...tis type of man, I tink u can 4get it liao....Wad make u so sure dat he won't divoice u to marry another gal....
  
  Oso e gal a fault as u already noe dat he gt wife liao, yet u had affair wif him.....I noe matters of e heart is beri diff to control so if really hav affair wif him den dun get too involve in it...jus treat it as....
  
  you yuen wu fen, a ONS or sumtink.....
• carpe diem jur

  6 Mar 05, 05:15

  Originally posted by progene:

  Dat mean is a Big No liao lor!!
  
  1st he married!! (Got kid or not is oso a big issue, but let imagine he got no kids)
  
  Married for hw many yrs does'nt matter cos no matter wad, e gal is still 3rd party.... A wife is always a wife!
  
  Whether anot he n his wife realtionship gd or bad doesn'nt gif u any chance of being a 3rd party!!! A 3rd party always in e wrong end!
  
  So wad he say to u dat his wife n him relation beri bad liao...but not due to u...U sure hav sum influence in it! A man can b bad to anybody, but nt to his wife as they vow their marrage..there're husband n wife thru paper n law....
  
  If let say he divoice his wife to b wif u...tis type of man, I tink u can 4get it liao....Wad make u so sure dat he won't divoice u to marry another gal....
  
  Oso e gal a fault as u already noe dat he gt wife liao, yet u had affair wif him.....I noe matters of e heart is beri diff to control so if really hav affair wif him den dun get too involve in it...jus treat it as....
  
  you yuen wu fen, a ONS or sumtink.....

  hmmm... very true... but ONS cannot lah... u knew it in the first place still ONS doesnt that makes u a s*ut..??
• progene

  6 Mar 05, 05:17

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  so now the discussion is no longer about age gap.... its about hurting many people involved.... what u think of this kinda ger?? slut??

  Actually...not her fault oso...as it take 2 hand 2 clap...e ger might b attract to him for sum reason den tis man oso xing dong here n there...
  
  But he shd nt do it, as he already committed to his wife...so...both party gt fault!
  
  But as they all say, Love is blind!!
  
  But hurtin ppl to make urself happy, is a NO!!
• carpe diem jur

  6 Mar 05, 05:20

  Originally posted by progene:

  Actually...not her fault oso...as it take 2 hand 2 clap...e ger might b attract to him for sum reason den tis man oso xing dong here n there...
  
  But he shd nt do it, as he already committed to his wife...so...both party gt fault!
  
  But as they all say, Love is blind!!
  
  But hurtin ppl to make urself happy, is a NO!!

  haiz... i'm tired liao.. gotta go to sleep now... i come back tml talk to u again k..?? hahar...!!
  
  gud nyt..
• progene

  6 Mar 05, 05:21

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  hmmm... very true... but ONS cannot lah... u knew it in the first place still ONS doesnt that makes u a s*ut..??

  As I say, Matters of e heart beri diifcult to control at times...U may love sum1, but along e way, u might b attracted to others...den u may tempt....
  
  U may noe is a wrong ting...but beri diffcult to control....
  
  I noe ONS cannot n is wron...but if realli, suay suay ONS liao leh...den hw? Jus treat it a lesson lor...Jus dun do it again lor!
  
  Love is Blind!