Dear Auntie Fos Part II
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My male friend bought me some gifts and treated me to a meal and then my female friends tell me that he loves me and is interested in me. But I call him 'brother' and he call me 'xiaomei' what. How? I scared he really is like what they say leh?
Please help.
Confused Girl,
Otingocni. -
What is there to scare, isn't it good when someone likes you?
Wait till he propose to you then you start worry, now is too early and get yourself maru if he is not really like you.
Question :
you yourself like him or not? -
I am working in sales line mah, but he waited for me since 6pm to join me for dinner after I knock off. My colleagues and regular customers also say he likes me. I donno what to do..
Confused girl,
Otingocni -
He waited for me from 6pm to 930pm. In fact he even bought a pair of cute toys to add on the handphone, one for him and one for me. Now after what my friends, customers say, I really scared he like me cos I treat him like a big brother all the time.Originally posted by Otingocni:I am working in sales line mah, but he waited for me since 6pm to join me for dinner after I knock off. My colleagues and regular customers also say he likes me. I donno what to do..
Confused girl,
Otingocni
Confused girl,
Otingocni -
how he treat you doesn't mean he likes you, he might be no gal friend.
As long you yourself don't treat him more than what a sister suppose to be.
you should know what a sister should do and not to do.
Don't take advantage of him, this will make him feel you like him.
what advantage :
ask him don't need to wait for you
once a while buy him dinner or go on dutch.
do everything spread, don't ask him do free for you.
Draw a line indirectly. -
I really dont know wor, but I never take advantage of him.Originally posted by F.O.S:how he treat you doesn't mean he likes you, he might be no gal friend.
As long you yourself don't treat him more than what a sister suppose to be.
you should know what a sister should do and not to do.
Don't take advantage of him, this will make him feel you like him.
what advantage :
ask him don't need to wait for you
once a while buy him dinner or go on dutch.
do everything spread, don't ask him do free for you.
Draw a line indirectly.
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Draw a line with the guy, don't keep him in suspend. Give other gal a chance , you don't like him, please give the chance to others.Originally posted by Otingocni:I really dont know wor, but I never take advantage of him.
Maybe you should introduce your girlfriends to him, I think that a good hint and yet can maintain friendship
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if u have to, remember to use croco brand condy...Originally posted by Otingocni:I really dont know wor, but I never take advantage of him. -
I tried, but somehow, he seemed uninterested.Originally posted by F.O.S:Draw a line with the guy, don't keep him in suspend. Give other gal a chance , you don't like him, please give the chance to others.
Maybe you should introduce your girlfriends to him, I think that a good hint and yet can maintain friendship -
get a common friend of the same sex with him to talk to him lor.Originally posted by Otingocni:I tried, but somehow, he seemed uninterested. -
Since now you just suspect and he is not giving you any direct hint, just be it.Originally posted by Otingocni:I tried, but somehow, he seemed uninterested.
You will make the friendship sour if you avoid him obviously.
don't turn up all his dating or outing, try to turn up 1/5 times, if you did 5/5 you only make him feel you mind and feel about him. -
Sometime change your plane to go out with other last mintue to make him feel he is not important.
He should feel some impact. -
Here's the problem... he got suicidal intent 1... I scared if I put aeroplane he think too much then slash his wrists...Originally posted by F.O.S:Sometime change your plane to go out with other last mintue to make him feel he is not important.
He should feel some impact. -
If you think he is hinting don't response, if you think he is not hint then bring few friends along for all outing.Originally posted by Otingocni:Here's the problem... he got suicidal intent 1... I scared if I put aeroplane he think too much then slash his wrists...
maybe bring him to join us for outing , let him choose more varity.
We will show him there are many gals better than you
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help auntie fos! my hobby is knitting...i like to poke guys with knitting needles
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poor poor dinoOriginally posted by Ah Ma:help auntie fos! my hobby is knitting...i like to poke guys with knitting needles
no wonder he so much wounds and needle holes.. -
long time no see u, when can i practise knitting on uOriginally posted by xking:poor poor dino
no wonder he so much wounds and needle holes.. -
when you have the urge, poke yourself once before you poke the guys 10 times, you will be heel after 100 sessions.Originally posted by Ah Ma:help auntie fos! my hobby is knitting...i like to poke guys with knitting needles -
serious problem here...
my colleagues (manager level) have all get a cute thumb drive 256mb each to work on their projects - mobility to transport work frm hm n to work..(which means more work)...then me and 2 other colleagues suppose to share 2 thumb drives .......my supervisor has her own thumb drive so she gave her brand new 1 to me bcos she aso know i goin to start on a major project & i used thumb drive quite often so nt convenient to share...then my 2 other colleagues who are sharing with me...one of them is unhappy when i got the 256mb thumb drive n she oni gt the 128mb one....she dn enjoy the previledge of having her own thumb drive yet she is unhapy abt the smaller capacity allocated to her.. and also i am the one ordering n buying the thumb drives & she was blaming me y i didnt ordered more 256mb ones.. i then told her that the approving officer disapproved cos too many quantities got internal control wat...anyway she aso nt happy nw.....seeing me take the 256mb and seeing my position lower than her..i tink she is mad...just nw i gave her the acknowledge assets form to sign when i give her the thumb drive she dont even wana sign & return me back....she say she is busy at the moment....
u say she xia lan or nt..nabei tink i gian ahh the stupid thumb drive..i no money to buy meh..kns..pui give me thumb drive oni increase my workload so that we no excuse to say canot bring work to hm ...aiya i dn see the point of angry...she wan i can dump the thumb drive at her face nabeiz...ka wa xialan ...nv die before..kns.. -
you are venting your anger not throwing aproblemOriginally posted by Ah Ma:serious problem here...
my colleagues (manager level) have all get a cute thumb drive 256mb each to work on their projects - mobility to transport work frm hm n to work..(which means more work)...then me and 2 other colleagues suppose to share 2 thumb drives .......my supervisor has her own thumb drive so she gave her brand new 1 to me bcos she aso know i goin to start on a major project & i used thumb drive quite often so nt convenient to share...then my 2 other colleagues who are sharing with me...one of them is unhappy when i got the 256mb thumb drive n she oni gt the 128mb one....she dn enjoy the previledge of having her own thumb drive yet she is unhapy abt the smaller capacity allocated to her.. and also i am the one ordering n buying the thumb drives & she was blaming me y i didnt ordered more 256mb ones.. i then told her that the approving officer disapproved cos too many quantities got internal control wat...anyway she aso nt happy nw.....seeing me take the 256mb and seeing my position lower than her..i tink she is mad...just nw i gave her the acknowledge assets form to sign when i give her the thumb drive she dont even wana sign & return me back....she say she is busy at the moment....
u say she xia lan or nt..nabei tink i gian ahh the stupid thumb drive..i no money to buy meh..kns..pui give me thumb drive oni increase my workload so that we no excuse to say canot bring work to hm ...aiya i dn see the point of angry...she wan i can dump the thumb drive at her face nabeiz...ka wa xialan ...nv die before..kns..
anyway, if you are storing Excel sheet and Words Document, a 128 Thumb drive is more than enough to kill you.
if you get insufficent space you will sure remember to store in in your office and home everyday to clear the space, if you have more memory you will clear it once a while. When you lost it, small memory lost less data and to buy back it will be cheaper.
argue over 128 and 256 is very Auntie, who can use a small memory and do the most things will score point, so the end result the management see is who can produce result not who has the rank to carry 256MB.
If you can produce better result with either 128 or 256MB is more than enough to disgrace her. -
Well, I will try to get him to attend more outings, but when I do get him to agree, I will request this thread to be removed.Originally posted by F.O.S:If you think he is hinting don't response, if you think he is not hint then bring few friends along for all outing.
maybe bring him to join us for outing , let him choose more varity.
We will show him there are many gals better than you
Confused Girl,
Otingocni. -
okOriginally posted by Otingocni:Well, I will try to get him to attend more outings, but when I do get him to agree, I will request this thread to be removed.
Confused Girl,
Otingocni.