i think i'm pregnant...
-
can i give birth but dont get married first??Originally posted by theSquelch:if you've decided to keep the kid
there are always solutions
since you already planned to marry next year
you can get married earlier
and when you give birth next year
your boyfriend would have graduated and would be working
Or
get married
have the baby next year
give it up for adoption
continue with both your career plans
maybe u guys upon hearing this find it weird to have this thinking, but which ger doesnt wish to get married in a 'proper' way instead of getting married coz of tiao kia.... right??
but can my bf's name be register in the child's birth cert if we are not legally married?? -
No... Your have to be married otherwise you are a single parentOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:can i give birth but dont get married first??
maybe u guys upon hearing this find it weird to have this thinking, but which ger doesnt wish to get married in a 'proper' way instead of getting married coz of tiao kia.... right??
but can my bf's name be register in the child's birth cert if we are not legally married?? -
Applicant Nick : F.O.S
Male / Female : Male
Age : 33
Salary : $10,000 and above (Must be 3K and above)
Years of service in your currently coy : none, but willing to sacrifice and learn
Position applying : (God father /Godmother/Stepfather/Stepmother)
knowledge in baby sitting? :Chang pampers? milk making? BREAST feeding? (please descibe within 160 words)
two words enuf lah... NO PORBLEM~!!! -
can i think... not quite sure but my frenes underage shotgun also give birth but cant married cos the gal mother somewhere in malaysia... ask my frene he say the birth cert settle liao dunno wat he means la...Originally posted by carpe diem jur:can i give birth but dont get married first??
maybe u guys upon hearing this find it weird to have this thinking, but which ger doesnt wish to get married in a 'proper' way instead of getting married coz of tiao kia.... right??
but can my bf's name be register in the child's birth cert if we are not legally married?? -
Originally posted by carpe diem jur:
Applicant Nick : F.O.S
Male / Female : Male
Age : 33
Salary : $10,000 and above (Must be 3K and above)
Years of service in your currently coy : none, but willing to sacrifice and learn
Position applying : ([b]God father /Godmother/Stepfather/Stepmother)
knowledge in baby sitting? :Chang pampers? milk making? BREAST feeding? (please descibe within 160 words)
two words enuf lah... NO PORBLEM~!!!
[/b]
Wanna have coffee with me later?
call me -
sure, why not?
it's your life, do it anyway you wantOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:can i give birth but dont get married first??
maybe u guys upon hearing this find it weird to have this thinking, but which ger doesnt wish to get married in a 'proper' way instead of getting married coz of tiao kia.... right?? -
Can... But she would become a single mumOriginally posted by theSquelch:sure, why not?
it's your life, do it anyway you want -
better don't ever do abortion.. u will regret it....... keep the baby..... don't care who ever ppl say u... u n ur bf must be strong.
-
Ya.. It is disasterous to the mind after abortion... You feel gulity of killing your childOriginally posted by kangaroo83:better don't ever do abortion.. u will regret it....... keep the baby..... don't care who ever ppl say u... u n ur bf must be strong. -
no flaming please.
in some case, is rather killing the child than killing yourself. -
In fact, you have to watch a video on thatOriginally posted by sbst275:Ya.. It is disasterous to the mind after abortion... You feel gulity of killing your child -
What if the below happens to her?
She quit her study and give birth to the baby
She did not ROM with the bf
after a year the bf left her?
she lost her study and work in night clubs rise the child and when the child grow up disown her
that is the worst I can think of
-
Originally posted by F.O.S:What if the below happens to her?
She quit her study and give birth to the baby
She did not ROM with the bf
after a year the bf left her?
she lost her study come and work in night clubs rise the child and when the child grow up disown her
that the worst I can think of -
how do you know she won't give it up for adoption?Originally posted by sbst275:Can... But she would become a single mum
-
Maybe she will leave up her nick, go coffee tiam sit and become Tiger Woman selling beer
-
If she keeps it, that would happenOriginally posted by theSquelch:how do you know she won't give it up for adoption? -
Actually I'm lucky
-
take responsibility for your own actions...it's up to u n ur bf to work things out n for u to decide...i m sure u r a responsible adult...we shld not influence ur decision....it's ur own life n a baby'sOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:how?? i dont want abort leh... i had a miscarriage before... although both mi and my bf are planning for marriage next year, and we both love to have our own kids, but we are not ready now for a kid~!!! financially not stable yet and we would like to build our career first before anything....
wah piangz~~!! i'm currently taking my degree liao leh...if really pregnant should give up studies or give up baby?? i cant bear to part with both loh... i had a hard time before coming to this stage in my studies, and both my bf and mi had our plans for our career... i very ambitious one loh....how how how???
sobb... i very confused leh... HELP~~!! -
i've also heard stories
of young mothers
who are children themselves
too young and immature to handle the responsibility
children breeding children, breeding children
hdb stairways are such convenient dumping groundsOriginally posted by _Aaron_:I've heard stories of women having delusions after aborting their baby, and many who regretted and cried after aborting their baby... but its too late. -
Is either you become a Caree woman or Tiger woman
-
it's quite likely ur bf will leave in the near future i think...Originally posted by F.O.S:What if the below happens to her?
She quit her study and give birth to the baby
She did not ROM with the bf
after a year the bf left her?
she lost her study and work in night clubs rise the child and when the child grow up disown her
that is the worst I can think of -
Originally posted by theSquelch:i've also heard stories
of young mothers
who are children themselves
too young and immature to handle the responsibility
children breeding children, breeding children
hdb stairways are such convenient dumping grounds 
You irresponsible -
i think inhaling too much bus exhaust fumes
has affected your reading comprehensionOriginally posted by sbst275: You irresponsible -
I am angry with his last sentenceOriginally posted by theSquelch:i think inhaling too much bus exhaust fumes
has affected your reading comprehension -
Originally posted by theSquelch:i think inhaling too much bus exhaust fumes
has affected your reading comprehension